Posted: 11 January 2011 at 10:20pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by krystal_watz
It is apparent that i was unable to get my point through. What i was suggesting was, that emotional intimacy is the precursor to love, and the manner in which Piya is shown to be "falling" for Abhay is absurd, since there has not been any blossoming of friendship between them till now. I know your point that the actions of Piya denote her "Love" for Abhay, but, taking the events under a realistic scrutiny, thats not possible. Yeah -so, how much does she know him as a person? Think this over in a practical fashion and you'd get me.
But anyway, as you said -each one to his own. I respect the way you feel.
ok now i get your point
@ bold not all love stories begin with friendship, a blossoming friendship between a couple might lead them to fall in love and their love might be more stronger in term if bonding because they know each other more
However people tend to fall in love, even without knowing a person! thats why many people get heart broken and fall out of love once they get to know that person well and know his true colors!
i believe knowing someone well and accepting him the way he/she is what makes the bond of love much stronger, and its what called unconditional love,
however its not the reason to fall in love!
falling in love can not be explained most of the time, because it might happen any time and you might fall for a person you have just met and you might fall for the wrong guy!, who might not have any qualities of your dream boy!
and this applies to Piya's case too, so she doesn't know him well, you are right, but she has seen his good side and she loves what she has seen of him so far
still she has fallen for him despite him having some secrets as she suspects! because as i said knowing a person isn't the reason to fall in love, but it sure makes you either feel much stronger for them once you know them well and accept them or make you hate them later on if you started to hate their guts!
so tomorrow when she gets to know him well she either might fall out of love or maybe she feels much stronger for him if she accepted him for what he is
anyhow if you still didnt get what i am trying to say lets agree to disagree ..its all cool
Edited by ka7eela - 11 January 2011 at 10:55pm