Posted: 17 January 2011 at 7:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by yummimommy
Originally posted by tanthya
Originally posted by yummimommy
I'm about to make many people angry but it is not my intention. I' ve thinking of this whole A and Kesar situ and I'm not convinced that A is to be blamed for ruining Kesar's life.
Let me stress first that I hate A character and nothing will change that but she is also not responsible for everything that goes wrong on the show. Yes she should go to jail for bigamy!
My ? is......how is Kesar's life any worse than it was before A came. Did she have any rights as a wife or DIL? Her husband had pushed her out of her bed long before A and he had brought other women into her bed . Amma's treatment of Kesar had become worse since the loss of the baby. She was treated like a servant by KN , Amma, and SS.
I've missed many epi of the show I admit but I don't think that A even vaguely suggested that KN should go and rape Kesar. That was KN all by his lonesome. If you get rejected by one woman it doesn't mean you can go and rape another . KN didn't have to have immediate gratification. He needed to put his wee wee back in his pajama . The rape was all him.
Kesar life was ruined the day she was married into the Thakur household ...but at least she was part of the household until the new princess arrived and she was relegated to to a status lesser than that of Piyasiya.
I do not hate Aarushi..My ire is that Aarushi very well know that Shakthi was married, Aarushi had a rapport with Kesar.....yet in a flick of an eye she rubbished all that , destroyed the values she learned and cold bloodedly chose to destroy a Woman's life without even sufferring a momentary twinge is somehow hard for me to reconcle...Her crime is even greater than Thakur's [for me]..Thakur's are killing a Body whereas Aarushi killed a soul..This despite many years of learning right and wrong,values,ethics ....
Hey Tanths I feel that her status was already below Piyassia's the moment they learned she could not conceive, Amma wouldn't even let her have a glass of milk. She had to work if she wanted to continue living there .
Kesar was given shelter but never had a home. IMO a home is where you feel safe and secure and you are loved unconditionally by atleast on person. Kesar never had any of this. A entrance into TN did not alter her condition in anyway. I can't see how her life was ruined by A.
Sane people do not look at murder as a solution to their problems. I don't think that A and P are responsible for other peoples crazy acts.
The status of Piyasiya was always way high..even higher than Pratigya ...
What I am saying is Kesar was beaten up by her hubby at regular basis..but the whole scale abuse started when Kesar was seen Pro-Pratigya.....Amma would have let her have the milk had it been some one else taking the milk but since it was Pratigya , she had to shoot it down....
Kesar never had a home either in maike [where she would have been considered a bhoj or in Sasural [ where she came to be regarded as the sympathizer of Pratigya] ..her situ became worse after the advent of Pratigya and turned worst after the pulpit proclamation of Shakthi's marital status.......the irony is that A and P are not directly responsible for the ensuing hungama , but their interference always creates a havoc ..much like a stone thrown at a still pond causing a ripple...the pond will have muck,dirt etc ..but it would still be calm and placid..the A n P's with their Stone throw act cause a ever widening ripple which disturbs the calmness of the pond..and there is a uneasy shift of mucks..