Posted: 07 January 2011 at 8:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Cutie-NivRen
Bani in hatred for Divya you forgot right now her motif is also wellbeing of Nivi and she is not thinking of getting her out of her life later after knowing truth she may feel this but right now she is genuinly concerned about her. I know she is self centered but many times she did show she is concerned about her. Rightnow she is not in CC club rest I agree with you even about Viren even I as thinking this.
I dont hate someone till the person shows that extreme selfish nature. Divya wants Nivi to get ok, till her own self is not hurt. After that, if Nivi gets some "bacha kucha pyar" is ok for her...If you have analysed her character well, you would have seen that she always wants Nivi to be the second choice to her. She should get prime importance and then out of sympathy, she should shower left over on Nivi.
My ideology in life is I can forgive a criminal, but not a selfish person. Because a criminal kills one once but a selfish and selfcentred person stays in someone's life and kills the person by slow poison...uttering few words "Nivi, I love you" does not make her love unconditional or does not make her motif good. She has time and again proved her selfishness not only towards Nivi but towards everyone. And this feeling is in her from before, its not just CC's instigation. CC identified this point of Divya and is cashing on that for her benefit.
One instance, when Nivedita found that Divya was committing suicide, what was her action? and now tally it with Divya's, when Divya felt Nivi was committing suicide,what she did for Nivi?????...some people utter many big talks, but in action they are zero. Her dadi was in detah bed, she does not feel like talking to her. Ddasaheb is sick, she does not feel like spending one moment with him but can question Nivi and inform her "lekin hum e to dadaji ki chinta hogi", what she does to relieve that "chinta"...she tries to show her love for her MIL, and brings in a red sari for a widow? her love is just show-off, she never does anything from her heart. She wanted to woo Vandana but since it was ashow off, it failed...
there are many I can write....for now, this is enough I suppose..
Edited by Omshanti1111 - 07 January 2011 at 8:51am