Posted: 15 February 2011 at 9:43pm | IP Logged
I am hugely disappointed by many of us here...hugely disappointed because I didn't expect such boxed in reactions from many of us.
As a family member I think I have earned the right to say this that I have the following views as to why things happen happened and if you guys disagree then i really don't know what to say because it seems a lot of you have already formed an opinion, which in my idea is the wrong one and plus u guys are being too harsh on him. not one of u even considered the fact that he may have no idea about anything that is leaked in public about him other than interviews. also if u guys want to call him dishonest then call other actors dishonest too. beside if someone else post an image of him w/o his knowledge then how is he at fault for tarnishing his own image. It seems he wudn't dare do that, no sensible actor would.
I posted this in CCC so im posting the same here...
disregards the first part if u want to but read the last line.
Ok im going to jump into the T and J thing...or mainly T thing...
im not going to convince anyone anymore but i will tell u my personal experience with guys and gals together and relationships (not that i have been in any but i have seen many). You guys can believe me or not.
I also have an answer to his "unprofessionalism" as many are making him to be.
i had an interesting convo with my brother today when he picked me up from uni at night time. I asked him about guys in general and how they would act if they were at a party and what not. I asked him if a guy is not maha flirting but would flirt once in a while or would talk to girls a lot and would still keep his distance and when asked about the type of girl he wants and he answers totally different from the type of girls or crowds he hangs around with then what does that tell you? My brother told me that a guy like that is probably not ready to commit or is looking for the right girl so everything he is doing is just time pass. meaning that he is not in a relationship because he respects the meaning of relationship but yet he is not going to commit till he is sure. Now the next question was mainly personal because me and brother have been brought up with values and traditions and yet we know how to have fun and we are modern. My brother parties, has a crowd that includes drunks and girls like the one in pics and yet my brother not once drank with them, flirted or got together with those girls or danced with them. He took pics and those girls posted but they posted the pics as friends and im talkn bout desi girls but yet he never did anything with them. I was immediately reminded of this situation. Girls I know my brother inside out and he shares everything with me if some girl came to me one day and says that look ur brother is having sex with me...im going to deny it wanna know why? because I know my brother is not that type. He is focusing more in school and want to become someone before he commits so he wudn't dare do that heck it is even out of the question because he wudn't go out with her. He learned that from his own experience. I am just the same way. so what im trying to say is that even if we are modern doesn't mean that we forget our values and we know our boundaries because our parents taught us that. I hang out with guys a lot and i take individual pics with them too but i never once danced with them or went out with them. The world has changed and with that so has the new generation and so has our insights. we can be modern but yet traditional. we can hang out with guys/girls but yet have our values. we can flirt harmlessly but yet know our boundaries.
plus girls like to flaunt hot guys that they take pics with. they like attentions especially girls like her...the world has change so has our thinking. He is not at fault for tarnishing his image, it is others who are fault because i have a feeling he has no idea about it. not only that why wud he go and put himself down the drain like that? he is smarter than that...heck the man had done a degree in business which is same as talking a bit about building an image and maintaining it.
there are many at times i felt that Yashu lies too. I believe that there are many times she is not being true to herself but I believe her want to know why because i trust her. If i didn't trust her then i can point out all the things that I believe she is not being true about. But i don't because i believe her and trust her till she points it out herself.
Now to the second thing...
those who think that KT is at fault for leaving the show like that let me ask u is KT the boss or PH is? if KT Is the producer then it would make sense because technically he is the boss but if it's not KT then whoever is his boss is the one at fault. If they knew he was leaving and they had granted him the leave, why didn't they bank epis? didn't they need it? They thought they didn't. according to my media knowledge, you don't just grant a leave on a short notice unless you are sick, heck the guy gave them epis even when he was sick so something tells me that this was his vacation time that he had asked for while back but unfortunately when he got sick he had to perform then but not now. does that tell u anything? i mean does it make sense? if the guy had asked for a leave while back then how come the channel or PH didn't bank his epis? What happened? to me it seems that if a guy can work while being sick, which was unexpected then he wud def. bank epis if needed be but that wasn't the case here.
I have a strong feeling that he didn't go to goa and was doing something else instead.
ok that was my long bashan...now i gotta do work.