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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:32pm | IP Logged
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Sunaina..

Regarding the first point of duality of roles played by women in india, i certainly agree to that point. But that could be improved only wid the support of their husbands. And believe me, younger generation, who has studied and worked with females.. understand it pretty well. My elder bro has done love marriage and both of them are working in chennai.. any my mom dad use to go there.. and they take care for 90% of the household chores.. gone are the days.. when bahus are considered a proxy to maid.. the only thing expected is now respect for elders.

Regarding female foeticide... i am really at loss of words for it.. it happens.. and i really pity those people who do it.. i do not have a argument for it.

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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:40pm | IP Logged
There are still cases of rape and harrasment in India ...Daily we hear such 1-2 case min... We expect younger generation to mark end to all of this.... It will take centuries to overcome this.... 
Regarding female foeticide.... S
This can change only when women mind also change...because in most of cases, its Saas only who prefer son child... and they go for ultrasound or remarrige....Saas is women and they need to understand plight of another women..........

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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:45pm | IP Logged
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Saas can say but cannot pay. LOL
So do not blame only women .
 
Both women and men are equally at fault


Edited by sunaina02 - 14 January 2011 at 9:46pm
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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunaina02

^^^
 
Saas can say but cannot pay. LOL
So do not blame only women .
 
Both women and men are equally at fault
Oh atlast u admitted women also have fault.......good... Both are responsible....But who provokes is more responsible....(saas)
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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 9:56pm | IP Logged
Society is to blame for the constant worship of men
Boys/men are held highly in religion and culture 0> even pandits when blessing new brides, mention something about may they have sons
 
Hinduism was initially very female-centric ...the goddesses were primarily worshiped and were not seen as just consorts to god..as often depicted today
 
Since India was primarily taken over by the Mughal Empire and Victorians/British...all the hindu goddess temples were changed into temples of god and division of labour began...hence turning India into a male oriented & male worshipping society
 
Things are changing....in the cities...there is change but the cases of rape has sky rocketed as well...police are not taking cases seriously still
 
Positive changes are happening in India but support from within is needed....its not enough to say "we are trying"


Edited by silvermoonlight - 14 January 2011 at 9:56pm

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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 10:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by desi_lover_guy

Originally posted by silvermoonlight

Originally posted by desi_lover_guy

Originally posted by sunaina02

That is why I try to contribute as much possible in the forums .
 
 
Anyone say anything against women - I am right there  Big smile
Its good that you  standup by commenting but thats not enough.....Will it improve any situation no.....
 one more thing...
Indians staying outside India always think India has still that mindsets same problems blah-2 always comment......If you really love India then come to India and do some constructive work......(thats my pov.... no offense meant)

It would be really nice for those living in India to first do something constructive
Heal from within first
Yeah we living in India are trying to do what we can do..... I have one question for you  is Indians living outside are different from living back home....Indians living outside doesnt they have any responsibility.....


I am Indian and I have lived outside of India my whole life...my parents have been living in America for over three decades now, but  they still believe in the old "indian tradition" where men were the breadwinners and women took care of the house and kids. Yes, my mother works, but she also takes care of the house. Whereas my dad just works and when it come to housework he doesn't do anything. He believes that ghar ka kaam should be done by women. Now, thats a very outdated thought because back then women were not independent, but nowadays they are. So with changing times, certain ideals should be changed, but the older generation does not always conform to the modern world and ideals. That would probably be the job of our generation Wink

Its the same with this show, they are comparing Toasty with their mother and I think even Toasty knows that she is being compared to her saas. Her saas lived in a time where the majority of women did not work and they were mostly housewives.

As for saying something against women or changing mindset, being a housewife can actually be harder than having a career. I know cuz I have been doing ALL the housework at home since schools been out and it sucks!!! Dead I would rather be in school and stress about exams LOL

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Posted: 14 January 2011 at 10:02pm | IP Logged
@silvermoonlight  - like your POV. 
 
 
 
@lucky - both are equally at fault . Why do saas want male child? Beacuse female chidren are considered burden?
 
Why - bacause of dahej .
 
So why should a son agree to marry when dAhej is demanded ?
 
 
 
 
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Posted: 16 January 2011 at 5:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunaina02

I think this is a very gender -biased serial.
 
I would have liked this serial if they had not shown women to be slaves of men .
I have read with interest the replies. I don't think that the serial is gender biased. I think that the serial shows a young confident women who by choice decides to opt living within an all male household. She has the support of her mother & Tej to live on her own and work, but her choice is to unite and be supportive to her new family.
All women are ultimately faced with these choices and most make the best of both worlds. Women are capable of multi-tasking and I think that Toasty has made her choice. The  exaggeration of all the work is overdone in the serial.  My take is that Indian women because of our culture & values always treasure family, children and spouses, this should not be confused with women being taken advantage of. This happens in all societies.

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