Posted: 10 January 2011 at 11:56am | IP Logged
Originally posted by groucho
Originally posted by hermoinee
Originally posted by neenu55
she is not doubting veer
she said veer is a good human being
and he loves her lot
but she is crying for her destiny
first marriage not work ed
now second marriage
but husband gg to have a baby with first wife
its realy sad yaar
if i were at ichaa's place i will definitely feel bad abt it
Life has dealt her cruel blows and she is very insecure and has low esteem due to her position as a maid's daughter living on the uttaran and compassion of rich people. So she is naturally worried and unhappy about the turn of events. Veer is her only hope, but since she is afraid of losing him also because of Tappu's kid, she is wondering about her position and is seeking solace and help from Vansh, as she married Veer only because she felt Vansh wanted it. Anyway today it was a very depressing episode.
hermoinee - I think Ichcha has been luckier than a lot of others. One thing in my opinion is that after Jogi decided to care for her she has never been made to feel that she was a maid's daughter. In fact, look how well she turned out versus the rich man's daughter.
She knew it was Veer's child from the beginning.........so why would it upset her now?? If Mai, Nani and Daddaji could not make her leave out of insecurity why should she let Chanda's words upset her. All she needs to do is to tell Veer once he returns.
I do not agree that she married Veer because Vansh wanted it. She married Veer because she loved him but waited till Vansh validated her love.
I agree today was a lousy episode.
Groucho... Agreed that she has been lucky that Jogi adopted her, but Nani, Divya and Co. have always made her not forget her place as a maid's daughter in that house. Even when Veer came for Ichcha's hand the first time after mutually deciding with Tappu that they are not made for each other, and even after Jogi's agreeing to get her married to Veer, she hesitates to agree in spite of her love for Veer because she feels so obliged to them that she feels she is taking away Tappu's right. There we can see her insecurity and loyalty to Jogi and Tappu.
Being the soft natured and gentle person she is, she finds it tough to keep her wits together and smile, when she is continuously bombarded with insults and taunts from all people except Umed and Veer, both of whom are not with her in the house most of the time and thus, being subjected to kitchen politics all the time. Anyway she tried to stop Chanda and broke down only when alone. She may be broadminded in accepting Veer's baby, but it definitely is an unpleasant fact and strain for her, because all said and done, it is the proof of some relationship, with or without love, however small Veer makes it out to be, between Veer and Tapasya.
When she was so hesitant about marrying Veer the first time, after becoming a widow, for her to take such a bold step would not have been possible but for 2 important events- first, Vansh telling her in her dream to move forward and marry Veer; second, the sindoor on her forehead when she asks Lord Krishna for guidance. But for these two events, she would not have taken the drastic step of marrying Veer in spite of her love for him because she felt bad about her feelings for him while being Vansh' widow.