Posted: 17 January 2011 at 8:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000
Kools I agree and have always agreed with the forum members that A should be in jail for bigamy but it is unfair to blame her for everything from the common cold to black death.
Maybe I missed it but I haven't seen P complaining about her in-laws to K nor is she unhappy w/ K .So why would she seek a divorce? It wouldn't make sense for them to walk out of TN right now because they have nowhere to go. If she took this step then everyone would complain that she made a decision again without thinking of the consequences.
No one is blaming Arushi for the common cold and black death darling . But yes ........her own actions , defo need to be blamed on HER only .
When she agreed to marry a married man , didnt she realise his wife wud be involved in the repercussions of her action too ? And thats EXACTLY wats happened today . Unwittingly , Kesar has been pulled into whats happening between Arushi and Shakti . Therrs an old saying , with the dry wood , sometimes the odd wet wood also catches fire .And thats Kesar for u in this situation .
Why be this crazy about Aman .......a man she BARELY Knew ? Quite frankly what did she know about Aman to love him even more than Pratigya and to do such foolishly dangerous things to show her grief over losing him ?
Pratigya cud have taken a divorce when she left Krishna after he slapped her .We see her telling at Golgappa stand UR UNFIT to be my hubby , Im way ABOVE U . Then wats stopping u , woman ? Why were u waiting for ur sasur to show up at the door and apologise and take u back ?If ur this bold , go one step further na !
And why no effort to move out , to work , to earn , to educate her hubby ? Why no bold fight THERE ? Why is she wasting her time trying to SUDHROFY monsters who r unwilling to change and never will ?
So I dont feel any sympathy for her and her family .Her brother toh bugs me the most ...........he has destroyed Komals LIFE . These Sax children mess with LIVES , and not just their own . UNdoubtedly Thakurs r monsters but these self righteous prigs r NO LESS .
Kools I don't think P feels sorry for herself and she isn't seeking sympathy either. She has atleast managed to sudhorofy one monster(with much work to be done still). The old K was volatile and unpredictable not someone you want to be married to in real life. She has made some strides towards her goal...... give her some time.
Haven't seen too many of the earlier epi but I think she did think about remaining at her parents' home after Angad's revelation but she decided to stick it out. You yourself said that marriage is hard work and can't be taken lightly. She came back and gave it a shot .
P.S Losing my mind ! Have mercy and don't reply!
Came to relax I find myself in knots
Edited by yummimommy - 17 January 2011 at 8:14am