1. 1. Trust is a big base of relationships. Trust, communication, acceptance.I am a firm believer that u have to be honest with ur partner about everything, if you are gonna be together. I am also a firm believer that trust is one of the most important things in a relationship as well.
Honesty first --- leads to trust.
2. 2. Get your ego out of the way – its difficult for love and ego to co-exist for long. If its always about what can I get out of this ? you cant ever experience an enriching relationship. In face most relationships go sore because of ego involvement. Do u always try to have ur way. Make your opinion right or get your point of view across ? if this is your attitude, its gonna give you a lot of pain and its not going to keep ur husband happy.
3. 3. Ask his family over & over.your Husband's parents mean a lot to him. so ask them over for a Sunday lunch he will be touched by your loving gesture. Be kind to ur mother in law the same way u would like ur husband to be kind to ur own mother.
4. 4. Stop trying to change your husband into someone else, after all you married him for who he is. Give him a good morning kiss or hug when he wakes up. Don't ever disrespect him in front of his friends. This is a definite no no. no matter what the disagreement or situation, wait until you both get alone to iron out the problem. This cannot be stressed enough. A man's male ego is a super powerful source of strength. If u knock his ego down in front of his friends or relatives he may want to forget about the incident but his friends may remind him or just being around them can be a constant reminder of how u dissed him in their eyesight.
5. 5. Behave like a female, ie all the tenderness of a female –a man doesn't want a man for his wife. Let him chill with his friends without guilt. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn't feel cooped up.
6. 6. Don't get mad over small things. Stop nagging – try to be his girlfriend rather than his mother, always. There is nothing less attractive to a guy than nagging woman. For some reason most women turn to nagging after marriage. Stop trying to improve your husband and just accept him for what he is. When he sees such an unconditional love on your part he will reciprocate in the same manner. If he is a little disorganized just live with it and stop criticizing him for it. When u criticize him or show him down, he will feel resentment towards you and he's definitely not going to be happy.
