whoz resposible for Tapasyas current state?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: vijayam

Okay..accepted..from your example this what I wud say....parents gifted Sweety a computer...good....then she gets poor grades...thats the first warning signal...parent shud become cautious..and monitor her computer time....talk to her, be like a friend to her & in the process find what sites she visits...make her understand whats more important for her...
in tappu's case...iccha got enough warning signs...but she never informed jogi....and jogi  cud never be warned to take any action...he blindly trusted his daughter....
so my vote is none of the options given...but taps partially responsible for her current state..

chalo story mei add karte parents ne warn kiya..so shez aware its wrong, but still she does not stop..u can take a horse 2 the water but u cannot make it drink, tapasya was reprimaded and she was all along aware tht she is not right in her actions, but still she does it... tht makes her totally responsible for the repurcussions shez facing...

BINGO, i agree with u ..

u do wrong things learn to accept ur doing it on ur own , ....as simple as that

Originally posted by: rahulvaid1

 

meri commission chahiye madam😉vaise who is responsible for taps current status😆only and only srk jii😉naa woh usko itnaa support karti naa woh itnnaa bigadti😉😆

deti hu, bank details bata do pm, saath mein PIN n password bhee😉😆😆😆😆😆 to add future precentages😛😆😆😆 ur right srk ko blame karte hai for a change..😉😆

Originally posted by: ladybird9

deti hu, bank details bata do pm, saath mein PIN n password bhee😉😆😆😆😆😆 to add future precentages😛😆😆😆 ur right srk ko blame karte hai for a change..😉😆

she herself is responsible for her situation

Originally posted by: cjs369

I agree with you shivani...Its very easy n convenient to blame some one else for our plight n actions... but one forgets when one is pointing one's finger at someone else, the other three fingers are pointing at self...
In this case Tapasya n only she herself is responsible for her current miserable state....

@ bold absolutely right,

She was aware tht she was wrong right from the moment she was doing evil things n she needed no direction yaa guidance 2 know she was wrong...

Originally posted by: vijayam

Okay..accepted..from your example this what I wud say....parents gifted Sweety a computer...good....then she gets poor grades...thats the first warning signal...parent shud become cautious..and monitor her computer time....talk to her, be like a friend to her & in the process find what sites she visits...make her understand whats more important for her...
in tappu's case...iccha got enough warning signs...but she never informed jogi....and jogi  cud never be warned to take any action...he blindly trusted his daughter....
so my vote is none of the options given...but taps partially responsible for her current state..

Ichcha got warning signal, maybe... but Ichcha was not tap's care taker and neither was she mature enough to understand the seriousness of these warning signals or what the consequences wud be...

Ichcha the youngest in the house, always taunted by Nani and emotionally blackmailed by taps was hardly in a situation to handle a cunning n manipulative person like taps... whatever was possible for her as a friend, Ichcha did... she was constantly telling taps to stop her wrong doings and to stop telling lies to her parents ... beyond that, taps was too smart n cunning for Ichcha to handle ...

as far as partially resposible state is concerned ... may be as a child, I wud agree...as to certain extent one cud say the parents shud keep an eye on what the child is doing... but as an adult Taps is totally responsible for her actions and the current miserable state she is in...
Edited by cjs369 - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rahulvaid1

 

 

srk jii ke pyaar ne tappy baby ko bigad diya🤣srk ki ladli bigad gayi😉🤣

srk is giving iv infusions 2 the horse 2 make it survive...if tht horse doesnt drink water..it will die..whatever anyone does its temporary...finally its the horse responsible for its death not drinking water....😛😆😆😆
achaaa btw bank details kaha hai,saath mein pin n pswrd bhulna mat... 😉😆

Originally posted by: ladybird9

srk is giving iv infusions 2 the horse 2 make it survive...if tht horse doesnt drink water..it will die..whatever anyone does its temporary...finally its the horse responsible for its death not drinking water....😛😆😆😆
achaaa btw bank details kaha hai,saath mein pin n pswrd bhulna mat... 😉😆

Originally posted by: cjs369

Ichcha got warning signal, maybe... but Ichcha was not taps care taker and neither was she mature enough to understand the seriousness of these warning signals or what the consequences wud be... Ichcha the youngest in the house, always taunted by Nani and emotionally blackmailed by taps was hardly in a situation to handle a cunning n manipulative person like taps... whatever was possible for her as a friend, Ichcha did... she was constantly telling taps to stop her wrong doings and to stop telling lies to her parents ...

Agreed, during their younger days..taps used to bully iccha I think...but why did iccha hide the truth about sid from jogi or veer...again she held back the truth that taps had swapped the letters from vansh..why?....she lied to vansh about sid when sid had come to meet taps one day and accidentally meets iccha....why? I think there are a few more I dont remember...