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Posted: 09 January 2011 at 12:02am | IP Logged
1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?
A. No one actually.Badi maa,dadaji n Sona did all this just to see SuShaan happy together forever,so it is not wrong but the circumstances made it wrong.
         But now I feel Ishaan is wrong,he should understand her ,I know may be she said that she actually doesnt care for him but he know that she actually does,he should ask his heart once he will get his answer.
      These two know that they do love each other,but they r not realising it or not wanting to.

2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?
A. YES..!!!! Being just a FRIEND of Ishaan,she doesnt have a right to talk about relationship of a wife n husband.It is their PERSONAL LIFE n no one has the right to interfere.One should know their limits about what to talk n what not.Sona is wrong here.

3.Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slappeed Sona right?
 A. He is PARTLY RIGHT n PARTLY WRONG.He was right in asking what wrong she said by having a doubt on their relationship,that they r actually wife-husband or not,his vexness was visible (Jay was brilliant) but I think that he was a bit rude. Confused

4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?
A. Actually it is wrong,but as it is THE SUHAANA BAJPAI she does everything what comes to heart so it was right of her to react that way.

5.Is there a limit in friendship?Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan dint knew that)
A. YES..!!! offcourse.......every relationship has its own limitations.One cant go n ask anyone anything n moreover a wife-husband relationship is a very personal n close to heart n no one I repeat NO ONE has to interfere.And,being close to a friend is different but always being with him/her n making others feel annoying is not right.
    And moreover,Ishaan came to know Suhana doesnt like Sona very much n already there was a bit of tension in between them during that game,so he should have acted a bit carefully


Thank u Aman for such a beautiful discussion where I was able to share my feelings Smile


Edited by -Yash- - 09 January 2011 at 12:09am

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Originally posted by reniji66


1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?
Suhanna is just immature, not wrong.  Even at this point she still does not quite understand her feelings. Ishaan is very wrong.  If a guy were all over Suhanna like that, he would NEVER accept it, and we all know that.  I will not waste my time on BM or Dadaji.  They are foolish.  Jealousy is rotten and breeds mistrust.  They caused mistrust to crop up in Suhanna where there was none before.  I hate them both for what they did.  And the CVs are stupid for having a women whose husband left her try her hand at a love connection.  She should have been helping Suhanna cultivate love and appreciation for Ishaan, instead of trying a petty, stupid game like jealousy.  Sona is the dumbest person in this whole fiasco.  Anyone would know when asked that this was a very, very, very bad idea.  And when she saw things spinning out of control, she should have said this has to end.  She is an idiot and should not be praised for what she did.  She proved herself a terrible friend to Ishaan.

2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?
You better believe it! Suhanna should have slapped her sooner and harder.  If I ever saw a woman, friend or no friend, put her arms around my husband, I'd do a lot more than that little slap.  And NO ONE has the right to question your relationship as husband and wife, no matter what that relationship is or isn't.  That is a personal thing between you too and Sona crossed her limits and Suhanna put her in her place.  Bravo Suhanna.Clap
3. Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slapped Sona right?
Yes and No.  At that point he should have realized that Suhanna was jealous. Yes he had a right to say what he did about their lack of a relationship, but the timing was all wrong.  He should have asked her if she were jealous in a way that may have had Suhanna admit her true feelings or atleast understand them.  But this is a serial and they had to stretch it to the weekend!LOL

4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?
Yes and it was good that she told him that Ishaan and Sona have a thing going on. This way her dad would understand that there is a problem involving Sona and he could let the others know. I'm glad she left so that BM had a fearful night after knowing she instigated this whole mess. 

5. Is there a limit in friendship? Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan didn't know that).
There is a limit to everything.  Friendship has its boundaries and married people understand that better or worse, sometimes, than most. When you get married, you give up a lot of your opposite sex friends because you know how it CAN make your mate feel. Even if that person was like a brother or sister to you, you have to consider your husband or wife.  Childhood is childhood, but Ishaan and Sona are not children anymore.  Hugging and favoring each other was bound to make Suhanna feel badly even if Ishaan thought she didn't love him.   If you think about it, when did Ishaan ever hug Suhanna or show her any interest the way he did Sona?  NEVER!  He's an idiot in this case and even though he enjoyed all the attention Sona gave, he was wrong to do these things.
In my very long answer post I will just say, thank good ness this storyline is over.  So far it has been the worst of this show.  I honestly have not watched the show in weeks, only checking to see when Sona would be gone.  I couldn't watch as I felt so badly for Suhanna putting myself in her shoes.  Shame on you CVs for this lapse in judgment.  You owe us some romance and lightness big time.


Oh.. you are comapring this with real life?!!! I think we do not ever do so. Because, as a real life aspect this serial is a blunder (eventhough comparing to other serials it is far far better). First of all, at the time when he seeked alliances definitely he would think about his only girl friend Sonali who understands him most and to whom he is this much concerend about - no matter there is no such a love between them. but it is difficult believe that he deos not have contact with her in this age of orkut eventhough he is an IT Professional. Ok... Ishaan had a memory loss at that time. we can leave it in the way that they do not love each other or in such way that they didn't identify each other as the things that are very close to our eyes cannot be seen. the people who remembered her now also did not think about her when he was dis-hearted in marriage due to continuous NO from many girls. whatever, lets leave that matter. I think in real life no guy will agree to marry a girl who played with his emotions without meeting her in face. Ok.. Ishaan thought she was planning to start a new episode of her life with him... so lets leave that too..  but anybody will allow a girl to  live with even after she said she never can love him...??!!!! We can forget that also... however in real life, a person will be dis-hearted with such a life from which he does not get respect, consideraton, value etc... he will hate that life within a few months, sure!! but here Ishaan is loving this girl more and more.. :) and tell me in real life which family will tolerate such a spoilt, short-tempered and egoish gal?? Now you like Suhana because you know she is immatured and she is not wrong. How?? it is because Kashyap family showed enough patience to take the things easy from the beginning itself. in real life I don't think that there will be such a family. In reality, if a gal behave like this she would be sent back to her home very soon. Here badi ma and dadji speak for that gal who does not love their son. and try to bring her in the way of love. For that nobody try to play such type of game. Coz, as SO-Shaan is intimate and SU-Shaan is believed in a fake relation ship, there is chance of opposite result. And there is a limit of eveything. that is applicable not only for firendship but for Ishaan's sufferings and Suhana's superiority complex also. So..  if we scan things in such ways it never applicable to a real life. So i think it is not wise we compare the things in a story with our life. I  think, it is not possible to take a serial with happening of the real life only.  But still this serial is very close to our brain....

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1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?
sona and ishaan are wrong, sona gets more and more closer to ishan she should understand that suhana has som feelings for ishaan know and leave themback, ishaan should understand his wife



2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?
dat was a good reaction qauz if a woman is bad or good no wife would lether husabnd eb with another woman together


3. Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slapped Sona right?
no not at all, he should understand suhana know he forgets her day byday
 



4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?
partly of she did right, qauz finally his dad should know better said her familiy should know that suhana is not happy with anyone there



5. Is there a limit in friendship? Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan didn't know that).
yes there must be a limit between freindship and marriage life qauz a frienship from old days can destry u marriagelife
keep ur firendship but in a limit not over


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