A big reason for the breakdown in the communication between Kriya is Prats's approach to their marriage with the fundamental premise .......... he doesn't get it. He is either unpud, ziddi, not capable of understanding her.........all a bunch of negatives. WIth that attitude guess what she will always prove herself right. Krishna always wants to chat and hover over his Babu so any smart woman will use that to her advantage and try to get her point across. Why not assure him by showing him the way to successfully find a "kanooni" job. She managed to prove her point with the article. Her actions say "look you dared me and I rose to the challenge and made money. I won, you have failed. . Somewhere deep inside Prats is a need to prove Krishna wrong......be it his way of thinking, his attitude in some situations or his ziddi. If she really wants to effect change in him, this isn't the way.
When she gets angry, it actually stirs him to action. He is possessive, so use that to her advantage. He can't dare to see her cry yet when compared to salving his ego, brushing off his fears and what not, Prats's tries take the back seat. Bottom line there is a streak of selfishness/strong ego that both want to hold on to. Happy marriages don't hold on to egos. Who will surrender to the greater good of making their marriage a happy one?
Edited by MERARAI - 13 years ago
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