Posted: 16 January 2011 at 12:49am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Amber_1
Originally posted by ka7eela
i know there is so much more to it then meet the eye, thats why i said its a mix of many emotions and as you said it consists of respect, understanding, caring..etc
@ bold i know what you mean sometimes it can turn ugly but then maybe it wasn't true love after all! or maybe was but then when you get to know him well you started to hate his guts hence you parted
aree yaar let me believe that it is magical! i want to experience it too @blue dont worry i know you are a girl ..jk
*sigh*That little period of butterflies in the tummy and heart sinking is TOTALLY worth all the crap that comes when reality hits. So alright...it is magical
. Anyhow...another one of the things i totally disagree with. Just like you can fall without a reason, you can fall out of it without a reason too. That doesn't make your emotions or feelings invalid. Love is a mixture of so many emotions....and just because you don't respect the person like before or that attraction isn't present anymore because of circumstances or whatever reason, doesn't mean your emotions were never true to begin with.
So many women stay in abusive relationships because of this one word. Being 'in love' doesn't mean you should take the crap. People change, our emotions tied to those people can change with them. There's nothing wrong with it. But that shouldn't make your feelings invalid.
and lmao...don't worry I have no plans of giving up my lady-hood
@ bold ..thank you! thank you!, you agreed at last
@ green.. emotions are never invalid,
but i believe that when its true and deep love it will grow with time, but we can not take everything for granted, a couple has to strive to keep the love strong, y being there for each other, caring for each other , respecting , giving each other space..etc
this what makes love go stronger
@ blue falling in love with a selfish or abusive person is the worst kind of love, and people who stay with them are fools, and eventually will destroy their lives
@ brown..thank God! and who wanna be a hairy gorilla eww!
( p.s i hope no boys are reading this)
Edited by ka7eela - 16 January 2011 at 12:49am