Posted: 09 January 2011 at 10:25pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Suchi-NivReniac
mahi, yaar i am 27 i do not think I am an aunty yet LOL. but then again I have 3 kids! so lol
Yeah I did get married young well 20 and I did my college after that so I can understand their mindset too but it rarely happens. Its very hard to finish your education after marriage.
there are so many responsibilities , especially if you have a child.
So yes.. well, study and get your education but in case, if your prince comes along ( I do not want to say charming lol cause he is an idiot, watch Cinderella 2 to know the story LOL )
Then do whats good for you , for your future. you know ur situation better
I wish the best for you, for this life and hereafter !!! : ) : ) : ))))
You know di, you're my bhaiyya's age. So no worries sweetie, you're still not an auntie. Actually I'm the auntie, na? Because technically I am your children's mausi. Choti behein hoon so haqt banta hai. But my bhaiyya, he is also 27 like you (and no I don't say he is old) lekin abhi shaadi nahin hui. He's been with this girl Farah for 8 years but since she is Pakistani and we are not, it's a rough topic in my house.
But anyways, di.. we can't all be like you, na? Be a wife, mother AND student. Especially if it is a medical student. So much hard work di and I'm not prepared just yet. InshaAllah in a few years.
I am very scared because a lot of aunties tell me to stop pursuing the medical career because it takes so long and I need to settle down and get married and have a family but my dream has always been to be a doctor and InshaAllah go to the small towns in India, Bangladesh and Pakistan and treat the poor people. It's always been a dream of mine but the aunties tell me that sometimes we have to choose between career and family and I can't do that. So please make dua for me. InshaAllah Allah gives me the best of both worlds and I can be a great doctor and a great wife and mother (as I will never forget my sisterly and daughterly duties).
As for my prince... don't worry, he won't be like any of the fairytale princes. InshaAllah, he'll be real and perfect (for me at least) and he'll just be my knight in shinning armor. My rajkumar.
But thank you di. I hope the best for you too sweetie.
Edited by mahix3 - 09 January 2011 at 10:28pm