Posted: 02 February 2011 at 8:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by divmath
Originally posted by mama_0000
hi guys....why r u al blaming jagya...u al realise dat both anandi nd jagya r forced into this relationship...they both didnt knw the meaning of love...nd i particularly dislike anandi.......she never realised dat jagya was her HUSBAND...she always wantd to b a gud BAHU
so wats wrong if jagya has truly grown up nw nd has found his true love.....i hope he nd gauri get 2gether....nd gauri understands him nd supports hm...
anandi never stud up 4 her rights...she always poked her nose in others matters...so she wil also learn to lead her lyf in her own way....
even I want to see Jagya and Gauri together....but before that happens...I want Jagya to confess and tell the truth...no relationship can develop on a foundation of lie, and here Jagya has been constantly lying to both Anandi and Gauri, he needs to clear all that and then move on......Even I dont believe in Jagya - Anandi 's marriage....come on it was a child marriage....from when did we start supporting an evil practice called child marriage??? at least I dont....and in order to show that child marriage is bad the cv's have to separate Jagya-Anandi ...and I sincerely hope they do just that....Anandi needs to get a life....learn to stand on her feet and most importantly fight for her self respect, which she lacks big time...she always stands up for others...but doesn't realize she needs the biggest help....I despise Anandi for her doings and foolishness....right from the day she gave up studies for the sake of whom? daadisa....thats the most foolish and unforgivable act of hers...in my eyes....she was so bright and smart when she was young and now has turned into a dumb doormat ready to please everyone at the drop of a hat.....this incident must open her eyes !! hope she learns a lesson and moves on rather than immersing herself in a bucket of tears ! duh...
Here again, I agree and differ in parts .............There are really 2 messages here, one is the issue of the drawbacks of child marriage and the other about commmitment............in my opinion.
In his obsession Jagya is taking refuge in lying.........which no one can condone but he is not the first male to do that.
Anandi should and must improve on herself big time if she is to stand up for herself...........that must be a part of the message that women and children must have the freedom to learn through education the difference between the word 'choice' and ' force'.
Jagya is obsessed ........but
till now he has never said he loves her, although one might argue he behaves like that but that is because we have never seen this side of him with Anandi. Unfortunately Gauri has those feelings for him so he must
come clean or he will ,as mentioned by you, hurt 2 girls who have both been good for him in different ways.
But I disagree about separation or divorce............commitment in marriages in certain stratas of our society are virtually dying and this would not be a good message to portray. Even in arranged marriages you need time to adjust and things don't always happen in the best possible way so in this case the adjustments are more specially with Anandi and her give up my studies and please Dadisa
which has been her downfall. I think if the channel can sensitively show a change both in Jagya and Anandi with Gauri accepting the inevitable for this serial at least the message of the ills, the downfalls, the bad choices and finally the adjustments may work well.
Again my opinion..........I am a bit fed up with the negativity in this channel and I really hope one serial at least ends with hope and positivity.
Edited by groucho - 02 February 2011 at 8:50pm