Posted: 10 January 2011 at 8:22pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mittusingh
Hello all...I did read all your views but am unable to reply as my 15 month old son developed a bad could and fever for past two days..he is feeling better now and I had a quick question...
Viren keeps wanting Nivi to question him on his ongoings?
1. Phone call where he mentioend his girlfirend and he exclusively asked Nivi what she thinks.
2. The gift which was covered in gold wrap - this happened two times and this was also done on purpose by Viren
3. This train ticket - I saw the scene againa dn again atleast 5 times..>Viren was very obviously coaxing Nivi to find the so called urgent Papers in his wallet.
I wonder why does he want Nivi to question him....is this way of him knowing that Nivi really cares about him... Does he want to what extent does Nivi cares about him...
he once mentioned that for him love and pagalpan are one and the same and he can go to any extent.. ??
If this has already been discussed let me knwo which page or do let me know ur thoughts on this??
Hello, I don't believe we've met. But hi. I'm Mahi.
As for your question, the reason is simple and what you stated. He wants her to question him so he knows she cares. He wants to stir up emotions in her. Anger. Jealousy. Whatever he can get to see how she really feels about him. The main factor here is that whatever Nivi does, she stops herself from letting it go too far. She looks at him then stops herself. She loses herself in his eyes or in his romantic moments but then fixes herself and stops whatever was happening. What Viren wants is for her to cross those boundaries and show/ say what she feels. There's this saying that the truth comes out in our angriest times and what we say when we fight is what the truth really is-- have you noticed, that fights make relationships stronger? (Truth is that all fights make relationships stronger unless the relationship wasn't built to last.) Now what Viren is trying to do, although maybe not fight with Nivi, but get her to the point where all her bottled up feelings and emotions come pouring out.
Yes, Viren did mention that for his love he can go to any extent and that there is a thin line between his love and pagalpan because as the saying goes: "Jo pyaar karta hai, pagal ban jata hai" and it's true because you lose yourself in love. Love is a different state of sanity... it's more like insanity because in love you do what you normally wouldn't. That's how I take what he said.
...now this reminds me of this song that I love... listen to it...