yes Gaurav is at fault i would say 40% by marrying vidya but one person who is a hypocrite selfish and a diplomat is devyani.i dislike her character.
She wants to "protect" her maryada (DELUSIONAL) by crossing any limit .
she knew from day one dat gaurav is never ever going to accept a girl in his life.she forced him to marry a girl.
and we know gaurav is a mommas boy,he understands his mom too well ..rememba that scene where brahma comes in than walks out of the house without even saying a word to devyani n gaurav just looked at his dad ...could c his moms pain.
If devyani was a true woman than she would not let this happen to another woman.
as bau ji said vidya toh gaaye hai usko bandh liya tune priya ko nahi bandh payegi...
Devyani kuch hi dino mein tumhari DELUSIONAL maryada tutegi