Kool's Commentary : 28 Feb PR - Page 5

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

But then to be honest,I was quite disappointed  with archu after that. Even after sulo pointed out something was wrong, why archu didn't discuss it well with manav and came to a solution.
I wouldn't say she was so wrong or Dumb(she may do it tomorrow), but as I expect it to see that and a solution for sav aai's condition soon,I was quite Disappointed .Nowdays umi Im indifferent to Archu . Neither do I feel happy nor sad . Somewhere I felt her happiness on the terrace while Savita slept in that curled up Posture was very inappropriate in todays episode . The woman slept hungry while these 3 laughed and ate ????Who IS the script writer ?

Exactly Di,even I felt the same while watching it .I thought they would be discussing the problems seriously and will find out the possible ways to solve it.Oh god but what is shown .Its ok you are trying to make him eat, thats fine  but is such a scene needed. why not show that they  too feeling bad about what happened and some what after much hesitation having their dinner silently. nothing of that sort. one side a happy dinner and on one side a miserable mom couldn't eat her food. Again I would say this is so not the way. Even I was fed up with the Scriptwriter.nothing seems appropriate or relevant these days.



I dont know what Manav is upto. its manav who stopped archu from going in the first scene and being stubborn(This much stubborn ). But you know di ,I have seen such good hearted people being so much stubborn or I would say egoistic.

For eg, You know Di ,My dad is good to all people around(in his office & to relatives), but when it comes to my mom he is quite egoistic or stubborn where as a issue is concerned that too when it is big one.
when my mom is not well ,he takes very good care of her like every husband would do(thats why even my mom's sister/bro will never believe when my mom says he will not listen). But at the same time when a decision is considered , his is only final (like manav do). after so much talk with him ,he will listen to me or us. But then I would say its my mom fault. She used to say that was one thing I liked about your dad.
(So he has Gone scott free. Hope My dad dont see this post.😃😳)😆Omg Umi ur so sweet . Hahaha ! I laughed so much THANK U .

U laughed a lot Di.  then its my pleasure.


And as Tanya Di said in SOTD, I too believe and wish that archu is the one needed right now in Deshmukhs house and not manav the son alone. Its needs a Girl to make that house into home.
To take care of everything. (you see that day na di,how archu started cleaning the mess hile sav as thrown everything).Umi darling the CVS have butchered Manav only to lay the ground for Archu stepping in and taking over .I have no doubt of Archus goodness but If they cud keep Archus character so consistent why not Manavs ? He too was the Lead . Where is HE now ?

Di , its the problem with Cv's . Manav character need not  be butchered to lay the way for archu getting into D's and taking over.  Even now he  can go to his house and visit his aai alone, can understand the current circumstances and then by himself decide and took archu over there(will archu oppose?No) . then archu can take her place. I said her place di, Manav as his own place there. They have their uniqueness in D's house. Manav can take care of his aai when he is at home,when he lefts for work,other as to take care of na,so archu would do it. and she will take care of others too.
Manav taking care of sav and archu taking care of sachu,Damo and house itself sufficient to change savita aai's heart. It need not be archu alone to take care of sav.

Always only want this ,one need not shine in others cost.I want both to be as they are.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

 

did u feel it was right what happened

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

 

soap critic i am very upset with Vaishali's rudeness to her saas . The lady has been so understanding and so NICE that vaishus indifference to her comes across as apalling . She just got up told Dharmu managing ur mom is Ur look out and left without telling her even when she went to light the evening diya. Doesnt the old lady desrve some RESPECT ? What is she going to think , everytime Vaishali walked off without explanations . Arrogantly mind u . When Vaishali becomes badnaam I wont blame her saas for turning her back on her . Infact I want her to . Sameway Savita shud turn her back on Manav . I hate it when Elders r disrespected .

Originally posted by: tiya229

hey kools. i agree with you 100000000% with your commentary

i am SUPER pissed at this show. WHO the F*cK is wrtitng this nonense???

manav's goes and gives advice to that strange family was HYPOCRITICAL. he KICKED OUT his moother and told her to GET OUT and then he has the guts to give bhashan?That too TWICE tiya . He told her to go TWICE .

i am appalled at the treartment of savita by manav. i cannot understand why he BLAMES his mom. FOR WHAT? she begged him not to divorce archana. He was only responsible for his misery . Decision to marry Shravni was HIS .

why cant he understand her grief and pain at archana's words? liitle sachu dying has to be her WORST nightmare. 

she ddint slap anyone when sachin died. infact the only other time she slapped dharmesh was for calling MANAV a CHOR. 

his constant coldness to his mother, her desperation to for his LOVE is driving her to the adge.

Infact, i would say that manav shouldnt interfere in archu and savita's realtionship. he should maintain a neutral ground. he can "protect" her against savita's harsh words but thats it. 

what is the constant need to taint their love with archana's mahanta?

archu goes to talk to her mom and sulo is bizzare in her words. manav is a good son, savita CANT appreciate him. itsnot your fault.

i was unable to digest her words. its VERY obvious thatsavita loves her son. yes manav works hard, but i felt that she is siding with manav for tthe sole reason that he MAKES MONEY. 

why wasnt manav a good son when he was jailed? why wasnt this "good son" given any support by sulo? why was this "good son" slapped and given those bhashans about "aukaat".

sulo's support swings to the side where money is. YUp . ALWAYS tiya . Sulo had NOT bothered to call Savita for pooja .

i agree that in all this, archoo isnt to blame, but imo, she hasnt done anything to warrant herself as deshmukh bahu. i sense that archu would choose manav  as a wife than her family as a bahu (does that make sense?)Nothing so far .She has only used Manavs money for her maayka .Thusofying her sistr and patting him on the back when he spends for mothers meds .

nobody can see savita's PAIN. i agree she was wrong in slapping archu, but manav was even worse in kicking her out. she was heartbroken and LOST INTERST IN LIFE. 

i know many members think that manav was pushed to the corner. but i feel, there comes a point in a couple's life where they HAVE to be the morrally bigger person. i am speaking that from what i have seen in my family. i believe that even if savita's is wrong, manav HAS to be the bigger person, forgive his mom and move on. in this case, it wont be unfair. savita found it in her heart to forigve archu's family, move on and accept the karanjkars FOR HER SON. 

many have said it, i will too. manav has to STOP the double standards,. why are the K-Klan let off the leash so easily? why is he taking them on (vaishoo) at the cost of his repuatation? have they warranted such unconditional love? have they done anything that HIS MOTHER HASNT? Tiya She Hates ARchu and Ks coz her son died and other son was jailed .Why hdad K klan HATED manav and put him in jail ?Any reason ?

i am so glad, that lady (whats her name?) in the chawl said it!. hard to believe that manav and archana didnt realise that people will talk.

the impact of dharmesh's truth is fast LOSING its impact. the lady in the chawl will testify for manav-vaishoo's illicit realtionship and people will name vaishoo as the gold-digging harlot. Im gonna clap when it happens tiya. Vaishoo has been insufferably indifferent and snooty to that nice saas .

arman romance. i am glad you brought that up kools. this is NOT the way any conservative family behaves. my cousions, are the same age as arman and they dont behave like that. my cousions make sure, they dont sit too close infront of elders. infact, a newly wed was being too lovey dovey infront of my parents, and they didnt like it. 

 thats the way middle class indian people are. 

so the whole terrace scene, spraying water, running around seems fake. sushita can do that, but no reason to film it. keep it real cvs.The chawl at Dadr where I recently visited , omg they wud write on the walls in derogatory way about this shamelessness .

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

Thanks for the commentary, Kool. Manav's hypocrisy continue to amaze me-what do they want to do with Manav's character. Is this some weird, twisted way to redeem him or do away with the character altogether. There are all kinds of people in the world and if he's not a good son or doesnt care about his mother so much, its ok. Its not what I expect in a lead maybe, but its understandable-afterall, everybody has flaws and loves somebody/ something more than others. Its his hypocrisy, his double standards that make me fume in anger- if you dont care about your mom, accept that you dont care. Dont act as if you can sense her presence and go around telling strangers they should respect their mothers when you dont do the same. Like seriously, double standards much? If he would have just accepted that he loves Archana more than his mother and is okay with not staying together, I would have have reconciled with the character. But no, he acts as if he cares and misses his mom, but tells her on her face that she screwed up her life and that he's no longer her son. I agree with Anjali's post, it seems to me like now that he's married, he doesnt want to be associated with his parents anymore-maybe coz he thinks they are not upto his new standards or something. He wants to be associated with the Karanjkars instead-though what he wants out of this alliance except getting pushed over is out of my limited intelligence. Not Archana, but his relations with the Karanjkars is what I'm talking about-Archana, dimwitted though she is, loves him and truly cares for him. Her family, not so much.

About ARMAN enjoying while his mother is suffering, there is a saying in Tamil that is probably apt. I dont remember the wording properly, but the jist is that "While a mother is suffering from the pain of childbirth, the daughter is experiencing the pain of sexual pleasure". Enough said!

Originally posted by: Jasmine10

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pity savita , though she is slightly to blame for her condition, but her son take major share.