~ll DOTW ll~ Love, respect or responsibility 4 us

Originally posted by: ozzy88

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 We live in 21st century and want to live  life on our own way. But, consider a situation , like in the show" Dhoond Legi Manzil Humein", if we are asked by our parents to join some thing of their choice ( as Abhishek is asked by his father to join politics), will it be wrong from them to expect something from us? or be it Alka , who is told by her father to break her relationship with Chander , as its going to hurt their respect as well as of Alka in the soceity? Life shouldn't be about respect, about what others think. We have our lifes, and we should live it to the full, By marrying Chander, Alka wont hurt their respect, yes Chander was born in a poor family, but what about him as a person? He is a kind, caring guy, and in a way better than Abhishek. It is wrong of NNT to think that Alka should only do what he chooses. Same with Abhishek, maybe he has talents, or he doens't like something, he souldnt be pressured into doing it, he isnt a kid anymore, he sould be able to make his own decisions.

Lets consider it from a different angle. Will it be a  correct decision by Alka to abandon Chander considering her father's position or may be her's own.Will she be doing the best thing to let her love die considering the level difference between them? Should Abhishek do the same thing to Nandini and make life unbearable for Nandini and her dad? NO! As I said before, life isnt about status and respect! Both of them should be able to be with the one they love.

Atlast, think about the parents ,from the angle of Mr. and Mrs. Tiwari , who did the best possible things for their children, but knows neither Abhishek nor Alka will listen to them and in this way Abhishek will finally ruin his career  and Alka will not get Happiness in her life ( after Chander's death , she will not marry anybody and her parents have to see her crying for Chander). But so what? It will be their own choic,e they kharabofied their lives, not the parents.....and Alka will have her memories of Chander, to cherish, and ofcourse she'll mourn, but she'll enter politics and make the lives of a 1000 other ppl better, which her parents should be proud of. And if Abhishek wrecks his career, it'll be NNT's fault.

So, considering yourself in the same soceity, what will be your answer, which is correct, should we forget responsibility and choose love over respect  or lead the life as we want and sometime makes other responsible for it? We should be able to live the life we want, but without harming others.....responsibility is good, but sometimes the responsibility-giver, isnt a good person, we cant always do whatever we are told, as there is nothing I hate more than Blind faith/trust

Originally posted by: rajin90

ozzy88 did you start to watch this show just few days ago

because there are huge misconceptions in your statements

that is all i want to say

Originally posted by: ozzy88

I think you seem to be lost somewhere that you are having misconceptions with everyone in this forum.