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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 10:29am | IP Logged
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Nothing wrong with it at all........but most ppl who watched the swap with an open mind had come to the same conclusion.........bad editing.......my point was dont attack her answers..........her kids were not treated with love.........shes bound to be a bit raw............shes bound to be interested in ppl opinions of the show so if it is her then good on her to come here and try and clarify................I think if someone is being straightforward then lets appreciate it............
our biggest challenge to date on the fourm is finding the real mrs nigam.................I have a suspicion she visited before Pooja

Arre Naani... Why would I get gussa on u LOL Pagal ho kya Hug I keep my forum fights/diff and my friendship separate Hug And u know it very well, dont ya Wink

I just don't agree with what this ID has to say, so I am questioning her. And seriously Naani, it's diff when on defends themselves by putting forward their right side, and when one defends themselves by pointing out other's fault or blaming others... I would have appreciated if the ID had stuck with the former, than resorting to latter eventually....Confused

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 10:31am | IP Logged
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Again it's editors fault that they didn't show Rajiv agreeing to it Wink
well they certainly showed him there and shopping with me! and he certainly never objected and paid for it there!! 
It could also have been that Rajiv wanted to avoid an argument in a public place, which any sensible man would do, but that doesn't mean he was happy with it. Like Aalia refused to disclose the topics of her arguments with u, even Rajiv might not want to make a free-show of his argument with his spouse (whether it was Anuradha, or u on the show). 


apparently anita was  to instruct her on my routines so that she lived my life by my pace and systems  for the first 4 days ! and it seems anuradha was averse and negative to every moment of it...
Anitha dn't seem to be instructing Anuradha, she seemed more to be dictating her. And when u say Anitha was aware of the show format and was instructing Anuradha as per the format, then where did her awareness vanish when she had to follow Anuradha's rules from Day 5 to Day 8??? Did she receive a new set of instructions abt the show format???

as for money... i had given 5000 rupees for basic groceries and vegetables, bread eggs etc (10,000 rupees were bought just priir to show and stocked up in kitchen) and th jacuzzi swtich and curtain rope! i think she's bad at money management! 
As we aren't aware what actually happened, I won't say Anuradha is good or bad with money management. But what we saw on the show was that Anitha gave her 3700+ and not 5000. Where as u claim she was given 5000, and if that's true, then Anitha did owe an explanation abt the rest of the money to Anuradha, and her not being willing enough to give it to her was definitely wrong. When the maids of a household are themselves not willing to respect Anuradha (who was their master for that time slot) and then how can we expect others to respect Anuradha and give her that due credit for whatever small things she did Confused


So you are saying that you did everything.. but the editors cut it off.. and why should we believe you? Even if we give you this benefit of doubt then same should be given to Anuradha... no? Smile

I am sorry Ms.Bedi, but I agree with Purvi... We were all supporting u all this while, but ur appearance on the forum, defending urself and belittling the Nigam household in every post of urs isn't acceptable. I am sorry, but u lost it for me too Thumbs Down

Hope u have a great time, and wishing you a wonderful New Year.... Good Night Big smile

Completely agree with what you wrote Axy.. Smile

It was very nice of Rajiv not to create a tamaasha in public place.. Clap and Anita was a bully.. period!! She did it herself or was given instructions to trouble Anu is a question but in either situations it was wrong Confused

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@Purva Life isnt fair.........................lifes a bitch and then you marry one.............the ones that know me know its a phrase i use often and not something I thought Mr Nigam says to himself everydayWink

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 10:34am | IP Logged
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Agreed with your views. All credit to Pooja for raising such well mannered kids. Its not an easy thing to do I guess. Also she is very organized and we could see that discipline in her kids !

I don't think pooja is criticizing Anu here. She is simply expressing her own POV. Pooja's kids were definitely not treated well by Anu. She was too bossy in introducing those new rules. She could have tried to be friends with kids first .... Tongue

It was difference in lifestyles of these two families .......for me, pooja did a great job to accodomate/adjust in nigam family for 8 days . Mrs. Nigam wasn't used too Pooja ka lifestyle and she could not handle the pressure. As far as Anita Dabbang maid , i think she and nanny were upset coz kids got breakfast around 3 pm that day.

But yeah, there are two sides to a coin.  Now that Mrs. Nigam is not here on forum but we can atleast have pooja clarify certain things for us (may be something that we didn't like about pooja)

 
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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 10:35am | IP Logged
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But yeah, there are two sides to a coin.  Now that Mrs. Nigam is not here on forum but we can atleast have pooja clarify certain things for us (may be something that we didn't like about pooja)


Sadly we didn't get any clarifications for mistakes in her house.. all we got was excuse of bad editing and more blames on Nigam family.. Tongue

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 10:38am | IP Logged
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@Purva Life isnt fair.........................lifes a bitch and then you marry one.............the ones that know me know its a phrase i use often and not something I thought Mr Nigam says to himself everydayWink


Ofcourse life isn't fair.. so why should it be so for Ms. Bedi here?? Wink 

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