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Originally posted by: aditi123_78and u r saying maan's happiness lies in geet's smiles...so watever he is doing ultimately comes down to making himself happy...come on gouri...wen we love someone...obviously we r happy if that person is smiling....so wen we do something for them...does that make us selfish....in the hospital maan called himself selfish because he said exactly the same words like u...but...really...it only proves how much generous he is....maan can give up his life just to make her smile....maneet r getting married...they both love each other...so its futile discussing these things now....personally i feel in any relationship....it is always one person who loves more than the other...this is my personal POV and nothing to do with GHSP...in this case i feel geet can never love maan as much as maan loves her....
Yes it does make one selfish...Only thing the context this selfish is used is in the Negative sense, but in the positive Light
Maan is generous, that he can Give his life to make her smile that's not generous that's still selflessly selfish dear....Geet did the same by going back to HP putting her life into trouble for him....Like Maan has saved Geet a Zillion times...Geet has also saved him...Its only because of her MSK has held his head up and walking with Pride after the IP fiasco
I agree that it is always one person who loves more than the other, but this love is also a Cycle.....A relationship can never be successful when One -sided, it always takes two....At one point of time if Husband is the one who showers his love, there comes a time when its vice-versa, its only then it becomes balance and hence perfect
And about Maan Geet and their love you feel Maan loves Geet more than Geet Loving him....But for me its the Yin-Yand theory.....If today its Maan who showers his love upon her, tomorrow its Geet....and this is what i like about their story, when one is Fire the other becomes water, if she is the day, he comes the Night😉
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