Posted: 17 February 2011 at 11:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sahuja
Originally posted by vids08
hi vids.... i know what u r saying...that nivi is not to be balmed for what happened to him...but think from his point of view... why r we always thinking from nivi's point of view... viren personally would never treat her like this...we know he loves her..and the anger is getting out on her for 2 reasons....
firstly he wants her to say that she loves him... getting no reaction from her is frustating him... and secondly he knows that she is the wall bet him and his family... as long as nivi is in front of him, he would never be able to hurt dadasaheb and sid.... as i mentioned in my yesterday's post also that the second ad is more after viren takes the salary money for some reason and spends it....leaving his family's reputation at stake... and hence nivi must be asking ds for another chance... and this is going to be the reason of he going to the extreme of getting the divorce... he knows that he cant do anything if nivi is here... and he purposely is doing this to hurt her..bec in a way she is supporting his family and not him... earlier in our posts we were discussing that after the truth is out...we have to see that will nivi again choose family over love as she has always done...or will she choose love over family this time... and we all expected her to choose love... but unfortunately she has again choosen family over love... and this is what is hurting viren... he always chose love against family for nivi..but nivi has not yet accepted her love to him and moreover she is supporting his family who have always treated him wrongly..... what is he supposed to do.... i was surprised that nivi still doesnt think of making karela for viren on her own to show she cares abt him...didnt viren tell nivi that karela was never made for him... she is still not thinking with heart...and i dont think viren is wrong in any way... if he is treating nivi the way he is... i would have loved to see her support viren but still make him realise that they love him... with the way the family is treating him right now, how is he supposed to leave his arrogance and attitude.... they still dont consider him family... when he is around everyone becomes silent... and when he asks for something....they say he cant have it.... today i expected nivi to come forward and say viren i'll make it for u...when dadi said no... but seeing his family's behaviour i dont think he is wrong in any way...and worst of all nivi is not understanding it.... instead of making viren correct his ways..why doesnt she work something with the family to show that ur family loves and cares abt him...u wont need to ask him to change then..he will realise it himself...
OMG sahuja exceleentt dear
u wrote my heart wht i was wanting 2 tell 2 evry1 but couldn't write it . thanxx ear .
Wht 2 say ? nothng 2 b disaggreed . It's reallyy high time ki nivi shld confess her love 2wds him. I agree ki nivi stil seeng n givng preference 2 family over love . She is telling viren 2 change . she thnks tht viren is wrong . but why she is nt thkng ki soods r also wrong . why she is nt making them understand ? why still she is nt able 2 understand tht family still is hurting viren by their nonsense comments .
She still thnks tht viren's pain is just a misunderstanding .
me 2 felt so bad for viren 2dy in th hall scene . We all saw Nivi's pain becozz She cries , becozz we all thnk frm Nivi's,pov but wht abt Viren haan ? tht poor guy . eventhough He wants 2 cry he can't Even though He wants 2 say every1 ki Hu much he loves every1 but he can'tt . n rachu wht punishment yaar ? Does dis punshment is nt enough for him ki He is wishfully tryng 2 show himself bad 2 every1 ? Dis punishment is nt enough ?
I 2 expected tht Nivi shld hav came forward in tht scene regarding tht karela thng but No she didn't . but No1 is sayng tht . Every1 is seeng Nivi's oain but why no1 is seeng Viren's pain ? 2dy hu ridiculouslyy YSD told him ki " rela nahi banega , aur kuch kha lena " I mean ridiculous ki now also no1 is understanding him .
. HU badlyy Every1 was getting silent when He was coming . why ? do any1 told him 2 sit wid them n enjoy ? leave for sometime wheather he would hav agrred or nt but They shld hav atleast tried it. But no Asusual they ignored him just becozz of their silly ego
. I 2 hoped ki Nivi wll say tht She will make karela for him , again leave wheather wht he will say after but She shld hav said it . but NO she 2 supported his wrong family indirectlyy whch is why Viren is more frustated on her
I will never blame Viren whtever he is dong or is he is arrogant 2 every1 . I completlyy understand his feelings