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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 9:32am | IP Logged
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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 9:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bedigirl

Originally posted by purva

Hello Bedigirl.. welcome to the forum Smile

Agreed that Nigam house was not clean when you entered.. and Anuradha should clean it more often.. but I definitely won't call it dirty and filthy from what I saw on screen.. also we never saw you cooking or cleaning or teaching Yash in that house.. so all you did was point out faults and never actually adapt Anuradha's lifestyle which was the concept of the show.. Smile
it's hard to compress 300 hours of shooting into 2 hours of telecast... idea is to point out what's wrong and find solutions....  from the minute i entered i started cleaning, swabbing, dusting and making the home clean... along with cooking healthy meals and  i took yash and rajiv to a wonderful playgroup which yash totally fell in love with.. one on one teacher student interaction in a wonderful playful learning environment... unfortunatelyl post my leaving th home they didnt take it forward.... yash told me when i met him later that his mom had said there wass no need to join it.... but rajeev has assured me he certainly will ensure it happens !! not good for childs confidence to have such terrible scores!
also... the home was FILTHY!! they never even showed 5 percent of the dirt.. a reeal pity because  i did so many "before and after" montage shots for camera... even areas  below prayer altar had handfuls and handfuls of dirt and areas in kitchen were AWFULLLLLL!

So you are saying you did everything but they edited it... LOL.. so it's editor's fault then Wacko

And hard to believe you that Rajiv earns 2.5 crores per year.. he does Comedy Circus and maybe a few shows.. not possible to earn that much for a stand-up comedian.. and even if he does earn that much.. not everyone's priorities are same.. so what he wants to spend his money on is entirely upto him.. you should have discussed it with him before going out and spending his money.. Smile
heh heh! his wifes diary that had all their details for me to know on show states clearly thats what he earnss and has her signature below all the listed info!! i'm told apart from comedy circus he does many live eents and scrips many shows.... and. as for spending 7000 rupees of it.... he went shopping WIth me! we agreed on things together... so it was really odd to see him complain behind my back later... so strange!!

Again it's editors fault that they didn't show Rajiv agreeing to it Wink

And why was Anuradha expected by Anita to fix jacuzzi and chimney.. while she was not given enough money to do so? Why was your maid Anita so rude to her?? Is she normally that rude to you too? Why did she refuse to follow Anuradha's rules when it was the concept of the show? And it was really cheap of Anita to laugh at Anuradha when she was explaining something about money to her.. and your kids also joined hands with Anita in doing so.. which was not right in my opinion.. Smile
i run a house single handedly and every week there is a to do or fix it list that is made... i was instructed that as she was to live my life i was to leave that weeks to do list for her to complete as she had to play the multitasking single mom.. replete with my exercise routines, writing columns, my charitable work, my events, nightlife, spa's, teaching kids, being a hands on mom etc etc.. i wish they had shown her doing my exercise routine,... that would have been FUN!! i'm told she did it only one day and then gave up!!

You still didn't answer all my questions.. why was there not enough money to get things fixed? Also why was Anita so rude to Anuradha?? Tongue

And finally.. I don't have any problem with your "rakshasi" comment.. as well as Rajiv's "Rakhi Sawant" comment Wink

Also one more thing.. your father Mr. Kabeer Bedi was very understanding and accepting of the change Anuradha tried to bring in your house Clap

Wish Anuradha would also be here to defend herself.. right now it's all one sided debate Wink

So you are saying that you did everything.. but the editors cut it off.. and why should we believe you? Even if we give you this benefit of doubt then same should be given to Anuradha... no? Smile

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 9:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Shizaru

Are Ms Bedi forum meh??? you guys needs to clean up sharpish!!!!

 
if you are Ms Bedi........I only have one thing to say..........your kids are well mannered and well brought up........a real credit to you........and your house may have seemed like a hotel to Anuradha but to most viewers it looked like a home.........no different to 8 out of 10 households.......
aaaw! thank yoou sooooooo much! and if she just picks up any book or magazine on home decor she will realise all home owners make efforts to make their home aesthetic and beautiful!
thanks for yur kind words
lots of love and warmth
pooja

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 9:43am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by purva

Originally posted by bedigirl

well rajiv was shopping with me,... he decided on the changes with me .. and he certainly seemed to like it.. so bought it,... though later i saw him cribbing on camera about the expenses! which i actually found quite strange....

according to anuradha's diary which i have to folkow for 4 ddays... the child eats breakfast at 12 pm and eats dinner and  sleeps post  2 am... btw.. the chappati was soft and edible and the sabzi was freshly made in the morning...

Humm... so you have clarification for everything.. and why should we believe you Ms. Bedi? Afterall you will say anything to make yourself look perfect.. won't you? We debate on the basis of what we saw on the show.. we never saw you cooking anything in the kitchen.. also Yash said the same thing.. I am sure Anuradha too has such insider info about her experience in your house... there are always 2 sides to a coin.. Tongue
you must view show again... all i was doing 4 times a day was cooking!! there are shots of him praising my food too... in fact i'd cooked thai food one day and he finished every last morsel and said he'd eat even more if there wass anyleft over!! :) i've done all the professional cooking courses... very confident of my cooking skillls!!Big smile

Again it's self praise.. we heard Yash saying "khana toh bana hi nahi" so why should we not believe him? Smile

And is it right to post someone's personal diary info on a public forum? Specially someone's yearly income etc. etc.?
the diary was hers for me to read and use for the show,,, it was "as told to production" and signed by her and i had to read every bit aloud to camera! I really wish they had shown episode over 4 days.... so much has been missed out.... anyway! hope yu enjoyed glimpses of my life and home and kids and puppies! cheers! take care! good night !!

The diary was for you to read... not to post the info on public forum to make yourself look good... 

I am sorry to say Ms. Bedi.. but all your posts are completely one sided and only to show yourself look good.. I am sure Anuradha has some good qualities too.. sadly the show makers were also completely biased and now you too Thumbs Down wish you would follow the thing you preached in some other thread.. "live and let live" guess it's just for others to follow and not yourself.. very disappointed Confused

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 9:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by purva

Originally posted by bedigirl

Originally posted by purva

Hello Bedigirl.. welcome to the forum Smile

Agreed that Nigam house was not clean when you entered.. and Anuradha should clean it more often.. but I definitely won't call it dirty and filthy from what I saw on screen.. also we never saw you cooking or cleaning or teaching Yash in that house.. so all you did was point out faults and never actually adapt Anuradha's lifestyle which was the concept of the show.. Smile
it's hard to compress 300 hours of shooting into 2 hours of telecast... idea is to point out what's wrong and find solutions....  from the minute i entered i started cleaning, swabbing, dusting and making the home clean... along with cooking healthy meals and  i took yash and rajiv to a wonderful playgroup which yash totally fell in love with.. one on one teacher student interaction in a wonderful playful learning environment... unfortunatelyl post my leaving th home they didnt take it forward.... yash told me when i met him later that his mom had said there wass no need to join it.... but rajeev has assured me he certainly will ensure it happens !! not good for childs confidence to have such terrible scores!
also... the home was FILTHY!! they never even showed 5 percent of the dirt.. a reeal pity because  i did so many "before and after" montage shots for camera... even areas  below prayer altar had handfuls and handfuls of dirt and areas in kitchen were AWFULLLLLL!

So you are saying you did everything but they edited it... LOL.. so it's editor's fault then Wacko
not at all... editor has time limitations... but i personally think that they should have knowcked out friends visiting etc and actually shown mmore in the house content!! they edited out my meeting her parents and sweta taking anuradha for a make over to the salon too! too much content... too little time!! in fact there are amazing fun bonding moments with yash and me..... jhadoo sword fights... me and rajeev and yash on juhu beach on the ferris wheel, the entire play group experience, shots of me on my hands and knees scrubbing and washing dishes even at 3 am!!

And hard to believe you that Rajiv earns 2.5 crores per year.. he does Comedy Circus and maybe a few shows.. not possible to earn that much for a stand-up comedian.. and even if he does earn that much.. not everyone's priorities are same.. so what he wants to spend his money on is entirely upto him.. you should have discussed it with him before going out and spending his money.. Smile
heh heh! his wifes diary that had all their details for me to know on show states clearly thats what he earnss and has her signature below all the listed info!! i'm told apart from comedy circus he does many live eents and scrips many shows.... and. as for spending 7000 rupees of it.... he went shopping WIth me! we agreed on things together... so it was really odd to see him complain behind my back later... so strange!!

Again it's editors fault that they didn't show Rajiv agreeing to it Wink
well they certainly showed him there and shopping with me! and he certainly never objected and paid for it there!!

And why was Anuradha expected by Anita to fix jacuzzi and chimney.. while she was not given enough money to do so? Why was your maid Anita so rude to her?? Is she normally that rude to you too? Why did she refuse to follow Anuradha's rules when it was the concept of the show? And it was really cheap of Anita to laugh at Anuradha when she was explaining something about money to her.. and your kids also joined hands with Anita in doing so.. which was not right in my opinion.. Smile
i run a house single handedly and every week there is a to do or fix it list that is made... i was instructed that as she was to live my life i was to leave that weeks to do list for her to complete as she had to play the multitasking single mom.. replete with my exercise routines, writing columns, my charitable work, my events, nightlife, spa's, teaching kids, being a hands on mom etc etc.. i wish they had shown her doing my exercise routine,... that would have been FUN!! i'm told she did it only one day and then gave up!!

You still didn't answer all my questions.. why was there not enough money to get things fixed? Also why was Anita so rude to Anuradha?? Tongue
apparently anita was  to instruct her on my routines so that she lived my life by my pace and systems  for the first 4 days ! and it seems anuradha was averse and negative to every moment of it...
as for money... i had given 5000 rupees for basic groceries and vegetables, bread eggs etc (10,000 rupees were bought just priir to show and stocked up in kitchen) and th jacuzzi swtich and curtain rope! i think she's bad at money management!

And finally.. I don't have any problem with your "rakshasi" comment.. as well as Rajiv's "Rakhi Sawant" comment Wink

Also one more thing.. your father Mr. Kabeer Bedi was very understanding and accepting of the change Anuradha tried to bring in your house Clap

Wish Anuradha would also be here to defend herself.. right now it's all one sided debate Wink

So you are saying that you did everything.. but the editors cut it off.. and why should we believe you? Even if we give you this benefit of doubt then same should be given to Anuradha... no? Smile

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 9:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bedigirl

Originally posted by Shizaru

Are Ms Bedi forum meh??? you guys needs to clean up sharpish!!!!

 
if you are Ms Bedi........I only have one thing to say..........your kids are well mannered and well brought up........a real credit to you........and your house may have seemed like a hotel to Anuradha but to most viewers it looked like a home.........no different to 8 out of 10 households.......
aaaw! thank yoou sooooooo much! and if she just picks up any book or magazine on home decor she will realise all home owners make efforts to make their home aesthetic and beautiful!
thanks for yur kind words
lots of love and warmth
pooja
 
Pooja ji aap ka swagath hai is saaf suthereh forum meh...........I speak as I find..........I found your home well run, but I felt Ms Anita could have been a tad more congenial.............Anu through no fault of her own as there is an obvious lifestyle, and I hate to use the word, but class difference, would not have known any better when dealing with her.  To you your cook is part of the family to Anu that would be unthinkable and thus treated her like a hired hand and a maid servant,..........either way the long and short of it is, it was a social experiment and both families learned and taught what they could in the limited time they had......
 
You are the last of a dying breed amongst my generation but it makes me very proud when I see a self sufficient independant all rounded woman standing head and shoulders above the likes of Mr Nigam......self proclaimed funny man............the bone in my elbow has more humour in it than he has got in his ...........sorry I shouldnt be rude but he came across as a bit of a MCP and I have a deep disdain for that type of man..........I also feel hes surpressed Anus voice and boy did she make use of it when given the opportunity
 
You always come across big hearted.........so dont waste your time defending your actions here......you do what you need to do to survive............buy a couple of lifestyle mags for the nigams and take them over as a peace offering..............and dont forget the laadoos Wink
 
Ab is topic par toh meh itna hi kahoon ki, agar aap such Meh Pooja hoh toh God bless always and if you are not then bachkeh meri jaan, humari Pooja didi doesnt suffer fools !!
 
you take care and lots of love and light back to you and your family.  Big smile

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 9:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bedigirl



And why was Anuradha expected by Anita to fix jacuzzi and chimney.. while she was not given enough money to do so? Why was your maid Anita so rude to her?? Is she normally that rude to you too? Why did she refuse to follow Anuradha's rules when it was the concept of the show? And it was really cheap of Anita to laugh at Anuradha when she was explaining something about money to her.. and your kids also joined hands with Anita in doing so.. which was not right in my opinion.. Smile
i run a house single handedly and every week there is a to do or fix it list that is made... i was instructed that as she was to live my life i was to leave that weeks to do list for her to complete as she had to play the multitasking single mom.. replete with my exercise routines, writing columns, my charitable work, my events, nightlife, spa's, teaching kids, being a hands on mom etc etc.. i wish they had shown her doing my exercise routine,... that would have been FUN!! i'm told she did it only one day and then gave up!!

You still didn't answer all my questions.. why was there not enough money to get things fixed? Also why was Anita so rude to Anuradha?? Tongue
apparently anita was  to instruct her on my routines so that she lived my life by my pace and systems  for the first 4 days ! and it seems anuradha was averse and negative to every moment of it...
as for money... i had given 5000 rupees for basic groceries and vegetables, bread eggs etc (10,000 rupees were bought just priir to show and stocked up in kitchen) and th jacuzzi swtich and curtain rope! i think she's bad at money management!


Anuradha said she was given somewhere around Rs. 3000 by Anita .. but ofcourse she must be lying for sure.. Big smileThumbs Up

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Posted: 17 January 2011 at 10:04am | IP Logged
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Anuradha said she was given somewhere around Rs. 3000 by Anita .. but ofcourse she must be lying for sure.. Big smileThumbs Up

Lying big time as she asked Anita, why did not she inform her about the extra money earlier.
Wow, along with stubborn, non-accepting and all that, she possesses one more excellent quality, hummn what a thorough depiction of the lady.

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