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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 10:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by salunie

Yes, at the back of my mind, I really doubt Viren's credibility now for anything. Especially his love for Nivi. She is used more like a weapon to get back at Sid.
Definitely, Viren is at fault, but I believe he's too headstrong regarding Sid. Maybe he hasn't even thought about all the tears that Nivi sheds when she's being tortured. 
Till last week, I was thinking that Nivi is so lucky to have someone like Viren as her life partnerDay Dreaming. And now... I really pity herOuch. When the truth comes out, she will be totally shattered. And the worst thing is, Nivi is not the independent type of girl who'd fight back such circumstances alone.  However, hopefully this will bring a drastic change to Nivi's character and we'll see her as a stong woman :)
She will cry and cry, then her tears will dry and she will emerge stronger (wrote some days back alsoWink)

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 10:37am | IP Logged
@ bani there is a vast difference between Nivis love for Sid and What She has felt for Viren!!! Nivi is basically a very giving girl and does not hold herself back once she trusts.....She had given  a lot of herself to Sid..Coz she trusted him.....She could give him up easily coz she lost her trust in him...Coz he sided the wrong ..not becoz she did not trust his love......She hates to side with the wrong and is so righteous in her thinking...she even gave up her maika jsu becoz she felt it was the right thing to do!!
 
More than everythinh she has started to fall for Viren Becoz he stoood by what is right....That is her priority...She is very mature that way and is not easily gullible to just sweet or romantic words!!!
 
So i cannot see her forgiving Viren at all.....What he has done is not mistake but Crimes....HE nearly killed his own dadaji and Nivi could well be very critical coz of that blow......IN his process of taking revenge ....he has been so callous and sadistic towards innocent lives like NT dadi ..Vandana...And Nivi who thinks the world of him!!!
 
It is truly horrible.....He is not Mental but almost evil......Why should any woman live with such husbands who dont hesitate even to harm their own????
 
Poor Sid,,,U cant even compare these two ..They are like Night and day.....I dont want Nivi back in Sids life...Not after the way she can hate him!!!BUt i do want justice for Siddharth..Poor soul ..Lost everything!!!
 
I only hope that atleast Vandana will support Sid ...Coz i doubt even that!!
 
Nivi Will not Let Viren Get away with this....IT will be ultimately Nivi who will Fight it out with Viren And get Justice for her self and her family......
 

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 10:38am | IP Logged
@ Shasha
"A future between Siddath and Nivi is most unlikely for Nivi will never see Siddath in that light again as she has given her heart and soul to Viren."
 
Nivi gave Viren her heart and soul because he appeared to be her Dream Man. She was made to fall in love with Viren. She was stuck in traps where only Viren could support her. Viren plotted all this so that he could win her trust completely. Definitely, Nivi wont think of leaving Viren and go to Sid, but she'll be guilty for blaming the innocent one.
As for Viren being the stalker, it's going to break her. I think no girl would like being used just for the sake of taking revenge on someone.

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 10:49am | IP Logged
Originally posted by akhilha

@ bani there is a vast difference between Nivis love for Sid and What She has felt for Viren!!! Nivi is basically a very giving girl and does not hold herself back once she trusts.....She had given  a lot of herself to Sid..Coz she trusted him.....She could give him up easily coz she lost her trust in him...Coz he sided the wrong ..not becoz she did not trust his love......She hates to side with the wrong and is so righteous in her thinking...she even gave up her maika jsu becoz she felt it was the right thing to do!!
 
More than everythinh she has started to fall for Viren Becoz he stoood by what is right....That is her priority...She is very mature that way and is not easily gullible to just sweet or romantic words!!!
 
So i cannot see her forgiving Viren at all.....What he has done is not mistake but Crimes....HE nearly killed his own dadaji and Nivi could well be very critical coz of that blow......IN his process of taking revenge ....he has been so callous and sadistic towards innocent lives like NT dadi ..Vandana...And Nivi who thinks the world of him!!!
 
It is truly horrible.....He is not Mental but almost evil......Why should any woman live with such husbands who dont hesitate even to harm their own????
 
Poor Sid,,,U cant even compare these two ..They are like Night and day.....I dont want Nivi back in Sids life...Not after the way she can hate him!!!BUt i do want justice for Siddharth..Poor soul ..Lost everything!!!
 
I only hope that atleast Vandana will support Sid ...Coz i doubt even that!!
 
Nivi Will not Let Viren Get away with this....IT will be ultimately Nivi who will Fight it out with Viren And get Justice for her self and her family......
 
I completely agree with you. And your analysis of Nivi and Viren. Viren nearly killed his dadaji, the dadaji who he was shown to idolise before. He has lost all his senses of right and wrong. In his hatred towards Siddharth ( I dont know why and how he hates Sid, I guess its Viren's own thoughts and misunderstood views), he crossed the limits and which is not pardonable.
Frankly speaking as you said, I feel its better that Nivedita works towards making her marriage with Viren successful. And Divya should be shown to divorce Sid on her own because of her beliefs that Sid cheated on Divya. After everything gets better, Sid should just leave the Sood house alone and settle somewhere else. He might marry somebody later, whom he chooses himself. But I know, Sid as a person, will always forgive Viren, as also Divya.

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 10:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by salunie

@ Shasha
"A future between Siddath and Nivi is most unlikely for Nivi will never see Siddath in that light again as she has given her heart and soul to Viren."
 
Nivi gave Viren her heart and soul because he appeared to be her Dream Man. She was made to fall in love with Viren. She was stuck in traps where only Viren could support her. Viren plotted all this so that he could win her trust completely. Definitely, Nivi wont think of leaving Viren and go to Sid, but she'll be guilty for blaming the innocent one.
As for Viren being the stalker, it's going to break her. I think no girl would like being used just for the sake of taking revenge on someone.
I think Sid will forgive everyone, and at the end he will accept Divya and also Nivi-Viren will stay as a pair. Unless Viren does something, from where his character cannot come back.
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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 11:05am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Omshanti1111

Originally posted by Anamika1570

I do not think that Nivedita went for a Relationship on Rebound. What Nivedita had with Siddharth was a short term relationship which did not last even for a month so I would not call her relationship with Viren a Rebound Relationship.In fact she shyed away and wanted to give her heart time to heal but was used/manipulated by Viren against her well. Even then she took her own time to accept Viren and did not jump into anything fast. As far as Nivedita are concerned both her Men were not worth her trust or love. Siddharth broke her trust by not standing by her. Viren also broke her trust by using her for getting to Siddharth. It is a different matter that Viren may already be in love with her (now I am even suspicious about that... but I think he is). For Nivedita her relationship with Viren definitely carries more value than that she had with Sid as he is her Love and Husband so I do not think she would let Viren go just like that because he used her against Siddharth. Moreover, Viren has a problem with Siddharth and not Nivedita. Like most Indian Woman she would try to make a success of her Marriage.
Nivedita and Sid were childhood sweethearts. I admit, that when they fell in love and committed to one another, that was short lived. They always had a special feeling for each other, as both remember even the minutest things about each other from childhood. These are manifestations of love.
 
A rebound relationship is not done with proper sense. Thats what I wrote in the last sentence of the post. One of the main reasons that Nivedita started falling in love with Viren, was she found Viren to fit in exactly where Sid failed. She even uttered that on the marriage day "that Viren always stood by me", she even told Sid, that "you never trusted me, but Viren always trusted me", so that distrust of Sid was always at the back of her mind, when she started falling for Viren. Viren made her feel special, and this is the technique that Viren applied to make NIVI fall in love with him.
 
If Viren does not have a problem with Nivi, then the easiest solution is Nivi should give a damn to Sid's problems with Viren, support Viren in framing Sid and lead a happy life with Viren? But can Nivi do that? No, as she is not that category, she will side with righteousness, whoever it might be! She might be trapped, but she felt Viren was right, so she loved him. And now when she finds out, she will definitely work out a way to solve this problem from the core and not abandon Viren.


Rebound Relationship is one where someone breaks from a long term Love relationship and immediately get into another with the intention of forgetting the hurt and pain. I do not consider the childhood friends as part of a love relationship. They parted at a very young age and their love developed only much later. So I do not think it can be called a rebound relationship in any sense especially when Nivedita gave herself enough time to forget her less than a month old love relationship with Sid (technically even for a year long relationship the healing time is only 3 months) and think of him only as her Sister's Husband. We have not seen her nurturing any sort of romantic feelings towards Sid after her Marriage even though she took her own time in accepting Viren. I would call Siddharth's relationship a Rebound as he cares for her deeply even after marriage but not Nivedita's.

I don't have much doubt about Viren's love for Nivedita also because when he confessed his love to her he knew nothing about NivArth so I do not think at that point of time he planned to use her against Siddharth. He might have been genuinely in love with her(Or he might have wanted to take revenge for his Parents/Dada Sahib's Plight - I do not see much chance of that).I think by marrying Nivedita he achieved two things - he got his Love and he took away someone who was dear to Siddharth. True, Viren is everything Siddharth is not. He speaks his mind and stands by what he thinks is right - and I do not think that he was acting. It's just the way he is.
When I said 'Like most Indian Woman she would try to make a success of her Marriage' I did not mean that Nivedita would support every wrong thing Viren does to have a happy married relationship. My assumption is that Viren would find the truth about his Parents and then do justice to Siddharth and Keshav as Viren is not evil as his Parents.


Edited by Anamika1570 - 19 January 2011 at 11:43am

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 11:18am | IP Logged
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a rebound relationship does not happen with one's intentions or full conscience. Its like an involuntary feeling. Nivedita married Viren within a span of hardly a month and fell in love within another one month. Nivi was mesmerised with Viren, as Viren always supported her going against everyone, this was the basis of her trust and the beginning of her love for Viren.
 
When rebound relationship happens, a person cannot even feel he/she is going into a rebound relationship.Its like a second chance, but very often second chances are basically "rebounds"
 
And although few internet source says rebound relationships starts with the first relationship being long lasting, but actual books, articles, say any intense emotional first relationship, if did not meet expectation, can lead a second relationship to be rebound. Sid-Nivi's relationship might not be for years, but it was emotionally strong and from both sides, as both wanted to get married and even were taken to show "pheres".

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 11:21am | IP Logged
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regarding Viren, I had already written many times today that he is not like his parents, evil like them.

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