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I am not saying tht him taking revenge would be right... I am just stating...what i think might have been the reason of him not giving divorce.. I am just stating his pov...not justifying him...

And i am in no way justifying Moiz... I have already said tht whatever Moiz did was completely wrong....He is the sole reason for it...but still.. I wouldnt want any girl to follow Ayesha's footsteps...or...let me put it this way... Had I been in her place..I would have never done what Ayesha did....What I would have done is....when Ayesha came to know abt Moiz's affair with Anila.... obv I would have been hurt..and trust would have been broken... So I would have simply asked for a divorce.....tht i cant trust this person anymore... hence I cant love him..so whats the point in continuing this relationship? I would have simply asked Moiz..tht since u broke my trust...i dont want to live as ur wife anymore... Instead of confiding in another man, and finding support in him, being someone else's wife..i would have confided in my family... I would have told everyone tht since he cheated on me..i cant live with him.....and i want a divorce..... rather than having an extramarital affair... ..Ayesha should have gone fora divorce simply......and after divorce.....then as life moves on..maybe she would have found someone else...who would be ready to accept her with her daughter....whatever.....she could go for a sec marriage .. This would have been MUCH MORE dignified and morally and ethically correct......

I am not saying tht him taking revenge would be right... I am just stating...what i think might have been the reason of him not giving divorce.. I am just stating his pov...not justifying him...

And i am in no way justifying Moiz... I have already said tht whatever Moiz did was completely wrong....He is the sole reason for it...but still.. I wouldnt want any girl to follow Ayesha's footsteps...or...let me put it this way... Had I been in her place..I would have never done what Ayesha did....What I would have done is....when Ayesha came to know abt Moiz's affair with Anila.... obv I would have been hurt..and trust would have been broken... So I would have simply asked for a divorce.....tht i cant trust this person anymore... hence I cant love him..so whats the point in continuing this relationship? I would have simply asked Moiz..tht since u broke my trust...i dont want to live as ur wife anymore... Instead of confiding in another man, and finding support in him, being someone else's wife..i would have confided in my family... I would have told everyone tht since he cheated on me..i cant live with him.....and i want a divorce..... rather than having an extramarital affair... ..Ayesha should have gone fora divorce simply......and after divorce.....then as life moves on..maybe she would have found someone else...who would be ready to accept her with her daughter....whatever.....she could go for a sec marriage .. This would have been MUCH MORE dignified and morally and ethically correct......

Edited by --ania-- - 13 years ago

I agree with Ania 100%

@princez_94...

Look...i think Ayesha is right in asking for a divorce..but in my opinion..she should have asked for a divorce.....the day she became sure abt Moiz's affair with Anila...and it wouldhave nothing to do with another man in her life... She asked for divorve form Moiz ONLY after she had found support in Jawad... Finding someone else...in ur life while u rsomeone else's wife is COMPLETELY wrong.....She was frustrated with Moiz affair...she should have asked for divorce straight away.. She lived as Moiz's wife...and still had an affair with Jawad.. And Moiz did the same thing...so he is completely wrong too.....but since the topic is abt Ayesha...so i am talking abt her, here more.....She was living in Moiz's home and then had an affair with his best friend and thought abt marrying him.. I know this would have been graduall..not all of a sudden..then one day..she woke up and thought.ok i should marry him.. I know it would have been graduall but still it is completely and totally wrong.......Why did she think of a divorce from Moiz...only after Jawad proposed her and then they had an affair? Why didnt she go back her home..or ask for a divorce..the day she became sure abt Moiz affair?  She must have shared her frustrations with Jawad... Instead of tht..she should have gone back her home...shared her frustrations and confided in her family..took support from them..ask for a divorce from Moiz......and this should have happend..straight away...after she became sure abt Moiz affair..and had nothing to do with Jawad or any other man in ur life......After divorce...ofcourse...she could find any x,y, z person...whom would be ready to accept her dughter.... Finding someone ....as ur support after divorce is completely different ..than having an extramarital affair.....Having an extramarital affair is completely wrong, ethically morally and religiously.....And this is for both Moiz and Ayesha....both are wrong.. But since the topic is abt...whether Ayesha is justified in having an extramarital affair with Jawad and then thinking of marrying him.....so according to me, she is not..... She lived in Moiz house and had an affair........this is complete cheating and totally wrong...in my opinion

Originally posted by: --ania--

 

If you ask me, they both are wrong. But this all fasaad started when Moiz started treating and

behaving with Aneela as if she was his girlfriend.....I mean the guy started this relationship between them by making her believe on the assumption that he isn't married. Poor Aneela. He eats with her, goes out, talks to her till late night on the phone and then one day even meets her parents?! Anyone would think they are bf-gf if they didn't know about his marriage. Then, he claims to his friend that she isn't his g

(exactly!Moiz has played at the same time with the emotions of two girls...may be his intention was not wrong initially but the moment he didnt disclosed his marrige to aneela and the way he was having all those long talks with her...makes him guilty...

 

IMO, Moiz treating Aneela this way is cuz of several reasons- he was lonely, his wife-mom always complained to him only and then Aneela was a source that took him away from all that stress and his frustrations.

 (Bang on...his home has been a battle field...as far as I see all this i guess he kind of found a refuge in aneela...

It doesn't really look like he "loves" Aneela. She was more like a "source of relaxation" to him....and maybe, there was some little liking too because of the attention she gave him. However, all of this is cheating on Moiz's part. Married men aren't supposed to roam around with other women and treat them as their gfs.

 (You ve sumed my mind here....source of relaaxation is the most appropriate word....he alothough initially didnt felt anything for her...but found that peace which he was missing from quite a long time...but exactly that does nt justify his act as he was married ...no matter how worse the situation turns.

Now, coming to Ayesha, what she is doing/did is completely wrong too. I agree that she was also frustrated, anxious, and worried that her husband may just marry another woman because of him praising and talking about Aneela all the time, even joking that he'll marry her. But, all of a sudden, she became so serious and wanted to marry her husband's best friend? What in the world happened between them? We'll still have to see next episode for the reasons she wavered. But, without a doubt, what she did with Jawad is cheating too. And to add on to that, she is shown to be wayyy more serious for marrying Jawad ....whereas, Moiz have never really considered marrying Aneela, given all the time he spends with her.

 (Keeping in mind aishas character i dont think so shes a kind of girl who can go to that extent...i believe the way they have shown the things in the last episode is not the real picture....maybe we"ll see some twist in the coming episode:-)

 

They did hint at this twist from the beginning. I knew that there was something between Jawad and Ayesha as well ....I thought maybe Jawad used to love Ayesha or something and then it led to Ayesha's in laws misunderstanding that she also liked him. But, this actual twist of both of them wanting to marry shocked me a little. 😲

Originally posted by: --ania--

 

If you ask me, they both are wrong. But this all fasaad started when Moiz started treating and

behaving with Aneela as if she was his girlfriend.....I mean the guy started this relationship between them by making her believe on the assumption that he isn't married. Poor Aneela. He eats with her, goes out, talks to her till late night on the phone and then one day even meets her parents?! Anyone would think they are bf-gf if they didn't know about his marriage. Then, he claims to his friend that she isn't his gf.

 

IMO, Moiz treating Aneela this way is cuz of several reasons- he was lonely, his wife-mom always complained to him only and then Aneela was a source that took him away from all that stress and his frustrations.

 

It doesn't really look like he "loves" Aneela. She was more like a "source of relaxation" to him....and maybe, there was some little liking too because of the attention she gave him. However, all of this is cheating on Moiz's part. Married men aren't supposed to roam around with other women and treat them as their gfs.

 

Now, coming to Ayesha, what she is doing/did is completely wrong too. I agree that she was also frustrated, anxious, and worried that her husband may just marry another woman because of him praising and talking about Aneela all the time, even joking that he'll marry her. But, all of a sudden, she became so serious and wanted to marry her husband's best friend? What in the world happened between them? We'll still have to see next episode for the reasons she wavered. But, without a doubt, what she did with Jawad is cheating too. And to add on to that, she is shown to be wayyy more serious for marrying Jawad ....whereas, Moiz have never really considered marrying Aneela, given all the time he spends with her.

 

 

They did hint at this twist from the beginning. I knew that there was something between Jawad and Ayesha as well ....I thought maybe Jawad used to love Ayesha or something and then it led to Ayesha's in laws misunderstanding that she also liked him. But, this actual twist of both of them wanting to marry shocked me a little. 😲

Edited by princez_94 - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: farahs_6

I agree with Ania 100%

@princez_94...

Look...i think Ayesha is right in asking for a divorce..but in my opinion..she should have asked for a divorce.....the day she became sure abt Moiz's affair with Anila...and it wouldhave nothing to do with another man in her life... She asked for divorve form Moiz ONLY after she had found support in Jawad... Finding someone else...in ur life while u rsomeone else's wife is COMPLETELY wrong.....She was frustrated with Moiz affair...she should have asked for divorce straight away.. She lived as Moiz's wife...and still had an affair with Jawad.. And Moiz did the same thing...so he is completely wrong too.....but since the topic is abt Ayesha...so i am talking abt her, here more.....She was living in Moiz's home and then had an affair with his best friend and thought abt marrying him.. I know this would have been graduall..not all of a sudden..then one day..she woke up and thought.ok i should marry him.. I know it would have been graduall but still it is completely and totally wrong.......Why did she think of a divorce from Moiz...only after Jawad proposed her and then they had an affair? Why didnt she go back her home..or ask for a divorce..the day she became sure abt Moiz affair?  She must have shared her frustrations with Jawad... Instead of tht..shecompletely wrong, ethically morally and religiously.....And this is for both Moiz and Ay should have gone back her home...shared her frustrations and confided in her family..took support from them..ask for a divorce from Moiz......and this should have happend..straight away...after she became sure abt Moiz affair..and had nothing to do with Jawad or any other man in ur life......After divorce...ofcourse...she could find any x,y, z person...whom would be ready to accept her dughter.... Finding someone ....as ur support after divorce is completely different ..than having an extramarital affair.....Having an extramarital affair is esha....both are wrong.. But since the topic is abt...whether Ayesha is justified in having an extramarital affair with Jawad and then thinking of marrying him.....so according to me, she is not..... She lived in Moiz house and had an affair........this is complete cheating and totally wrong...in my opinion

even if Ayesha was left lonely whatever but still she was soo loyal to Moiz, its unbelievable how she's talking abt marriage wid Jawad....and ayesha's character isnt so low ...she seemed a sincere wife and a dedicating mother acc to the positivity shown in her character...and yea maybe u guys r right maybe was just trying to bring Moiz bak...

keeping fingers crossed how will story move forward...just one day to go:-)

Yes. The promos are really interesting... I loved Aisha's answer too Mugheez or Moiz...