Originally posted by: anjubala
Simi, you brought tears to my eyes.. thanks hun for sharing such a personal thing with us. We all love you so much. And yes your story is so much similar to NiVren. And you yourself have written that you still live with his insecurities and he only asked for your unconditional love. So don't you think that NiVren are exactly the same. He wants her unconditional love hence is trying hard to woo her and to make her hate Sid - her first love. You know what your hubby went thru' in hostel but Viren's past is not yet shown..So we do not know what all he has gone thru'. As you said please be non-judgemental and that is what we are trying to say (Navz, Suchi. Milee and myself) that please do not be so judgemental in regards to Viren and do not bash him as we still do not know the whole picture.
We all are together in this journey..
Love you a lot for sharing this. GOD bless both of you with all the happiness and love.
Hi Anju. Thanks for liking my story and i am happy to have touched your heart. As you know we have no control over our life. it comes without many choices. but our attitude towards that can be changed. Thanks for your wishes and blessing. they are very much needed now and forever.
@ bold - this non-judgmental and other traits like patience and maturity Only come with age and Experience in life. You are a mother of 2 girls and hence you have those qualities which we don't have. Sometimes I do not even know IF i am ready to be a mother. I do not have much patience and attention power needed for a child. But everyone says ..when it will happen ..I will have it. God gives you that power and patience. God only gives you what you can handle. Because he knows you more than you know urself. (same goes for Nivi. GOD knows what she can handle. He will give her Strength when Viren's truth will come out..he will give her power to fight)
That's why ..it is important we have patience and support for other Younger Friends here. We need to be their shoulders to cry on. We need to be their strength when they are lost in thoughts.
So, don't expect too much from them. be there to hear them out only.
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