Originally posted by: sherma@nikita:i also forgotton sachin,cause he is hrdly shown. i wld hav called manav a bad uncle for dat. i called manav a bad son cause he is trying to mend tings betwen archu and her fly and is not bthered abt his parents.i prefer vinod a better son cause wen he left d house he used to cum to meet his parents along wid his kids,here manav doesnt hav an hr to spend wid his parents.manav knows his house used to run from his money,karanjkar can survive widoout vinod income cause archu fther get pension but wat abt manav parents.is he waiting for d day wen his parents ask him for money.
giving gifts is not an issue,but its necessary to fulfil basic needs of ur parents first.his attention is totally diverteed towrds archu, he doesnt even cre thoda for his parents tat sucks.d cvs r giving wrong pictureupto now,just hope u r right and manav focuses on his parents too.
I think it is unfair to call him a bad son cos of what we have been shown in two months or so, in comparison with what has been shown about Manav in the 31 years of his life. He is trying to mend things as but he has his own limitations. I'm not absolving him of everything, but I'm saying that such extreme hatred is not fair.
Vinod is not a perfect son too. He left his family for Manju, he did not offer any financial aid to his parents. Archu's father HAD NO PENSION (we were shown that there was some court case going on regarding the pension issue) when Manju mistreated his Aai, he came back, and now he blatantly takes his wife's side. When Manav-Archu came home, he was rude to his parents and did not care about Archu's illness at all, rather kept ranting on and on and supporting Manju. He kept treating his Aai badly, separated the grihasthi, did not pay for his parents, emotionally hurt his Aai by not accepting the food she cooked etc. despite knowing very well that his father is a heart patient and his Aai also gets attacks, till date he has not apologized to Archana Manav or controlled his evil wife- on what basis are you saying he is a better son that Manav? Just bcos he lives with his parents or used to meet them earlier?
Sorry, I don't believe Vinod is a better son than Manav and Manav is a bad son. Vinod is a good son, but he has made his fair share of mistakes too.
And where are Savita-Damo suffering from basic necessities? The house is with them, Savita used to handle all the money, Damo does theatre on and off (we were shown this many times, in fact he said also to Savita that he will do something), in fact it is ArMan who are in a much worse state than them- they have to pay rent, get household Rashan, pay bills and manage all the household expenses in whatever little salary Manav is getting- and that too, he has got a job just recently.
Originally posted by: harpkaurthnx 4 d commentary kool di..sorry m late 2dai....i wz sayin d exact same thing abt Sapne...yar archu never said a wrd abt her sapne...she never complainz...shez happi in wtever she hve..her onli sapna iz 2 b with manav...her 2nd sapna wud b 2 b acceptd by savita aai....she nvr say anythng abt bein poor while her sisterz r married into rich familiez....
& savita aai iz vry lonely :( i feel sorry 4 her
Kools, I agree with everything. I agree that right now Manav is not able to handle his responsibilities of a son well.
But does that mean everyone should say he is a bad son, or that vinod is a better son than him? Isn't Manav trying from his end too- even if it is not enough according to you all? Ek baar uski condition, uski situation bhi to dekho?
Plus is it not somewhere Savita's responsibilty also to mend relations and help her struggling son, who is taking up multiple jobs? She isn't doing anything!!
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