I woke up this morning to find a message from Sweetu saying that Ramas di is no more. I didn't want to believe it, but the I checked the main topic and all the other topics that followed. It was absolutely true. I wanted to (and still do) cry. I cannot cry though because I am at home, and my family would not understand. My mother just knows I come here to read articles and discuss shows. She doesn't understand we can make friends here too.
Anyways, I do not know Ramas di personally, but I remember her patience and dedication in the Sa Re Ga Ma Pa Forum regarding an MID. Everyday I sent her probably dozens of PMs with nasty topics from the MID. The MID even abused her badly, but she did not react to them. She would edit their posts, delete them, and ban them immediately. She always answered my PMs that had concerns or suggestions about the situation. She never got irritated with me or anything. She was always very kind and responsive as she knew it was sensitive issue.
We even had a funny moment during a PM, and this is where I got to see her humorous and not strict moderator side (read it from bottom up):
This is the last PM I had with Ramas di.
It is one of those days. don't worry. and take it easy. I
are you kamalfan😆🤣
by any chance.
-- Previous Private Message --
Sent by : tulipbaby53
Sent : December 16 2010 at 5:58pm
Oh okay! 😆 I got very scared actually! 😲 I even went back to look at my posts to see what all I wrote! 
-- Previous Private Message --
Sent by : ramas
Sent : December 16 2010 at 5:57pm
that msg was intended for kamalfan as his name appears in front. No you are very helpful person and thanks for all the help. I know you can never bash any one.
so disreagrd the msg and delete it.
it is for kamal fan and not you,
sorry
take care
-- Previous Private Message --
Sent by : tulipbaby53
Sent : December 16 2010 at 5:47pm
Sorry, but I'm not sure what you're talking about. You can ask anyone on the forum. I never say anything to bash kamalfan. I usually tell others not quote him. I try to keep peace, and other members will agree. I'm not trying to question your authority, but this PM doesn't fit. I don't bash anyone.
-- Previous Private Message --
Sent by : ramas
Sent : December 16 2010 at 5:30pm
kamal fan stop name calling. why don't you enjoy the show and discussion. I am with all members including you.
Unfortunately you just come down on name calling and bashing. That does not work on iF we have to follow rules.
I actually got quite scared and thought I was going to get banned and stuff! I completely missed the part where she addressed "kamalsfan". 😆
She was a wonderful moderator and a wonderful person. From the posts I've been reading today, she seems to have shed much love, happiness, and help to many members on this forum. I remember during the MID crisis she was even willing to talk and give advice to the MID who had abused her so badly. She did not ban one of their accounts for some time thinking that they wanted to change. This showed to me her maturity and forgiving nature.
I'm getting very emotional as I write all this, and I'm seriously about to cry. If I am feeling so affected by her death, then I'm sure many others who have been close to her will be really shattered by her death.
I hope her spirit is free and flying happy, and that she unites in heaven with God. Remember everyone: A spirit never dies. Only the body is gone. In life we will always meet the same spirits again, but in a different body form. At the end of one journey begins another. I hope wherever she is, she is happy and doing well.
I pray for strength for her family and friends. May they have the strength to overcome their grave loss. Okay, I have to stop now because I will start crying very badly!
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