Posted: 09 January 2011 at 4:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tvdekhunga
taali ek haath se nahi bajti....
Isnt this hypocritical that she knows her husband is cheating on her...
n she herself forced gaurav to cheat on his wife!!! See this is what i don't agree with. Yes she did create the situation where Gaurav ended up cheating his wife but i don't think she intended it that way. She genuinely thgt she would convince Gaurav to give the other relation and start life with Vidya. I don't think she got him married saying marry Vidya for the sake of family but can carry on with the other relation. Now that would be hypocritical as she is victim of infidelity which is affects and she would intentionally want it for DIL
i mean yes as a mother she wants her kids to b unaware of the fact that how fake n bad brahma is....
But i guess as a person she would never want her kids to idolise a person like that...as u said gaurav is mature enough n so is aditya.
I cannot connect with her character no matter how hard i try.
Its like marrying a corrupt and chauvinistic male "pros****** (ssp) but still being a perfect happy family in front of people.Honestly i dont find any reason to lie to myself. Yes the SSP cheats on her and she ignores it but she is not the only one who ignores such act of infidelity from their spouse to keep their family intact. She could have walked out of the marriage but she could have lost her kids to that man. That is what the drama is all about how we break away from such clutches of the society and stick up for one's self respect. To be honest in reality at times some women who have self respect yet continue to live with such spouses for various reasons and kids is one big reason. Devyani seems to be that kind of person
n gaurav - m not saying he is doodh ka dhoola ,yes he is responsible for vidyas misery,he is spoiling her life but i guess him n devyani will have to pay a heavy price for it.
sorry for that "p" word but i jst wanted to explain my point ...m not bashing the character or anything.