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Why should girl do all the adjustint

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Posted: 27 January 2011 at 12:00am | IP Logged
To expect the Mona to change completely and become Gujju in her behavior is insane. The play could have  been successful if both the families change a little bit. Anukalap's family tries to accommodate Mona and Mona accommodates.

Mona's saasu ma looks extremely unhappy,  looks like keeping the family together is like climbing the Everest, it totally selfish endeavor ..if I was Mona I would never ever like to become like her..Punjabi women look way happier ..

Moral of the story don't marry traditional sanskari (phony) people u will be follow stupid meaningless tradition, which are designed to control the members.

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Posted: 27 January 2011 at 2:46pm | IP Logged
ur right the girl should not be the only one adjusting
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Posted: 28 January 2011 at 11:31pm | IP Logged
Unfortunately that is the mindset of many Indian people. Right now, they look at Mona as an outsider who must prove herself. It's either their way or the highway.

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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 10:51am | IP Logged
Unfortunately this does happen in India at least, be it in any cast... Its a girl who needs to leave her traditions and adjust in the boy's family traditions completely.
 
No other member of the family will adjust or change for the DIL. Yes they can be helpful in helping a girl adjust in her new environment which is nt being shown in RMJ bt that's te case in 60% Indian household, so can't blame CV's for showing that...
 
Unfortunately MIL's like Anukalp's grandma, sister, and aunt do exist in every househols and they leave no opportunity to taunt their DIL and her parents..  

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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 2:50pm | IP Logged
i think most of the in-laws are controlling

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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 4:22pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by abhilasha_dream

Unfortunately this does happen in India at least, be it in any cast... Its a girl who needs to leave her traditions and adjust in the boy's family traditions completely.
 
No other member of the family will adjust or change for the DIL. Yes they can be helpful in helping a girl adjust in her new environment which is nt being shown in RMJ bt that's te case in 60% Indian household, so can't blame CV's for showing that...
 
Unfortunately MIL's like Anukalp's grandma, sister, and aunt do exist in every househols and they leave no opportunity to taunt their DIL and her parents..  


sad but true.
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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 7:31pm | IP Logged
All these things definitely makes a girl not wanna live with her in-laws! 
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Posted: 30 January 2011 at 2:07am | IP Logged
Unfortunate its the reality in almost all part of the south asian countries.Though I am not Indian but have many Indian friends from whom I know that.

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