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Posted: 19 January 2011 at 5:56am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Madmadgirl

Originally posted by koolsadhu1000

Mads , Kesar can be helped in only one way getting her OUT Of there ASAP ..

She shud be sent to an NGO if her maayka is unwilling to take her responsibility . Which is OFTEN the case with battered women like her in INdia . The Maaikas refuse to take responsibility coz acc to typical Indian mentality , once ur married , ur married for life and u gotta FACE UR NASEEB .
Financial compensation shud be taken from SS by giving him dhamkis of bad publicity in press which he will immediately react to as he is in POLITICS and his Biradari people will not vote for him ./Kesar is from his own THAKUR bIraadari so this will affect him .
The financial compensation shud be used to set her up for a new life . A house , and a way of living so she can earn . By using whatever skills she has , if not , she shud be taught some at the NGO
She shud be given a choice as to whether she wants to remain in Illahabad or Baliya [ her maaika] or in an independent place , far away from Shakti
It shud be ensured that Shakti isnt allowed legally within some distance of her . SS can ensure that due to his political image .
Once on her feet and secure , Kesar can adopt a child and make a home with her or him and be happy as I am sure she wud not entertain the thought of marraige .
Your entire theory depends on one thing - Kesar's will
Kesar's free will, her freedom to exercise her own will and make a decision for her own best interests and to conclude that they will be best served if she leaves.
It is precisely this that will never happen.
I cannot see Kesar ever deciding to leave.
Now if what you are suggesting that soemone else should help her to leave, that person would have to do so forcefully coz no way is Kesar gonna leave!
Admit it Kools, Kesar is a gone case, because she CHOOSES to remain where she is and CHOOSES to put up with her rubbish life 
I would even go so far as to say that even if she mustered the courage to leave, with or without help, she is very likely to go back.
Kesar's plight however pitiable, is nonetheless hopeless because she herself has no desire to change her life.
Can I also slip in, the fact thather own family have never bothered with her, has effectively turned its back on her and belongs to the same biraadari as her sasural makes them just as blameworthy as the TNs; if the latter are guilty of abuse then the former are guilty of wilful neglect.
Finally, if you can have the guts to stand up for yourself  and change your life, the sky is the limit to your aspirations.
It's like this Kools, ULTIMATELY, no one is going to risk their life to help you - you have  to help YOURSELF!
Yes . I agree .Smile

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