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MonuKaKinshuk Senior Member
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Posted: 25 January 2011 at 4:03am | IP Logged
viren was the one who gave her the idea, she just occassinally smiled thats  it!!!!!!!!!

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Posted: 25 January 2011 at 4:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Omshanti1111

Its another way to look at the events, that Nivedita ensured Sid gets married to Divya and took her revenge.

There is nothing wrong in that, Sid misbehaved with her and her father, so she gave him the apt reply.



I actually didn't see it from that point of view but then why isn't that possible. I'm not saying that Nivedita deliberately planned Divya marriage to Siddath but could not her own inner demons of made this revenge if we call it that possible?

After what happened to her Father Nivi was hurting for she was betrayed not by Dadi or Chancahl or Jawahar which she could've of tolerated but by Siddath the one who she loved but also who loved her- can their be no painful a betrayal then that by a loved one?

So Nivi is hurting and wants/needs to lash out but her conscience personality does not allow her to do that so when she's given the opportunity- Dada Saab wish for Divya and Siddath to marry she does everything possible to ensure this happens even though Siddath is more then willing to put aside Dada Saab wish and marry Nivedita.

To not feel anger or hurt or wishing to hurt the ones that have caused us grief is not part of human nature it is how we deal with these emotions that matter, Nivi dealt with it in the way her character is by turning the other cheek and sacrifice however to pretend that she didn't feel hurt or betrayed or wanted to 'lash' out would be wrong too.

In this view then Nivedita marriage to Viren cannot be seen as Viren complete persuasion or use of Nivi emotional state against her; Nivi KNEW exactly what she was doing and understood the consequences of it- her Father even warned her that if she was to go ahead she would not be his daughter but she still went ahead just for the love of Divya?

To lose a Father for a Sister who is blind to the truth possible but is it not just as possible that after what Siddath had done to her Father Nivi could not of married Siddath but subconsciously still wanted some form of revenge against the Sood Family so when Viren offered marriage Nivi took it.

Nivedita enters the Sood House as a Sood Bahu and will be the catalyst that brings about a toofan to the Soods.

These are just possible ways of viewing what has happened that's all but it would be interesting if Nivi was a bit grey too.




Edited by shasha74 - 25 January 2011 at 4:19am

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Posted: 25 January 2011 at 10:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunflower52

After all Sid did and does you have the guts to blame Nivi and Viren. I am sorry to say Sids cowardness bought all this upon himself the pain.
 
If he never wanted to marry Divya he could have found a way to get out from the relationship. There are many ways, but he did not.
 
 I used to hate it when he called Nivi PUTUL, she not a doll.  I am glad she found Viren, his twisted ways at least made Nivi strong.
 
For once I want Sid to open his eyes and mind and mouth. So the enimity between Sharmas and soods finishes.
 
 
It's not about blaming anyone..was just stating the facts..
Sid could have got out of the relationship with Divya through several  ways when his grandpa wished for the relationship in his death bed
 
fine... then..similarly
 
Nivi could have thought of other ways than marrying viren inorder to bring sid and divya together for her sacrifice
 
sid did wrong in not supporting nivi when her father was being framed..
 
nivi too did wrong by marrying viren and going into the same house that insulted her family and forgetting all her earlier vows..who would ever do the act of marrying the brother of a person whom u loved and go as DIL of parents who were reponsible for shattering the dreams of ur father and for the death of  u'r own mother??Angry
 
viren did wrong by acting a drama in front of his whole family, utilizing Nivi and subjecting her through mental tortures  for achieving his motives whatever it is ..
 
So here you see everyone has their own faults..
I can't see why blaming Viren and Nivi is such a big thing..
I've stated that all in the group has their faults whether it's sid or nivi or viren..
we can't just shut our eyes to the fault of a few people and justify the blames of others...
 
Being a coward is a fault..
 
Being too helpless and going against ur family in the names of sacrifice  is a fault...
 
Using someone for achieving one's motives..well that is definitely a big fault..
 
Now reg putul...Nivi absolutely matches that term b'cos she has been a doll , always helpless and shy..
But till now she has not done anything to overcome that..she is still helpless in front of her CC maa
and yasodhara dadi ..when they ask her to take vow not to meet her father,dadi etc..she takes that..
I too don't like such helplessness in women ..but Nivi has always shown that and now she is blindly trusting Viren and is like a a puppet in his hands...
 
The nature of respecting the family and being calm is sid's nature  ;  viren's twisted ways  and not caring for anyone in the family is his nature...well all in this world are not alike right..diff people have diff characterestics that they inherit from their parents or  based on their upbringing etc..
 
  Nivi does not have to depend on any of these guys to be strong..she has to be independent and learn how to be strong ....she has been always bound by sarifices..helplessness...doubts...confusions..
all these can never help her to get strong...if she proves to be a true woman of substance and becomes independent, then no one would call her putul or doll or whatever..
 
 
 


Edited by ctms - 26 January 2011 at 1:06am

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Posted: 26 January 2011 at 6:03am | IP Logged
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just talking about Sid, Nivi, and Viren:

everyone of them have their faults. In case of Sid, he could not support Nivedita, when time came and thats his fault. He also could have found ways as u said not to marry Divya, but gave in. So, he has to bear what he did.

Nivedita married Viren forgetting every vow that she took to be with her father and family, and landed up with the same Soods, marrying the younger brother of the man, whom she loved and was taking pheres before.

Viren, used Nivedita against Sid. He is faking and scheming throughout, as he wants to take his own revenge.

Three of them have faults, but there is a reason for all three to have acted such in the given circumstance. Thus it is essential to weigh each with the same scale and not pass a biased judgement.


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