Originally posted by: bobby13rocks
I feel Darji has no right to do 'kanyadan'.As in hindu culture 'kanyadan' is believed to be 'punnya ka kaam'.Darji already apne kanya (Geet) ko dan kar chuke hai when he ordered Brij to kill her.So how can he ever be forgiven for that verbal crime.He's equally a criminal as Brij.Its only Mr.Manchanda who deserves it without any argument.
Originally posted by: delhigirl
yes i agree fully. when pinky thought that who will do geet's kanyadaan, i immediately thought of her dad. i agree that dadi, adi and manchanda should have done the kanyadaan. However, I do not blame Maan for bringing darjee. He only did that because since her sangeet geet has been missing her family. if geet had stayed strong he would not have gone to get them.
However, i also think that Cvs are trying to show that redemption is important in life if someone genuinely believes. Otherwise there never will be a word like forgiveness.Kay
Originally posted by: drdee142
Come to think of it you are absolutely spot on.....
I too initially thought that it would be Mr. Manchanda who did the kanyadan, he was not even at the wedding, how could the CV's miss such a vital point. Wasn't Manchanda the one who stood by Geet without asking any questions, without any ulterior motive and was more of a parent to Geet than her actual parents. He too was with Adi & Pinky trying to unite Maan and Geet during their misunderstanding.Adi another person who gave Geet her first break in her venture of starting a new life. He recommended a young, not properly educated, inexperienced girl for a job to a boss whom everyone was petrified of just on instinct and out of the good of his heart and he continued to stand by side through thick & thin even defying his boss Maan for Geet, he too definitely deserves the right for the KanyadanAnd my darling Daadi......she has been a mother, a grandmother, a friend, a guide and a guardian to Geet........who better to start her on this new live of her than Daadi......Nandita love you for pointing this out to all of us this should have been obvious to all of us but then you do have a knack for looking at things from a totally different and deep perspective and that's what I love most about you.
Originally posted by: dolphinUSA
Nandu...I love this post. I was anyway losing interest in the show because of all the crying and sadness even in marriage...and daarji coming back added fuel to the fire. I agree with what Kal and Poo said...the hands that almost beat her to death are now doing her kanyadaan? Like most people here, I really wish this right was given to uncle Manchanda.
You know the show goes down the drain when the CVs think they should show what they think is right as opposed to what the viewers want to see. Their decline started with the MU and separation track for Maaneet and they have been doing just that since then. When will they learn to take their viewers seriously? I understand that maybe the folks who played her parents were not available for shooting, but what was the point to bring them back anyway? They could have given her joy by Manchanda stepping in as father rather than her acting like a cry baby on the stage and then bring in daarji. I don't know what has gotten into the CVs....why can't they give in a moment's happiness to Geet?
The whole dream marriage was the BIGGEST put off for me in the entire time I saw GHSP:
- On the day of marriage she is attacked twice - NT and Brij
- On the day of marriage she is rubbed with remembrance of 1st marriage and family
- On the day of marriage her so called sister Annie is MIA from shaadi but rather is giving in to her desperate feelings. Who sleeps with the lover when there is a wedding in the house? That too of your brother?!?
I thought I had no words...but looks like I cannot control those that come out against the current track.
Originally posted by: nanditasingh
Dol ...first love u & Pooja....i was confused to post my views or not ..coz the general tide here as i had seen after SBB was of joy & it was what made me all socked.....
Even i too had said i will stay away today & not write one word
but see i broke my own record & made 2 posts in a day & that too sans my pics or poetry & not even directly dealing with Maan or MaanEet....
I could not agree more ...the whole 'apne toh apne' thing i cannot buy when its so so conveniently remembered & forgotten......
and as to dream wedding ....
Minus few brief moments of smile that i get to see on the couples face & of their true family members(Dadi, KC boys & girls) rest has been total nightmare nothing remotely near to what can be called dream
Originally posted by: dolphinUSA
@ Poo - hum aaye aur tum chale gaye...koi gal nahi...FB zindabad :P
@ Aditi - It's winter here babes...and it's toooo cold. So I was hibernating :P
@Nandu - You know I enjoyed the few moments of fun with Adi and gang. I wish Adi was given his due for all he did..to help Geet. And that one short Maahi moment in Wednesday's episode actually brought a smile to my face. I was so ready to write another scene but was under water with work...and when I got free, I was put off with what's happening now. How the hell will they keep their audience if they continue to create more and more damage?
@Kal - 🤗 I agree...the CVs have misinterpreted all that we wanted..<sigh> Worry not...My mood is good because I found my new love and addiction for the time being ;-)
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