Originally posted by purva
Hello Bedigirl.. welcome to the forum
Agreed that Nigam house was not clean when you entered.. and Anuradha should clean it more often.. but I definitely won't call it dirty and filthy from what I saw on screen.. also we never saw you cooking or cleaning or teaching Yash in that house.. so all you did was point out faults and never actually adapt Anuradha's lifestyle which was the concept of the show..
it's hard to compress 300 hours of shooting into 2 hours of telecast... idea is to point out what's wrong and find solutions.... from the minute i entered i started cleaning, swabbing, dusting and making the home clean... along with cooking healthy meals and i took yash and rajiv to a wonderful playgroup which yash totally fell in love with.. one on one teacher student interaction in a wonderful playful learning environment... unfortunatelyl post my leaving th home they didnt take it forward.... yash told me when i met him later that his mom had said there wass no need to join it.... but rajeev has assured me he certainly will ensure it happens !! not good for childs confidence to have such terrible scores!
also... the home was FILTHY!! they never even showed 5 percent of the dirt.. a reeal pity because i did so many "before and after" montage shots for camera... even areas below prayer altar had handfuls and handfuls of dirt and areas in kitchen were AWFULLLLLL!
So you are saying you did everything but they edited it... LOL.. so it's editor's fault then
not at all... editor has time limitations... but i personally think that they should have knowcked out friends visiting etc and actually shown mmore in the house content!! they edited out my meeting her parents and sweta taking anuradha for a make over to the salon too! too much content... too little time!! in fact there are amazing fun bonding moments with yash and me..... jhadoo sword fights... me and rajeev and yash on juhu beach on the ferris wheel, the entire play group experience, shots of me on my hands and knees scrubbing and washing dishes even at 3 am!!
And hard to believe you that Rajiv earns 2.5 crores per year.. he does Comedy Circus and maybe a few shows.. not possible to earn that much for a stand-up comedian.. and even if he does earn that much.. not everyone's priorities are same.. so what he wants to spend his money on is entirely upto him.. you should have discussed it with him before going out and spending his money..
heh heh! his wifes diary that had all their details for me to know on show states clearly thats what he earnss and has her signature below all the listed info!! i'm told apart from comedy circus he does many live eents and scrips many shows.... and. as for spending 7000 rupees of it.... he went shopping WIth me! we agreed on things together... so it was really odd to see him complain behind my back later... so strange!!
Again it's editors fault that they didn't show Rajiv agreeing to it
well they certainly showed him there and shopping with me! and he certainly never objected and paid for it there!!
And why was Anuradha expected by Anita to fix jacuzzi and chimney.. while she was not given enough money to do so? Why was your maid Anita so rude to her?? Is she normally that rude to you too? Why did she refuse to follow Anuradha's rules when it was the concept of the show? And it was really cheap of Anita to laugh at Anuradha when she was explaining something about money to her.. and your kids also joined hands with Anita in doing so.. which was not right in my opinion..
i run a house single handedly and every week there is a to do or fix it list that is made... i was instructed that as she was to live my life i was to leave that weeks to do list for her to complete as she had to play the multitasking single mom.. replete with my exercise routines, writing columns, my charitable work, my events, nightlife, spa's, teaching kids, being a hands on mom etc etc.. i wish they had shown her doing my exercise routine,... that would have been FUN!! i'm told she did it only one day and then gave up!!
You still didn't answer all my questions.. why was there not enough money to get things fixed? Also why was Anita so rude to Anuradha??
apparently anita was to instruct her on my routines so that she lived my life by my pace and systems for the first 4 days ! and it seems anuradha was averse and negative to every moment of it...
as for money... i had given 5000 rupees for basic groceries and vegetables, bread eggs etc (10,000 rupees were bought just priir to show and stocked up in kitchen) and th jacuzzi swtich and curtain rope! i think she's bad at money management!
And finally.. I don't have any problem with your "rakshasi" comment.. as well as Rajiv's "Rakhi Sawant" comment
Also one more thing.. your father Mr. Kabeer Bedi was very understanding and accepting of the change Anuradha tried to bring in your house
Wish Anuradha would also be here to defend herself.. right now it's all one sided debate