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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 12:42pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by br2499

To me Gopi is not wise - good, brave, has integrity but not wise. She is an enabler. Wisdom also means learning from experience. The poem might not hold for repeated offence. 
I agree with you.  Gopi is not wise.  I don't think she's brave either.  I think she is an enabler as you said, a punching bag and a doormat.  If those are good qualities and they write poems about people like that, I don't want to read them.  It's one thing not to retaliate or try to harm others, but allowing yourself to always be the victim of someone else's anger and schemes is stupid.  I have never understood the point of his show and I never will.  It has never seemed to be going anywhere.  If Gopi's character is the star of the serial, then that's a sad commentary for this show. Sorry to offend, but Gopi is no example for young women today. You can be a support to your husband and respectful to your in-laws without letting everyone walk all over you.

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 12:47pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by br2499

To me Gopi is not wise - good, brave, has integrity but not wise. She is an enabler. Wisdom also means learning from experience. The poem might not hold for repeated offence. 
I agree with you.  Gopi is not wise.  I don't think she's brave either.  I think she is an enabler as you said, a punching bag and a doormat.  If those are good qualities and they write poems about people like that, I don't want to read them.  It's one thing not to retaliate or try to harm others, but allowing yourself to always be the victim of someone else's anger and schemes is stupid.  I have never understood the point of his show and I never will.  It has never seemed to be going anywhere.  If Gopi's character is the star of the serial, then that's a sad commentary for this show. Sorry to offend, but Gopi is no example for young women today. You can be a support to your husband and respectful to your in-laws without letting everyone walk all over you.

@renji...
I completely agree with u that Gopi is not a "Todays world" example but dont u think the upbringing she got could have made her anything else...
she is  just a outcome of what Urmi-Rashi did to her, just a Product of U-R always bossy attitude...
i dont think any other gal could have even a bit different than hers.....

yes I want her to change herself but not in physical appearance but in Mental strength thats it....
and ur last line is what we want her to be eventually...

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 1:02pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by reniji66

I agree with you.  Gopi is not wise.  I don't think she's brave either.  I think she is an enabler as you said, a punching bag and a doormat.
Diya - you can say that, but it takes whole lot of courage to go through the same kind of situation which we don't like another time... am not asking Gopi to be a doormat... am just saying we can't question her courage... anyone will retaliate if they are pushed to a wall, but if a person is still caring, we have to commend them... i know i don't have that trait but i can appreciate it in others
If those are good qualities and they write poems about people like that, I don't want to read them.  It's one thing not to retaliate or try to harm others, but allowing yourself to always be the victim of someone else's anger and schemes is stupid. 
Diya - it is said, we only get angry at those whom we think are ours, with whom we know we have a bonding.... now lets see... you don't like something that Prime Minister is proposing, will you go and rant at him... ofcourse not, because you don't feel close to a stranger... we are just hoping that this is the case...
I have never understood the point of his show and I never will.  It has never seemed to be going anywhere.  If Gopi's character is the star of the serial, then that's a sad commentary for this show. Sorry to offend, but Gopi is no example for young women today.
Diya - agree about Gopi not being a good example for women of the world... but dear.... women of the world are empowered and know their rights, if their husband behaves with them like Ahem does with Gopi... they will file a divorce and take him to cleaners by slapping a suit against him for emotional torture....
You can be a support to your husband and respectful to your in-laws without letting everyone walk all over you.
Diya - tell me something hun... who is there to support her if she takes a tougher stand... it seems to me she is punished either ways... be it that she is in wrong or right... for the women of this world, we have supportive family, education and we know our rights... we may not get a job immediately as CEOs but we surely can fend for ourselves without our in-laws, but can we say the same for Gopi....
we take care of something and appreciate it, only if there is a chance of loosing it... Koki and Ahem know that Gopi has no other place to go and so are exploiting her


@Bold - are you referring to meCry.... i am hurt

though i wrote what i feel but feel free to contradict meSmile




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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 1:08pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by upasana.diya

Originally posted by reniji66

I agree with you.  Gopi is not wise.  I don't think she's brave either.  I think she is an enabler as you said, a punching bag and a doormat.
Diya - you can say that, but it takes whole lot of courage to go through the same kind of situation which we don't like another time... am not asking Gopi to be a doormat... am just saying we can't question her courage... anyone will retaliate if they are pushed to a wall, but if a person is still caring, we have to commend them... i know i don't have that trait but i can appreciate it in others
If those are good qualities and they write poems about people like that, I don't want to read them.  It's one thing not to retaliate or try to harm others, but allowing yourself to always be the victim of someone else's anger and schemes is stupid. 
Diya - it is said, we only get angry at those whom we think are ours, with whom we know we have a bonding.... now lets see... you don't like something that Prime Minister is proposing, will you go and rant at him... ofcourse not, because you don't feel close to a stranger... we are just hoping that this is the case...
I have never understood the point of his show and I never will.  It has never seemed to be going anywhere.  If Gopi's character is the star of the serial, then that's a sad commentary for this show. Sorry to offend, but Gopi is no example for young women today.
Diya - agree about Gopi not being a good example for women of the world... but dear.... women of the world are empowered and know their rights, if their husband behaves with them like Ahem does with Gopi... they will file a divorce and take him to cleaners by slapping a suit against him for emotional torture....
You can be a support to your husband and respectful to your in-laws without letting everyone walk all over you.
Diya - tell me something hun... who is there to support her if she takes a tougher stand... it seems to me she is punished either ways... be it that she is in wrong or right... for the women of this world, we have supportive family, education and we know our rights... we may not get a job immediately as CEOs but we surely can fend for ourselves without our in-laws, but can we say the same for Gopi....
we take care of something and appreciate it, only if there is a chance of loosing it... Koki and Ahem know that Gopi has no other place to go and so are exploiting her


@Bold - are you referring to meCry.... i am hurt

though i wrote what i feel but feel free to contradict meSmile


@red...thats what this whole show is all abt...
the day Aham and Kokila will know the fear of losing Gopi m sure they will on their knees to get her back..........till then they will do what ever they want to....

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