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Poll Question: Can Men &Women Be Platonic Friends

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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 11:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

I believe friendship is possible if they totally free frm all bondage of society, culture, civilization, only living true to their authentic nature....friendship is so valuable tht whatsoever the consequence, remain friends even with ur gf/bf,ur wife, even with your husband, and allow absolute and total freedom to each other...

Those people, dont know abt friendship, they give different names...If we check hostory or holy books, lots of gr8 friendship stories there eg.Sudama & Lord Krishna's and Pht. Mohammed also have lots of friends,Pht keen to make everyone feel that he was close to him. He was always ready to do for his friends and companions whatever they needed to be done..and even Jesus said b4,a true friend will tell us when we are wrong.
 
Another thing is,nobody can be a friend here unless the ego disappears.... Once the ego disappears the whole life has a quality of friendship, of love. Then you are friendly, simply friendly ...Smile
think about the bold part again.... the only think possible there is s*x!!! We are never born to be friends... we are taught to be friends.. remember the mommy lessons on sharing and being nice... Tongue

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Posted: 29 January 2011 at 10:51pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by Believe

I believe friendship is possible if they totally free frm all bondage of society, culture, civilization, only living true to their authentic nature....friendship is so valuable tht whatsoever the consequence, remain friends even with ur gf/bf,ur wife, even with your husband, and allow absolute and total freedom to each other...

Those people, dont know abt friendship, they give different names...If we check hostory or holy books, lots of gr8 friendship stories there eg.Sudama & Lord Krishna's and Pht. Mohammed also have lots of friends,Pht keen to make everyone feel that he was close to him. He was always ready to do for his friends and companions whatever they needed to be done..and even Jesus said b4,a true friend will tell us when we are wrong.
 
Another thing is,nobody can be a friend here unless the ego disappears.... Once the ego disappears the whole life has a quality of friendship, of love. Then you are friendly, simply friendly ...Smile
think about the bold part again.... the only think possible there is s*x!!! We are never born to be friends... we are taught to be friends.. remember the mommy lessons on sharing and being nice... Tongue
^LOL
 
Yes boss u r RightLOL.....but I feel the problem is: biologically man is attracted to woman, women are attracted to men, bt that attraction cannot remain the same forever...thats the truthConfused......another thing is man has created societies, cultures, civilizations, rules, regulations, n made the whole humanity unnatural.... Tht's why men and women cannot be friends......all want ownerships ...thn start owning each other.... people are nt things, you cannt have ownership......and hope u know tht....Nobody will fall in love....everybody will decide consciously that "This is the one"may be He/she has knwn so many people, he/she understands tht this is the one who has those characteristics, those qualities tht he/she has loved....Big smile
 
What to do...fact is people are becoming imprisoned, chained... thy lose all their joy..cos of this......life is so simple and so beautiful, just one thing is missing... freedomConfusedBig smile


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Posted: 01 February 2011 at 5:36am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

 
Yes boss u r RightLOL.....but I feel the problem is: biologically man is attracted to woman, women are attracted to men, bt that attraction cannot remain the same forever...thats the truthConfused......another thing is man has created societies, cultures, civilizations, rules, regulations, n made the whole humanity unnatural.... Tht's why men and women cannot be friends......all want ownerships ...thn start owning each other.... people are nt things, you cannt have ownership......and hope u know tht....Nobody will fall in love....everybody will decide consciously that "This is the one"may be He/she has knwn so many people, he/she understands tht this is the one who has those characteristics, those qualities tht he/she has loved....Big smile
 
What to do...fact is people are becoming imprisoned, chained... thy lose all their joy..cos of this......life is so simple and so beautiful, just one thing is missing... freedomConfusedBig smile
Its time for my Bheja fry this time

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Posted: 01 February 2011 at 5:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by crazy_sunny

Its time for my Bheja fry this time
 
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Posted: 10 February 2011 at 7:27am | IP Logged
i agree with the idea
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Posted: 10 February 2011 at 10:22am | IP Logged
I think, its quite a remote idea to be together every minute - if that's about the proximity and not end up in love. Passing thoughts kill in such friendships, I believe because one may really like considering the fact that sometime in future, they could be in love with their best friend. 

I am talking hypothetical stuff, but with very many people - this isn't possible. 
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Posted: 10 February 2011 at 3:24pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by crazy_sunny

Why question men and women being platonic when we are seeing men and men / women and women not being platonic any longer?
yeah right, veri good point there....
 
so also men and sheep, dogs and spanners...!!!!LOL
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Posted: 11 February 2011 at 5:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by crazy_sunny

Why question men and women being platonic when we are seeing men and men / women and women not being platonic any longer?
yeah right, veri good point there....
 
so also men and sheep, dogs and spanners...!!!!LOL
some people like to get off the beaten path LOL

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