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Posted: 25 February 2011 at 9:56am | IP Logged

So the real parents decided to 'orphan' their children- in subservient posture to Daddaji.... A pity, it looks more like they themselves are heading for orphanage… Unreal too, as they are parroting Dj's charges with out any realistic assessment of their children's action.

Cv's Akshara, please stop so copious grief, it appears more like Naitik is delivered from his in-laws and you are severed from your parents.

The elders can't be showed more immature and narrow-minded…to enact batwaara of Gods prayers…looks like all were doffing all these years when Ramayana was recited.

But through all this mess, good part is their united front. Cvs have heard (in somewhat strange manner) our request to show them fighting in unison instead of  mutual MUs.

 Hope, these two will create that light filled corner of an inviting abode where equals will flock for a happy welcome and tired elders will come to be rested and soothed- understanding them in the end.

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Posted: 25 February 2011 at 10:02am | IP Logged
Originally posted by smrth

So the real parents decided to 'orphan' their children- in subservient posture to Daddaji.... A pity, it looks more like they themselves are heading for orphanage' Unreal too, as they are parroting Dj's charges with out any realistic assessment of their children's action.

Cv's Akshara, please stop so copious grief, it appears more like Naitik is delivered from his in-laws and you are severed from your parents.

The elders can't be showed more immature and narrow-minded'to enact batwaara of Gods prayers'looks like all were doffing all these years when Ramayana was recited.

But through all this mess, good part is their united front. Cvs have heard (in somewhat strange manner) our request to show them fighting in unison instead of  mutual MUs.

 Hope, these two will create that light filled corner of an inviting abode where equals will flock for a happy welcome and tired elders will come to be rested and soothed- understanding them in the end.


YESSSS! Clap i said it 2 days back that gayitri n RB r unfortunate parents & they deserve this PUNISHMENT ! Angry yest. i saw a rebellious streak in Gayitri but no..when she thinks ke naksh r at fault then why not ACCEPT the punishment also? why this drama of humein bhi dukh hai? Dead

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Posted: 25 February 2011 at 10:11am | IP Logged
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So the real parents decided to 'orphan' their children- in subservient posture to Daddaji.... A pity, it looks more like they themselves are heading for orphanage' Unreal too, as they are parroting Dj's charges with out any realistic assessment of their children's action.

Cv's Akshara, please stop so copious grief, it appears more like Naitik is delivered from his in-laws and you are severed from your parents.

The elders can't be showed more immature and narrow-minded'to enact batwaara of Gods prayers'looks like all were doffing all these years when Ramayana was recited.

But through all this mess, good part is their united front. Cvs have heard (in somewhat strange manner) our request to show them fighting in unison instead of  mutual MUs.

 Hope, these two will create that light filled corner of an inviting abode where equals will flock for a happy welcome and tired elders will come to be rested and soothed- understanding them in the end.


YESSSS! Clap i said it 2 days back that gayitri n RB r unfortunate parents & they deserve this PUNISHMENT ! Angry yest. i saw a rebellious streak in Gayitri but no..when she thinks ke naksh r at fault then why not ACCEPT the punishment also? why this drama of humein bhi dukh hai? Dead

For her,it's more like… 'When Akshara is involved, they must be wrong collectively…bechara Munna toh sirf a puppet….

But for some irritating scenes, the track is developing well…there is a good scope, hope their scripts stay tight and objective…and not a series of unending melodramatic scenes on separate kitchen and food only…

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Posted: 25 February 2011 at 11:34am | IP Logged

Speaking on elders, Let me confess (and perhaps, in for some sneersLOL) , I had found Buaji's portrayal realistic. Such rigidity exists. Her unbending postures or a primitive love for her brothers' family, her real hurt at Munna's slight…all these were realistic…and there was a good finesse in her parting dialogues…her compulsive love to Khandaan's dharohar Munna in spite of the hurt, To Akshara…'Maafi toh khabar nahi..ashirwad he'…or admission and dare; 'puraani reet he…' and "perhaps not so clever but experience can't be overreached."… all those were showing some competent hand at script… The actor had performed her act well too; regally stout, cattily vigilant and a fitting up-right carriage…with occasional breaks of benevolent smiles.

In similar vein, Daddaji's few lines like…baar, baar galti kiye jaa rahe ho.. has some ring of truth (from his POV at least)  especially when they themselves are apologizing repeatedly each time…which is rendering some validity to his charges…Besides, his assessment of Munna's desire to be given a freer rein is backed by Naitik's many assertions during their business conferences.

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Posted: 25 February 2011 at 8:36pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by smrth

Speaking on elders, Let me confess (and perhaps, in for some sneersLOL) , I had found Buaji's portrayal realistic. Such rigidity exists. Her unbending postures or a primitive love for her brothers' family, her real hurt at Munna's slight'all these were realistic'and there was a good finesse in her parting dialogues'her compulsive love to Khandaan's dharohar Munna in spite of the hurt, To Akshara''Maafi toh khabar nahi..ashirwad he''or admission and dare; 'puraani reet he'' and "perhaps not so clever but experience can't be overreached."' all those were showing some competent hand at script' The actor had performed her act well too; regally stout, cattily vigilant and a fitting up-right carriage'with occasional breaks of benevolent smiles.

In similar vein, Daddaji's few lines like'baar, baar galti kiye jaa rahe ho.. has some ring of truth (from his POV at least)  especially when they themselves are apologizing repeatedly each time'which is rendering some validity to his charges'Besides, his assessment of Munna's desire to be given a freer rein is backed by Naitik's many assertions during their business conferences.


yes..but division was not the answer, munna & Akshara never wanted it..Naitik's thinking was that they follow each n every rule and parampara but ek din kuch change kar diya toh doesn't make a lot of difference....akshara wearing saarees for years, ek din if she wore a suit then dinos must also adjust a little bit.....if they r ready to bend for their elders then they must also get the same in return..

they should be ashamed of themselves..akshara is the youngest of them all and she is repeating it again and again that this should not happen but all others just wanna follow daddaji's orders.don't they feel bad abt it? they can see naksh's manmaani but not their love? Angry



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Posted: 26 February 2011 at 9:03am | IP Logged
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Speaking on elders, Let me confess (and perhaps, in for some sneersLOL) , I had found Buaji's portrayal realistic. Such rigidity exists. Her unbending postures or a primitive love for her brothers' family, her real hurt at Munna's slight'all these were realistic'and there was a good finesse in her parting dialogues'her compulsive love to Khandaan's dharohar Munna in spite of the hurt, To Akshara''Maafi toh khabar nahi..ashirwad he''or admission and dare; 'puraani reet he'' and "perhaps not so clever but experience can't be overreached."' all those were showing some competent hand at script' The actor had performed her act well too; regally stout, cattily vigilant and a fitting up-right carriage'with occasional breaks of benevolent smiles.

In similar vein, Daddaji's few lines like'baar, baar galti kiye jaa rahe ho.. has some ring of truth (from his POV at least)  especially when they themselves are apologizing repeatedly each time'which is rendering some validity to his charges'Besides, his assessment of Munna's desire to be given a freer rein is backed by Naitik's many assertions during their business conferences.


yes..but division was not the answer, munna & Akshara never wanted it..Naitik's thinking was that they follow each n every rule and parampara but ek din kuch change kar diya toh doesn't make a lot of difference....akshara wearing saarees for years, ek din if she wore a suit then dinos must also adjust a little bit.....if they r ready to bend for their elders then they must also get the same in return..

they should be ashamed of themselves..akshara is the youngest of them all and she is repeating it again and again that this should not happen but all others just wanna follow daddaji's orders.don't they feel bad abt it? they can see naksh's manmaani but not their love? Angry

They will be ashamed appropriately. Gayatri's shrill rebukes are unnatural. Instead of scolding them repeatedly over what have they done, they should retrospect, 'what those two have actually done/achieved and how have we reacted.'... Naitik may gracefully remove himself away like Shaurya.(unlikely though, they need shooting on long established sets..i.e . two Havelis, as well as a parade of haplessly melodramatic conflicts on a common ground)…The distance may also help elders realize the oppressive rigidity of their outdated orthodoxy…or nuclear family system's valid arguments.

However, they can't show complete rout of the elders. After all a well balanced young man Naitik is the product of their upbringing and loving cares so far. It's paradoxical to show them rigidly narrow and losing. They ought to find a fine balance. In bet'n let us brace ourselves for Maheshwaris's reaction- not in its validity but in their sure shot fuss and super sheepish apologies.

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Posted: 26 February 2011 at 9:48am | IP Logged
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Speaking on elders, Let me confess (and perhaps, in for some sneersLOL) , I had found Buaji's portrayal realistic. Such rigidity exists. Her unbending postures or a primitive love for her brothers' family, her real hurt at Munna's slight'all these were realistic'and there was a good finesse in her parting dialogues'her compulsive love to Khandaan's dharohar Munna in spite of the hurt, To Akshara''Maafi toh khabar nahi..ashirwad he''or admission and dare; 'puraani reet he'' and "perhaps not so clever but experience can't be overreached."' all those were showing some competent hand at script' The actor had performed her act well too; regally stout, cattily vigilant and a fitting up-right carriage'with occasional breaks of benevolent smiles.

In similar vein, Daddaji's few lines like'baar, baar galti kiye jaa rahe ho.. has some ring of truth (from his POV at least)  especially when they themselves are apologizing repeatedly each time'which is rendering some validity to his charges'Besides, his assessment of Munna's desire to be given a freer rein is backed by Naitik's many assertions during their business conferences.


yes..but division was not the answer, munna & Akshara never wanted it..Naitik's thinking was that they follow each n every rule and parampara but ek din kuch change kar diya toh doesn't make a lot of difference....akshara wearing saarees for years, ek din if she wore a suit then dinos must also adjust a little bit.....if they r ready to bend for their elders then they must also get the same in return..

they should be ashamed of themselves..akshara is the youngest of them all and she is repeating it again and again that this should not happen but all others just wanna follow daddaji's orders.don't they feel bad abt it? they can see naksh's manmaani but not their love? Angry

They will be ashamed appropriately. Gayatri's shrill rebukes are unnatural. Instead of scolding them repeatedly over what have they done, they should retrospect, 'what those two have actually done/achieved and how have we reacted.'... Naitik may gracefully remove himself away like Shaurya.(unlikely though, they need shooting on long established sets..i.e . two Havelis, as well as a parade of haplessly melodramatic conflicts on a common ground)'The distance may also help elders realize the oppressive rigidity of their outdated orthodoxy'or nuclear family system's valid arguments.

However, they can't show complete rout of the elders. After all a well balanced young man Naitik is the product of their upbringing and loving cares so far. It's paradoxical to show them rigidly narrow and losing. They ought to find a fine balance. In bet'n let us brace ourselves for Maheshwaris's reaction- not in its validity but in their sure shot fuss and super sheepish apologies.



Some of the foolishness the adults showed yesterday included the Pooja. Why should they be excluded from Pooja? Isn't God above all? Ok, like the rasoi why not create a separate mandir & a separate tulsi too? Or are they expecting her to worship after they are done? Did they become untouchables overnight that they just get the prasad? What kind of justice/punishment is this?Why can't the mother share a meal w/them or pack his lunch occasionally? The Naitik we know would have revolted but this new one seems to have given up. Wild animal finally tamed to submissionLOL Is that what they want, a spineless son? Both parents seem to lack brain cells. Wouldn't any parent try to balance/analyze the crime vs the punishment? This looks like a cult blindly following it's leader, Dino & his puppetsShocked

Makes me want to believe that these incidents will eventually drive Naitik over the edge and will make him want to leave(fingers crossed). That is the only solution to this problem. They have to leave the house for either sides to realize the others worth.
Pregnancy should not be the reason to accept them coz that will be a compromise. They should accept them for who they are not try to mold them to be their duplicates. G3's bone of contention has always been that Akshara should be like them or Naitik needs to be what he is not. Each person is wired differently. Good parenting is to realize & nurture each child's individuality & that is what is lacking in this family.



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Some of the foolishness the adults showed yesterday included the Pooja. Why should they be excluded from Pooja? Isn't God above all? Ok, like the rasoi why not create a separate mandir & a separate tulsi too? Or are they expecting her to worship after they are done? Did they become untouchables overnight that they just get the prasad? What kind of justice/punishment is this?Why can't the mother share a meal w/them or pack his lunch occasionally? The Naitik we know would have revolted but this new one seems to have given up. Wild animal finally tamed to submissionLOL Is that what they want, a spineless son? Both parents seem to lack brain cells. Wouldn't any parent try to balance/analyze the crime vs the punishment? This looks like a cult blindly following it's leader, Dino & his puppetsShocked

Makes me want to believe that these incidents will eventually drive Naitik over the edge and will make him want to leave(fingers crossed). That is the only solution to this problem. They have to leave the house for either sides to realize the others worth.
Pregnancy should not be the reason to accept them coz that will be a compromise. They should accept them for who they are not try to mold them to be their duplicates. G3's bone of contention has always been that Akshara should be like them or Naitik needs to be what he is not. Each person is wired differently. Good parenting is to realize & nurture each child's individuality & that is what is lacking in this family.


both the POV's r correct..smrth and Sarita...very well said Clap 

i dun think naitik will move out of that house....i think both of them living under the same roof but seperate will be more painful for the dino's to bear...the flip side is that MA will always remain in front of akshara's eyes n everyday she's gonna ask her the same question "isko rok leejiye, ye theek nahi hai, aisa hota hai kya, ma aaj kya banoon, ye kaise karna hai " so on and so forth ! Dead  Akshara must show it to them that she has accepted this decision and continue her normal routine, be it pooja paath or cooking..what i'm really looking forward to is how naitik sets up his own business..and CELEBRATE this independence Party

@Smrth, i fully agree with you that Naitik is what he is bec. of their upbringing and love...and they cannot deny they were the ones to pamper him in the first place...everyone does..at the same time nobody treats their kids so harshly...what the heck abt parampara n reeti rivaj? didn't they get nandini married against this parampara? Dead


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