Reality??!!!... YES!!!

what ever they are shwong in balika vadhu many ppl who lived for xample in town they dont want to realize it

but actually this is the reality of some villiages right know

they are still some ppl who believe that woamn is only children making mashing and a home maid...

what ya think?

I agree....such things actually happen in reality...even in 2011 !! so whatever they are showing is true...but I also feel the channel should take the responsibility of showing reform rather than just showing negative side of it....The women and men in this show are spineless characters...barring Gehna..who had the guts to stand up against injustice....But when will Sumitra, Anandi learn? When will Bhairon understand that action speaks louder than words...he just mouths the same dialogue, "hum sab maasa ke swabhav ko jaante hai" - Bhairon hum sab bhi jaante hai yaar...magar uss swabhav ka kuch karo..........Am not going near Basanth becoz he is "maa da laadla" jiske wajhe se woh bigda hua hai !!!😆

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@ divs

Agree Nisha !!!! having someone in your life...who can morally support you is a big plus !!!! But here Bhairon actually has the capability of doing something....but he doesnt ! which is frustrating at times..

Originally posted by: divmath

Agree Nisha !!!! having someone in your life...who can morally support you is a big plus !!!! But here Bhairon actually has the capability of doing something....but he doesnt ! which is frustrating at times..

i agree..he has been reduced to a prop..he just spouts great philosophical dialogues and thn does nothing..of course his wife is of no help..in fact is more of a liability in this sphere..jagya's character had great potential..he cud have been the perfect balance of morals and action..bt he had to be sacrificed to prove tht "sheher jaakar chora bigad jaayega"...am still annoyed at tht..

@Anu - you are right...Jagya shehar jaa ke bigad gaya hai....but I see that as a welcome change in BV...as they are trying to show the after effects of child marriage, what happens when the children grow up and find new love in life, should they stick to the person to whom they were married off when they were kids, when they did not know anything about marriage or do they go with their individual decision once they have grown up...every individual wants a life partner of their choice..and getting married to Anandi was not Jagya's decision, he wasnt given a choice, it was his parents and DS who forced him ! So now that he has grown up...if he likes Gauri and wants a modern girl like her as his wife then its not wrong....yes,  whats wrong is he sleeping around with Anandi, treating her badly and lying to her and also deceiving Gauri...If he really loves Gauri then he needs to breakup with Anandi and also let Gauri know the truth! He cannot play with two lives...

Originally posted by: divmath

@Anu - you are right...Jagya shehar jaa ke bigad gaya hai....but I see that as a welcome change in BV...as they are trying to show the after effects of child marriage, what happens when the children grow up and find new love in life, should they stick to the person to whom they were married off when they were kids, when they did not know anything about marriage or do they go with their individual decision once they have grown up...every individual wants a life partner of their choice..and getting married to Anandi was not Jagya's decision, he wasnt given a choice, it was his parents and DS who forced him ! So now that he has grown up...if he likes Gauri and wants a modern girl like her as his wife then its not wrong....yes,  whats wrong is he sleeping around with Anandi, treating her badly and lying to her and also deceiving Gauri...If he really loves Gauri then he needs to breakup with Anandi and also let Gauri know the truth! He cannot play with two lives...

...I have seen such things happen in real life...i.e people changing once they are in a new place, specially kids who were confined to a conservative lifestyle, who suddenly got exposed to this fast city life...they do change...guess you had mentioned about this in another post (regarding 2 girls in the hostel and how they behaved)....but what I dont agree with is...Jagya's rudeness towards Anandi, even that to an extent is the work of exaggeration...

precisely..THT is what has bothered me thru this whole track..till his liking or even "loving" gauri is fine..bt u dnt hop out of bed wid one girl and hit on another on fone the same fricking day..atleast i wudnt expect tht frm a child brought up by sum1 like bhairon..it just goes to prove tht all the posts abt jagya growing up NOT respecting women coz of the way they are treated in his family finally turned totaly true..

Originally posted by: divmath

Agree Nisha !!!! having someone in your life...who can morally support you is a big plus !!!! But here Bhairon actually has the capability of doing something....but he doesnt ! which is frustrating at times..