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NivRen: Pyaar Ki Ek Twisted Kahani (Page 142)

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Posted: 21 January 2011 at 2:25pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anjubala

Suchi, I loved your both the scenes where we got to slap Sid, DD, HL, PT, YD, CC..That was hilarious...atleast in your scenes we can do that.
 
@Milee, welcome back...good to know that you are getting better. I watched the scene you mentioned and it is because they were disturbed by Sid and he saw Nivi looking at Sid for few moments..
 
Hi Moni..so you are on cloud 9 looking at hot Viren today???Should i say Viren or Kinny?
 
 
Hii Jaaan , Hu r u ?  n hu is ur mom ?
 
Oh dear call him Viren or call him kinshuk or Call him ranvir , they r one all same guyzzz for me LOLWink .becozzz i love all 3 equally n madlyyy

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Posted: 21 January 2011 at 2:25pm | IP Logged
Hi Simi....so good to see you. I am very happy that all of us are feeling little better than last 2 days... We are trying to see some positive aspect to the whole situation..

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Posted: 21 January 2011 at 2:25pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by zarmeeno

Originally posted by sushmitadutta

Originally posted by prajee

no one asked what was the good news... :(:(
hmm... My marriage has been fixed today but dates are yet to be finalized... Smile
Wanted to share this news with all my dear darlings over here... :)
 
 
Wowwwww Thatzzz Greattt Prajeee . CONGRtAzzz . Clap
Congrats yaar r we all invitedWink


Thanks Moni and Zarmeen... :)
you are all invited sweeties and love to see u all in person... :)

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Posted: 21 January 2011 at 2:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by xaviara

Mythri another brilliant post sweetie !!

Even I have a feeling that Nivi will not be shattered or broken down when she finds out !! And whereas she cried a lot when it came to her breakup with Sid, it was more because of a betrayal by a friend, then a lover, and Nivi has come a long way since then !!

Another reason why I feel she would probably blast him, rather then break down is the NivRen scenes, which are proof !! NivRen has always felt a right on each other, since they met, maybe because of that bond which established after he saved her life and they kept meeting each other and helped each other without even knowing each others names !!

With Sid she would always take care of what he likes and dislikes, mainly because he was her protecter since childhood, but she was never able to claim her right over him, even as a friend, let alone as a lover !!

But it is the complete opposite for NivRen, look at how many times Nivi had gotten mad at Viren or gotten angry with him, even after the incident at lover's shack, she blasted him, how she told him to stay with her, not leave her, and he still left !!

So instead od worrying about Nivi, I'm more worried about Viren now, because when she find sout all hell will break loose and Viren will be dead meat !!

And you know why I can say this confidently now ? The main reason why Nivi was so ready to always give up Sid to Divya and was so broken up about her break up, was the fact that Sid never made her feel beautiful, or made her fall in love with herself first ! In fact his love was the sort that made Nivi probably feel that he has done her a huge favor by falling in love with her, that is why she was so dominated by him.

But in NivRen's case, Nivi feels, love, pampered, like a princess (Neha's words) Smile She not only basks in his love, but his love has also made her feel beautiful, worthy of love and happiness, gave her the boost and confidence that her personality need, made her emotionally strong, and gave her the right to call Viren hers !!! The Sid she was ready to give up in an instant, but Viren is 'Merey Viren'

Yes she would be hurt, she would be mad, she would be pissed of that he used her, but she would also try and understand why he did what he did, what circumstances made him use her, his own wife to frame his brother and take revenge from him, because at this point or later on even if Viren thinks or say that all of it was pretend, Nivi would know it was not, because a woman just knows !! That I can say with confidence !! Embarrassed


Only whom we LOVE can we hurt and they are the only once we can be angry with and in the end that is the person we tend to forgive because love is love :)

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Posted: 21 January 2011 at 2:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anjubala

Originally posted by Excruciating

Originally posted by xaviara

@ bold : Exactly what I was trying to say, that he knows that she loves him, but is still not ready to give in to him yet and he did not take advantage of her growing feelings for him !! That shows how much he loves her !! If Nivi was only someone he wanted to use, would he be this considerate of her feelings right ?
Navz, I want to ask you a question about the above (in bold). I don't understand this? I thought loving and giving in was synonymous. If she already loves him, why is she holding back? What is the reason to continue living under the same roof, as husband & wife but sleeping seperately?? I mean, if you are in love, I cannot fathom how you can hold back, not giving in? Sorry, if I am looking for too much logic here in a Hindi serial. Embarrassed But I really want to understand this. True, based on what Anju said that physical intimacy is not the only thing but it is very significant and constitutes an extremely important facet of a relationship!!
Payal, a very valid question. Here giving in means physically. Loving and giving yourself physically are 2 different things. Nivi has started developing feelings for Viren the way a girl would but still it is developing. Once she fully falls in love then she will have no hesitation or shyness to give in. Yes physical intimacy is very important for husband-wife relationship but again I will say it is not the only important aspect of married life. There are times when you do not want this initmacy but you still want your spouse to hold you and be with you emotionally. Emotional bonding is more important. If a girl is forced or gives in to her husband's physical demand without she being really ready, she is scarred for rest of her life. So it is very important for her to fully love Viren and fully trust him that he will not harm her in any way - physically or mentally.
Anju, thanks a ton, dear for explaining so beautifully. I love what you said (in bold)

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Posted: 21 January 2011 at 2:30pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Excruciating

Originally posted by xaviara

@ bold : Exactly what I was trying to say, that he knows that she loves him, but is still not ready to give in to him yet and he did not take advantage of her growing feelings for him !! That shows how much he loves her !! If Nivi was only someone he wanted to use, would he be this considerate of her feelings right ?

Navz, I want to ask you a question about the above (in bold). I don't understand this? I thought loving and giving in was synonymous. If she already loves him, why is she holding back? What is the reason to continue living under the same roof, as husband & wife but sleeping seperately?? I mean, if you are in love, I cannot fathom how you can hold back, not giving in? Sorry, if I am looking for too much logic here in a Hindi serial. Embarrassed But I really want to understand this. True, based on what Anju said that physical intimacy is not the only thing but it is very significant and constitutes an extremely important facet of a relationship!!


Payal, I think in Nivi's case it is more about that feeling of shyness that is holding her back, because she has just realized her feelings for Viren, and is experiencing the first stirrings of attraction and desire for her husband, that is why despite her shy nature she was so open and affectionate with Viren during their HM, but all her feelings are new to her, and she is just getting used to them and most of all HIM !! That is why she has not give in yet, but I really feel that had Viren not planned that stalking incident, Nivi would have not said no had Viren made a move to make her him and consummated their marriage !!

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Posted: 21 January 2011 at 2:32pm | IP Logged

Hi Simran! Hug How are you dear? Hehe, logging in from work as well?? Wink Is your boss back from his trip?? And, yup based on what we discussed yesterday night, this childhood love does sound phenomenal. Though I cannot dare hope for that to happen. Unhappy

Faiza, my sweets! Hug How are you dear??
 
Navz - I so loved your post about it is Viren whom we should be worried about and not Nivedita. That was just so brilliantly written! Clap Agreed with everything that you said! God, I am such a huge fan of your thoughts and how beautifully you put them into writing. Just love it! Hug

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Posted: 21 January 2011 at 2:32pm | IP Logged
Abidah, your reply to Navz is so true
 
Only whom we LOVE can we hurt and they are the only once we can be angry with and in the end that is the person we tend to forgive because love is love :)
 
Yes, we can only show our true self infront of our loved one and nobody else. So, same is true for other feelings like anger, upset, hurt.. Jahan pe pyaar hota hai wahin pe gussa, narazgi, jealousy hoti hai. Jis dil mein pyaar hai, usi dil mein jealosy, gussa bhi hota hai.

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