Posted: 10 March 2011 at 6:28am | IP Logged
Lets have another DOTW on the lovely forum of
Dhoond Legi Manzil Humein
And the topic is:
Love, Respect or Responsibility for us
As most of us are on the verge of experiencing the true bits of life, lets have a chit chat here.
We live in a soceity , where we get respect from others and in return we also give them their desired respect. Also, there are many things that we are responsible of. Consider, our parents have always tried to give us the best possible things in our life , be it education , trendy dresses and of course good etiqquettes. So, in some way we are responsible to be good children and better citizens.There is also a strong bond of love , that connects our hearts together.
We live in 21st century and want to live life on our own way. But, consider a situation , like in the show" Dhoond Legi Manzil Humein", if we are asked by our parents to join some thing of their choice ( as Abhishek is asked by his father to join politics), will it be wrong from them to expect something from us? or be it Alka , who is told by her father to break her relationship with Chander , as its going to hurt their respect as well as of Alka in the soceity?
Lets consider it from a different angle. Will it be a correct decision by Alka to abandon Chander considering her father's position or may be her's own.Will she be doing the best thing to let her love die considering the level difference between them? Should Abhishek do the same thing to Nandini and make life unbearable for Nandini and her dad?
Atlast, think about the parents ,from the angle of Mr. and Mrs. Tiwari , who did the best possible things for their children, but knows neither Abhishek nor Alka will listen to them and in this way Abhishek will finally ruin his career and Alka will not get Happiness in her life ( after Chander's death , she will not marry anybody and her parents have to see her crying for Chander).
So, considering yourself in the same soceity, what will be your answer, which is correct, should we forget responsibility and choose love over respect or lead the life as we want and sometime makes other responsible for it?