Viren.........Sid and Dadaji. - Page 2

Originally posted by: TanushreeS

this is my first ever post at the ccbm forum...even though iv been a silent reader....so helloz to all :)

 

one thing significant about the dinner table hostel wala scene was ther lines said by dadaji....they had double meaning hidden in them....

 

when he said "aaj jo viren hain woh ussi din ki badaulat hain....hostel ne tumhari zindagi badal di"....and the way viren was holding the spoon there as if using the spoon like a dagger showed that those words held a different meaning for him altogether...

 

....dadaji's lines seemed to have seriously sinister meanings which were unknown to dadaji himself....he had sent  viren to hostel to make him a better guy ...but the way viren reacted to those lines showed that he had had a horrible life at the hostel....it was that experience which made him what he is now....

 

Originally posted by: TanushreeS

this is my first ever post at the ccbm forum...even though iv been a silent reader....so helloz to all :)

 

one thing significant about the dinner table hostel wala scene was ther lines said by dadaji....they had double meaning hidden in them....

 

when he said "aaj jo viren hain woh ussi din ki badaulat hain....hostel ne tumhari zindagi badal di"....and the way viren was holding the spoon there as if using the spoon like a dagger showed that those words held a different meaning for him altogether...

 

....dadaji's lines seemed to have seriously sinister meanings which were unknown to dadaji himself....he had sent  viren to hostel to make him a better guy ...but the way viren reacted to those lines showed that he had had a horrible life at the hostel....it was that experience which made him what he is now....

 

my children are in boarding...can u imagine, and they are on a vacation, this pushed me to ask them do they really feel like that???? but hostel is not a punishment, it is for the overall development of a child as well...this is how u take it depends on person to person...i think viren is suffering from sibling rivalary...and it happens when parents compare one to other, even when to friends and that is very very normal in our culture...like for our examination result neighbours are more worid then us or our parents...hehehehe

Viren must have had a really bad experience during his stay in the hostel...he must be a loner and instead of benefits i think he took it as punishment...sad for him really, he is looking for extra attention which only and only nivi can give him, if after all this she stays with him....and that is what the track would be she will give him care as a mother, love as a wife....and he would fall in love with her surely, still also he loves her but that realisation is not there as his mind is working only in one direction taking revenge from sid, and he has snatched his love...this is a very natural feeling when one child is kept at home and the other send to a boarding...and the loneliness of hostel is not an easy task when u go from such a loving joint family and u are used to showering of love...the child asks yyyyyyyyy its only he y not sid...good topic but putting boardings in bad light is not fair...many many successful students come out of hostels...boarding is for the overall development of the child and very beneficial as it makes the child independent and that really helps them in life ahead....

Originally posted by: vandipai

my children are in boarding...can u imagine, and they are on a vacation, this pushed me to ask them do they really feel like that????

That was really nice of u.......I really liked how u immediately reacted to what showed today........its impotant to always ask the kids how they feel outside the home in other places.......especially when it comes to boardings.

 

but hostel is not a punishment, it is for the overall development of a child as well...this is how u take it depends on person to person...i think viren is suffering from sibling rivalary...and it happens when parents compare one to other, even when to friends and that is very very normal in our culture...like for our examination result neighbours are more worid then us or our parents...hehehehe

 

But u know what Boardings are not always safe for kids......there have been so may incidents shown on the news as well.....about some kids....what they have to go through with other kids.....be it may out of jealousy in the ranking in class.....or anything else........it sometimes shakes the very self of the kids conscious.

 

Viren must have had a really bad experience during his stay in the hostel...he must be a loner and instead of benefits i think he took it as punishment...sad for him really, he is looking for extra attention which only and only nivi can give him, if after all this she stays with him....and that is what the track would be she will give him care as a mother, love as a wife....and he would fall in love with her surely, still also he loves her but that realisation is not there as his mind is working only in one direction taking revenge from sid, and he has snatched his love...this is a very natural feeling when one child is kept at home and the other send to a boarding...and the loneliness of hostel is not an easy task when u go from such a loving joint family and u are used to showering of love...the child asks yyyyyyyyy its only he y not sid...

 

That was exactly what i thought.....coz when a child goes through this kind of treatment....be it may for his welfare.....but for him it'll be a punishment n a face of partiality...........n thats y when u have kids of same group growing up together.....u need to concentrate on both.

And Viren's hatred for Sid i think is majorly coz Sid in his own way had always won the rest of the family members hearts.........but Viren was unable to do so.......he was unable to match upto thier expectations.........n thats y he wants to defame sid in front of everyone......so that Sid gets insulted n feel humiliated like how Viren had felt then at that time.

 

good topic but putting boardings in bad light is not fair...many many successful students come out of hostels...boarding is for the overall development of the child and very beneficial as it makes the child independent and that really helps them in life ahead....

 

I agree.....coz even my cousins are in boardings.....n especially for boys.....boardings are a good turning point......coz they become so disciplined.......And yess.....its for child's overall development.

 

Originally posted by: vandipai

my children are in boarding...can u imagine, and they are on a vacation, this pushed me to ask them do they really feel like that???? but hostel is not a punishment, it is for the overall development of a child as well...this is how u take it depends on person to person...i think viren is suffering from sibling rivalary...and it happens when parents compare one to other, even when to friends and that is very very normal in our culture...like for our examination result neighbours are more worid then us or our parents...hehehehe

Viren must have had a really bad experience during his stay in the hostel...he must be a loner and instead of benefits i think he took it as punishment...sad for him really, he is looking for extra attention which only and only nivi can give him, if after all this she stays with him....and that is what the track would be she will give him care as a mother, love as a wife....and he would fall in love with her surely, still also he loves her but that realisation is not there as his mind is working only in one direction taking revenge from sid, and he has snatched his love...this is a very natural feeling when one child is kept at home and the other send to a boarding...and the loneliness of hostel is not an easy task when u go from such a loving joint family and u are used to showering of love...the child asks yyyyyyyyy its only he y not sid...good topic but putting boardings in bad light is not fair...many many successful students come out of hostels...boarding is for the overall development of the child and very beneficial as it makes the child independent and that really helps them in life ahead....

 

Child or Adult if you make them do something they dont want to do they will lash.

Originally posted by: vandipai

my children are in boarding...can u imagine, and they are on a vacation, this pushed me to ask them do they really feel like that???? but hostel is not a punishment, it is for the overall development of a child as well...this is how u take it depends on person to person...i think viren is suffering from sibling rivalary...and it happens when parents compare one to other, even when to friends and that is very very normal in our culture...like for our examination result neighbours are more worid then us or our parents...hehehehe

Viren must have had a really bad experience during his stay in the hostel...he must be a loner and instead of benefits i think he took it as punishment...sad for him really, he is looking for extra attention which only and only nivi can give him, if after all this she stays with him....and that is what the track would be she will give him care as a mother, love as a wife....and he would fall in love with her surely, still also he loves her but that realisation is not there as his mind is working only in one direction taking revenge from sid, and he has snatched his love...this is a very natural feeling when one child is kept at home and the other send to a boarding...and the loneliness of hostel is not an easy task when u go from such a loving joint family and u are used to showering of love...the child asks yyyyyyyyy its only he y not sid...good topic but putting boardings in bad light is not fair...many many successful students come out of hostels...boarding is for the overall development of the child and very beneficial as it makes the child independent and that really helps them in life ahead....