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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 8:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by mahix3

Originally posted by slmu

Originally posted by mahix3

Originally posted by nirjuu

The article said "We hear that Viren has a childhood past that forces him to behave so weirdly with Nivedita. The back story to this will be worked on very soon."

What does that mean? He had any childhood past with nivedita?

Okay so this is what I think it is....
now try to keep an open mind about this--
So growing up, Viren grew up away from his family
and Siddarth was always the favorite kid,
so Viren was always jealous (come on he was a kid)
and then when he came back, he expected things to get better
but he was still put at second best (remember the chair scene with Yashondra? how she said that he should remember his place in this house because Viren sat in Sid's chair?) 
but before that, he came back and fell in love with a girl
and she's all he ever wanted whole heartedly
but then he finds out that she was once with his brother
and this stirred up rage because all he ever wanted was this girl
and now because of his brother he can't have her?
So he vowed to make her his in every way possible
and make her hate his brother so that she can forget the past
and completely move on and be with him.
That is why he is going to such measures
But Mahi she was ready to be his, so why bother with the attack???

At that point she was doubting Sid
not full on blaming him
Viren wants to make sure that she blames him
before he can make her his
he wants to make sure that not even the smallest drop of 
love or anything of the sort remains for Sid
and it makes sense
come on...
think about it
the people he wanted love from the most
always put Sid above him
be it because they love Sid more (YD, BP)
or because their hatred for Sid rises above their love (JW and CC)
so he wanted to make sure that he had all of Nivi's love
Still dont like it.

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 8:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nirjuu

Originally posted by mahix3

Originally posted by nirjuu

The article said "We hear that Viren has a childhood past that forces him to behave so weirdly with Nivedita. The back story to this will be worked on very soon."

What does that mean? He had any childhood past with nivedita?

Okay so this is what I think it is....
now try to keep an open mind about this--
So growing up, Viren grew up away from his family
and Siddarth was always the favorite kid,
so Viren was always jealous (come on he was a kid)
and then when he came back, he expected things to get better
but he was still put at second best (remember the chair scene with Yashondra? how she said that he should remember his place in this house because Viren sat in Sid's chair?) 
but before that, he came back and fell in love with a girl
and she's all he ever wanted whole heartedly
but then he finds out that she was once with his brother
and this stirred up rage because all he ever wanted was this girl
and now because of his brother he can't have her?
So he vowed to make her his in every way possible
and make her hate his brother so that she can forget the past
and completely move on and be with him.
That is why he is going to such measures

Thanks mahi....
But then y did he try to commit suicide  many times? Remember he told this once to CC...
If it was just jealous, he shldn't have taken such big step...

I think the real reason behind the attempted suicides is because his lack of feeling wanted, needed and loved. As human beings... what do we require the most? The answer is not food, water or even oxygen but in the chart of human needs, LOVE is at the very top. Each and every person needs love and to feel wanted. That they have a reason to live. Why do you think people get healthier when taken care of with love rather than just being taken care of? It's because love is an essential need. The people who say that they can live without being loved... well that's all a lie. WE NEED AT LEAST ONE PERSON TO LOVE US AND WANT US AND NEED US... and Viren never ever had that. He grew up alone and grew up as second best. Now he falls in love and what happens? That girl has a past too. What can cure Viren is knowing that Nivi truly does love him and him only. Viren attempted suicide before because he felt like he had no reason to live. No one to live for. No one loved him or cared for him and no life at all is better than a lonely and loveless life.

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 8:53am | IP Logged
Originally posted by mahix3

Originally posted by nirjuu

The article said "We hear that Viren has a childhood past that forces him to behave so weirdly with Nivedita. The back story to this will be worked on very soon."

What does that mean? He had any childhood past with nivedita?

Okay so this is what I think it is....
now try to keep an open mind about this--
So growing up, Viren grew up away from his family
and Siddarth was always the favorite kid,
so Viren was always jealous (come on he was a kid)
and then when he came back, he expected things to get better
but he was still put at second best (remember the chair scene with Yashondra? how she said that he should remember his place in this house because Viren sat in Sid's chair?) 
but before that, he came back and fell in love with a girl
and she's all he ever wanted whole heartedly
but then he finds out that she was once with his brother
and this stirred up rage because all he ever wanted was this girl
and now because of his brother he can't have her?
So he vowed to make her his in every way possible
and make her hate his brother so that she can forget the past
and completely move on and be with him.
That is why he is going to such measures
OMG mahi...u just said wat i was thinking....wow...we r thinking along d same lines..
ya i too think so esp. d blue lines....

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I don't know how we are going to end up with NivRen in the end. I mean how Nivi can forgive Viren and still love him. From whatever I know from today's episode, Nivi will come to know about Viren's true face one day, and she will know that she trusted him totally and he used that trust to get back to Sid, who was her friend and made her doubt him. Not to forget that all incident of stalking, she suffered a lot. Whole Sood family was trying to commit her to mental hospital. These are not easy things to forget and forgive.

One thing is clear, whatever Viren did to get back to Sid, CC took full advantage to make Nivi's life worse. I don't know how much Viren knows about this and is he even feel guilty for doing hurting Nivi in process. Right now it doesn't look like, he is just worried about making Sid's life miserable. 

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 8:55am | IP Logged
OMG!!! I'm at work and usually don't respond to posts until I get home, but OMG! What an episode!

I was half convinced after yesterday's episode, but when Viren was revealed as the Stalker/MP today, I had to pause and just take it in. After watching the episode I went to the ladies room (b/c I'm at work and didn't want my students walking in and thinking I'm crazy) and jumped around and screamed!

The good thing about today's episode is that at least Viren has nothing personal against Nivi and he's just using her as tool to get to Sid.

The bad thing about today's episode is that Viren is HURTING and MANIPULATING Nivi to get to Sid and DOESN'T REALLY LOVE HER.

So how will NivRen survive once Nivi learns the truth and Viren realizes he REALLY does love Nivi?

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 8:58am | IP Logged
Originally posted by gmann2010

I don't know how we are going to end up with NivRen in the end. I mean how Nivi can forgive Viren and still love him. From whatever I know from today's episode, Nivi will come to know about Viren's true face one day, and she will know that she trusted him totally and he used that trust to get back to Sid, who was her friend and made her doubt him. Not to forget that all incident of stalking, she suffered a lot. Whole Sood family was trying to commit her to mental hospital. These are not easy things to forget and forgive.

One thing is clear, whatever Viren did to get back to Sid, CC took full advantage to make Nivi's life worse. I don't know how much Viren knows about this and is he even feel guilty for doing hurting Nivi in process. Right now it doesn't look like, he is just worried about making Sid's life miserable.


@ Ketty: I agree with you 100%. How can any woman overcome, forgive and move forward after such a betrayal?

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 8:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by slmu

Originally posted by mahix3

Originally posted by slmu

Originally posted by mahix3

Originally posted by nirjuu

The article said "We hear that Viren has a childhood past that forces him to behave so weirdly with Nivedita. The back story to this will be worked on very soon."

What does that mean? He had any childhood past with nivedita?

Okay so this is what I think it is....
now try to keep an open mind about this--
So growing up, Viren grew up away from his family
and Siddarth was always the favorite kid,
so Viren was always jealous (come on he was a kid)
and then when he came back, he expected things to get better
but he was still put at second best (remember the chair scene with Yashondra? how she said that he should remember his place in this house because Viren sat in Sid's chair?) 
but before that, he came back and fell in love with a girl
and she's all he ever wanted whole heartedly
but then he finds out that she was once with his brother
and this stirred up rage because all he ever wanted was this girl
and now because of his brother he can't have her?
So he vowed to make her his in every way possible
and make her hate his brother so that she can forget the past
and completely move on and be with him.
That is why he is going to such measures
But Mahi she was ready to be his, so why bother with the attack???

At that point she was doubting Sid
not full on blaming him
Viren wants to make sure that she blames him
before he can make her his
he wants to make sure that not even the smallest drop of 
love or anything of the sort remains for Sid
and it makes sense
come on...
think about it
the people he wanted love from the most
always put Sid above him
be it because they love Sid more (YD, BP)
or because their hatred for Sid rises above their love (JW and CC)
so he wanted to make sure that he had all of Nivi's love
Still dont like it.

Trust me, 
I don't like it either.
If you read my earlier posts,
then you know the little joke we have here is that Viren is my husband too because I always looked at him and saw him as the perfect man and now this is all being destroyed but I know he does love Nivi. 
It's just human psyche to want to be number one for those who are number one for us. 
And any child having grown up alone has some psychological issues for the fact that they weren't raised with the TLC (tender loving care) that every child needs.
You know the ages people need optimum/ maximum loving is between birth - 22 (as that is the age that we are still growing and changing) and then after the age of 60 (as at that point people are older and need love to stay happy and live as much longer as possible)... but Viren didn't get that childhood love.
NOW LOOK, I'm not standing up for him because I am pissed as hell about what he is doing but it's psychology that humans can go to whatever lengths to get what they really need and that not having grown up with love can cause instabilities within a person. 

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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 9:00am | IP Logged
guys...i still hope dat he do love her but his hatred 4 sid is many folds stronger than his love 4 nivi...
 
mahi dear...did u by any chance drug viren to get these info?Wink

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