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Posted: 28 January 2011 at 11:56am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sbanik


Thanks a lot Isha Smile
 Yes, I totally agree with you. Even I liked their  joint-yet-nuclear family setup. 

I havent come across a single joint family where all are adjusting in nature. A very rare thing to find indeed.


I have come across both joint and nuclear families - happy ones.
As Maya said it is indeed to each his own.

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Posted: 28 January 2011 at 12:37pm | IP Logged
Very well said, Maya *thumbs up*

Wish the show was on weekends, and I could participate actively... Weekdays hardly give me any time to type up more than a line or two Ouch

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Posted: 28 January 2011 at 3:40pm | IP Logged
Def each to their own and what suits each family's needs according to different factors! Personally I've done both and prefer the hustle and bustle of a houseful...I much preferred living with my MIL there was always a comfort of an elder persons pyar dular and wisdom...which I believe the more modern generation sees as interference! As long as everyone is given their mental and physical space and evryone from elders to youngsters respect each other....a joint family for me is my ideal choice :) each to their own though we all have our choices dependant on lifestyle :)

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Posted: 28 January 2011 at 4:24pm | IP Logged
Nice post Arjun...i'll drop my VOP soonWink
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Posted: 30 January 2011 at 12:23pm | IP Logged
I find nuclear family better. Like peace!
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Posted: 30 January 2011 at 12:38pm | IP Logged
Joint families are a pain in the ass!! Every single moment other see what you are doing, you are under scrutiny of others 24/7, if you have a more money than others, they constantly are pissed that you can afford things and they can't. Such things ruin the relationship; on the other hand if you live far away or only see each other on special occasions, it's so much easier to be nice.

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Posted: 30 January 2011 at 3:41pm | IP Logged
no joint families for me; had a forgettable experience living in one Wacko I've lived in a joint family for 6 years of my life, and while we had our moments, it simply didn't work for me on the whole. no space, no freedom, no transparency (too much inter-relationship secrecy) and too much subtle friction between people to not notice. we hardly knew each other. I was closest to my grandmother and my dad and pretty much stuck to them, but whenever I was put in a situation where I had no choice but to get along with my aunts and uncles, that's when I felt screwed to the core LOL

I'm much happier and saner now. I'm still in touch with everyone and routinely visit them during my holidays and festivals, and I'd like to keep it that way. 

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