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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 6:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweta01

Yes, I feel Anuradha did faced stiff opposition in Pooja's household. Kids were expecting a celebrity and they were disappointed that they did not get one. Also Anita seems to be a bully. LOL She just wanted to do it by her Pooja didi ways, she too had a close mind. Pooja should have told Anita before hand that she would have to listen to Anu as that is what game is about. I understand Anita is very loyal to Pooja but that does not give her any right to talk to Anuradha in a very rude manner. It is a show and as per its rules Anu will take care of the house. If even for a small simple thing or change they object and create an issue then the purpose of the show is defeated totally. Anita objected for each single thing which Anuradha suggested. Anita acted like a bully from the very first day towards Anu. Children looking at Anita's behaviour towards Anu felt Anu is not good as they know Anita for long time.

On the other hand Anuradha did not help her matters by not taking part  from day one and sleeping till late and supposedly kept the children hungry for very long. At that point only she somehow starting loosing ground. Later on when she accuse Pooja to be a bad mom and all that argument, she completely lost it. After that children totally went against her and who would blame them.

Anuradha did not go with an open mind and as soon as she saw whose house it was and Pooja image and no man in the house, her thinking was the house is not run properly. She decided then and there that everything in that house must be wrong and she must try to improve it. Having preconceived notions surely does not help.

So yes Anuradha got a.raw deal from Anita but Anu too did not help matters by having a fixed mind set and not ready to change it.


Well said Sweta.. I completely agree with what you wrote.. Smile

Anuradha was at fault.. agreed but she was bullied in that house.. by Anita and later by the kids as well.. I felt bad for her when they were talking about some money issue and Anita and kids kept laughing and making fun of her.. Anita was giving orders to her just like someone orders a servant.. Confused and Anuradha also got a raw deal from the makers.. the VO is supposed to be giving neutral comments and let the viewers make their own judgement.. but they kept saying negative comments for every single thing which Anuradha did.. Ouch Anuradha made them wear Indian clothes on last day.. and there was nothing wrong in that... afterall Pooja changed the decor in Anuradha's house.. that too with Rajiv's moneyConfused but VO was completely biased to Pooja and was completely negative about Anuradha.. Ouch

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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 8:14am | IP Logged
Originally posted by .Arjun

^^^ yes, you are so right Purva !

VO was very biased towards Pooja .....Considering Anu's background, i did feel she was right at times . I think Anu wasn't exposed to circle of rich families before hence the house looked like  a hotel to her.

At the end when Anuradha asked her son if pooja gave him food , the kid said ki " wo khana hi nahi banati "

I was confused with that statement. I think editing was too bad to cover pooja's negative shades. Or probably Rajiv brainwashed his son to say that statement . Confused



Yes.. the editing was too bad.. Confused 

That kid's statement was confusing.. but then I never saw Pooja actually cooking in the kitchen Confused all she was doing was thinking of ways to make Rajiv spend money for full time maid, tuition for kid, buy all the decor items etc. etc. and on the other hand she had not left enough money for Anuradha to get things fixed/done in her own house.. purposely I guessErmm.. also the maid Anita was fully trained to be a bully to Anuradha.. if she behaves same way with Ms. Bedi.. she will be kicked out of the house the very next moment.. Wink Also I think Pooja never trusted Anuradha in the first place.. that's why she arranged for visitors to keep an eye on her.. Wink while Pooja had it easy with given full control of Anuradha's house as well as financial dicisions.. Tongue

Having said that.. I think Pooja did some remarkable things.. i.e. made Rajiv aware of Yash's poor progress in academics and made him work in the kitchen.. Thumbs Up
 

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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 8:18am | IP Logged
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I think that Anu really did get a bad deal in the Bedi household. She might have had pre-conceived notions about Pooja, but I think that it was the conversation with Parveen and Kabir that made her realize for the first time the different roles Pooja plays in the house.

She did try her best to make the kids happy and all her efforts were really genuine, but she did not get appreciation for them. She wanted to treat Aaliya as she would her own daughter and more than Pooja's fancy painting, I suspect she would've put up Aaliya's painting in her living room. I think she must've been very hurt to hear Pooja describing her as a rakshasi, whatever she did or did not do, she didn't deserve to be labeled as that.

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You said it right.. Anuradha was not completely wrong and Pooja was not completely right.. but the channel made them look like that.. Pooja had her kids, maids, father, father's GF, and VO to defend her while Anuradha just had her hubby who was at times acting like a smitten kitten in front of Pooja.. OuchConfused

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Pooja was indirectly fighting for Anu's rights .In the last conversation, both Nigam's conviniently declined to appreciate what Pooja did. I think that pissed off pooja and then she probably called her "rakshasi" and tore that letter !  Which ofcourse was rude on Pooja's part ! But I feel somewhere pooja's actions were justified too. Anu did face raw deal in house but at the same time she was judgement about Pooja not being a good mom. In elite circle, we will hardly find any mom making garam fulka's for kids n eating in hall.

If it's about being judgemental.. then Pooja was also judgemantal.. she herself decided that because Anuradha is a housewife and does all the house work herself.. she needs an advocate to fight for her rights.. isn't it possible that Anuradha does it out of choice?? 

About not eating on dinning table and mom making garam fulkas for kids.. I agree it was not necessary for Anuradha to force it.. but just like elite people don't eat in living room... middle class people don't go out and spend couple of thousand rupees on decor items just because the decor color combination is not balanced.. Ouch

And Pooja was right in showing her displeasure after the show by tearing Anuradha's letter.. she could have avoided "rakshasi" comment but then Rajiv also called her "Rakhi Sawant" which is not any less than "rakshasi".. but the Nigam's were not at fault for not appreciating what Pooja did and Rajiv did agree about the full time maid suggestion by Pooja.. but Pooja didn't have anything positive to say about Anuradha.. nor did she agree that her maid was at fault.. so it was evenSmile 

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