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sweety90 Senior Member
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Posted: 26 January 2011 at 4:59pm | IP Logged
Hey everyone..... 
directly coming to my story and my prb.... i know dis guy since 5 years and hes my best friend on internet... he knows i love him and he also loves me but he b4 he found out that he moved on wid another girl and recently broke up wid her.... i even proposed him but he refused me. he said he jst wana keep friendship wid me but he said he is more than my boyfriend but dun wna keep any other relation wid me.... i dun mind to be his friend but i do mind seeing him un happy all the time... he doesn't talk after his broke up wid dis girl... he is very hurt and depressed.. doesn't come online much doesnt talk wid me like he used to be...  im trying to cheer him up wid poems cards love everything i can do but he seems not interested... he is hurt but i wana take him out frm dis i wana see him happy
 
can anyone give me any kind of advice so i can make him happy... i really love him i can't bear his silence.. he comes online say hi wats up and den quite duesnt say anthing and say not in the mood to talk and leave... im crying a lot... i can't see him like dis.. pls help me out plsss...Cry

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Posted: 27 January 2011 at 7:47am | IP Logged
It's quite normal right now 2 behave in this manner as he is fresh frm a break up wid tym he w'll become fine. U keep on giving all the luv nd care u hve 4 him.he will be cured of the hurt.
REMEMBER:LOVE IS THE BEST HEALER.
sweety90 Senior Member
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Posted: 27 January 2011 at 11:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ANIROCKS

It's quite normal right now 2 behave in this manner as he is fresh frm a break up wid tym he w'll become fine. U keep on giving all the luv nd care u hve 4 him.he will be cured of the hurt.
REMEMBER:LOVE IS THE BEST HEALER.
Thanks Anirocks... i m trying ma best... sumtimes i even fight wid him that ur hurting me wid ur strange behavior so he say sorry to me but he is not complaining anything at all. like im hurt or im depressed.. hes jst quite.... i asked him " do u love me" so he said yes i do... i duno if hes hurt or im hurt... yeh im doing ma best... we talk abt like whole day and still i can't find him happy.. but im keep sending him jokes poems... but thanks for replyingSmile i think ur ryte he needs time... Confused
sweety90 Senior Member
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Posted: 28 January 2011 at 3:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweety90

Originally posted by ANIROCKS

It's quite normal right now 2 behave in this manner as he is fresh frm a break up wid tym he w'll become fine. U keep on giving all the luv nd care u hve 4 him.he will be cured of the hurt.
REMEMBER:LOVE IS THE BEST HEALER.
Thanks Anirocks... i m trying ma best... sumtimes i even fight wid him that ur hurting me wid ur strange behavior so he say sorry to me but he is not complaining anything at all. like im hurt or im depressed.. hes jst quite.... i asked him " do u love me" so he said yes i do... i duno if hes hurt or im hurt... yeh im doing ma best... we talk abt like whole day and still i can't find him happy.. but im keep sending him jokes poems... but thanks for replyingSmile i think ur ryte he needs time... Confused
  plz people help me out... my friend has changed a lot... hes not talking like he used to be... he always say hes not in mood... i duno wat to do... i can't bear his silence... plz help me plzzzz Cry
Rafeal. IF-Sizzlerz
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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 8:22pm | IP Logged
Give him some time. May be you shld stop talking to him for some days. He will come around when he starts missing you. I know you might find it difficult to stay away, but do give it a try...
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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 8:30pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jake-neil

Give him some time. May be you shld stop talking to him for some days. He will come around when he starts missing you. I know you might find it difficult to stay away, but do give it a try...
i think ur right... but wat if he start forgetting me tooo... cuz i was away when he had broke up and after when i came back first he was being nice and very friendly adn then i felt he fed up wid me too...  hes really really behaving strangly like we never ever talk of anyting... 
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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 8:38pm | IP Logged
Just ignore him completely for a week or two and see if there is a response. Then get bak to him and say u had some exams or went on a vacatn or something. But i am telling u, u hav to act smart and dont be possesve and desp. Hold all those poems and messages for a while and dont talk abt love at all.

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sweety90 Senior Member
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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 8:59pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jake-neil

Just ignore him completely for a week or two and see if there is a response. Then get bak to him and say u had some exams or went on a vacatn or something. But i am telling u, u hav to act smart and dont be possesve and desp. Hold all those poems and messages for a while and dont talk abt love at all.
hmmm i really like ur response.. i guess ur right.. Actually im not talking wid him about love at all when i realized he jst dun wana talk about it at all... so yh da only think i hav to do now is to ignore him completely... thanks...Smile

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