no dhanya.................that woman didn't slap her husband but wen husband was trying to force her to go back to house after soo much humiliation.......she replyed bck that u can't force me to go with u............i guess it's vryyy rare to see a wife slaping her husband in ny society..........it was not only the impact of few words 4m other women but sometimes wen u see other ppl fighting back u also get courage to be like them..............it;'s not a matter of fact but how and wen u'll gather that courage...........yaar we can't compare woman like kesar to ny other lady,everyone has individual personality.............like u said it's about ur upbringing and all...........ksar never seen her mother fighting back soo how can she ever get the courage to fight back...........even GD never fight back for hr rights.....Originally posted by: dhakarn
dear , if slapping a man is the means of reform his way of thinking then i would just say its pathetic............... see, in pratigya we saw the consequences of such an action, which is true in the real world..............society can't be reformed one fine day...............kesar is the perfect example for a downtrodden and hopeless women.................she saw what life could be and who a women could be only after she saw pratigya.............she took her time to adjust to the kind of freedom and love pratigya enjoys which she has only dreampt of.................but she is too rooted in traditions and 'pati parameshwar hai' mantra that its not easy for her to rise up and strike back...........her upbringing , her family , her surroundings, her mind set all has taught her something else.........she is trying to adjust to the new world in which pratigya is living and is trying to understand it.............here a random women is shown to slap her husband , just like that...........huh, where had been she living ? in the mars? a person's upbringing, the traditions and rules one believes, their surroundings all decide a person's behavior in a given situation.........here just a few words from another women and this women miraculously gathers up the courage to strike back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Originally posted by: elle45While I do agree with everyone that reform doesnt come in a day, and it will take Kesar time to gather courage against Shakti... I do agree with Pragati that when you want to have a serial with the message of women fighting against injustice, you have to show the women slowly developing courage to take a stand against the injustice.
True, in the other show, it might be a bit unrealistic to show the sudden reform, but at least they showed that there does come a time when the woman has had enough. That time should have come long ago for Kesar. Till date, there is not an iota of progress in Kesar. If not an immediate transformation, then at least she should have been shown to made slow progress. CVs have just forgotten about Kesar.
exactly milli...............cv's are showing social issues, and all the suffrings on women but not showing how to get out out of it...........in our society women like pratigya already have all the courage to fight back for their rights but ty shd show women like kesar taking a stand for themselfs............our show shows social evils but thy don't know the correct manner in which it shd b shown,so that women and our society get inspired of it.........showing such serious social evils with a touch of dramatic masala and ll is not gonna work for society and specially for women whom thy want to inspire from their shows.....Originally posted by: Mili97Hi Pragati,
I have always been of the opinion that if the POPs are showing torture they should also show a way out of it. There are so many women who may be in a similar situation and looking for some answers about how to get out their messy lives. I agree, MKAP does not show workable solutions that a battered or a harrassed woman can use.
Originally posted by: pragati.tankha
elle,it's not about sudden reform and all.....wat cv's have to show is women fighting back for their self respect...........in our society women are under so much pressure of family and society that thy don't have enough courage to stand up for their self respect and all...............showing women fighting back for their rights in a correct manner chd bring transformation in our society.........well i must say the way cv's have showed social evil like eve teasing was vry contradictory n i doubt if ny grl get ny inspiration from pratigya......at least i didn't..................of one side thy showed krishna loves her toooo much and on other side thy showed krishna following her haraassing her but he had no idea that he was eve teasing her...........comeone ....no matter how much a guy is illitarate he must have the sence to know that hez eve teasing a grl........but krishna didn't showed that he was doing all this to harraass prats......
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