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Posted: 05 January 2011 at 11:16pm | IP Logged


Hello Guys!!

So I have seen ton's of topic on Suhana, Ishaan, Badima and Dadaji and offcourse sona regarding track of this show.

I though it would be interesting to bring up a few questions on who is wrong or right..

So I have a few questions I would like you all to answer and we can carry our discussions from there.


1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?

2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?

3. Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slapped Sona right?
 

4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?

5. Is there a limit in friendship? Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan didn't know that).


Phew.. that all I can think of at the moment...

So what are your views??
 

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Edited by Angelic_A - 05 January 2011 at 11:20pm

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Posted: 06 January 2011 at 1:57am | IP Logged
1.No one. All are right in their perspective
2.Yes. Any one would have done the same
3.Yes
4.I think yes. What else one would do?
5.I think that was ok considering Suhana's imaature behavior. Any husband with a wife like suhana will be happy to have an understanding friend. i know Ishan is not in love with her. But a friend who understands his feeling is what he finds in sonali

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1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?
 
 Everyone is wrong ...
Suhana -- not expressing her feelings to ishaan towards sona's overcloseness.
Ishaan - unable to understand suhana feelings even after picnic.
Sona, Badima and Dadaji - Badi maa even seeing suhana's sadness,dard wanted to continue this plan,became an MIL rather than a mother to suhana and sona to continue the plan even after rajni-disha told her how suhana is upset with her.

2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?
 
No.. Sona has not right to talk to suhana's relationship, Infact If suhana has questioned Sona THAT WHO IS SHE TO ASK HER ABOUT HER RELATIONSHIP WITH ISHAAN ????? 
IS SONA - HER MOM, HER SISTER, HER MIL, SISTER-IN-LAW, OR EVEN A FRIEND ??? WHO IS SHE TO ASK HER and
Wanted suhana told her - SONA ASK THE SAME QUESTION TO ISHAAN HE WILL GIVE YOU THE ANSWER AND HAVE LEFT THE ROOM.

3. Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slapped Sona right?
 
Ishaan is the real culprit here ..Suhana is asking Ishaan why he went to pub with sona ??? She has right to ask her husband and who is sona to interfer in their personal matter ??? If Ishaan stood like a Man and would have told Sona , to leave the room , as it is their wife and husband matter. Sona would have left the room and suhana would have cooled, that slap to sonali would not happened. 

4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?
 
Not right atall.

5. Is there a limit in friendship? Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan didn't know that).
 
Every relationship have limits and friendship after marriage that boy-girl friendship should be in limits. Ishaan surely crossed his limits with sona and he is no more bolu, ishaan character changed like a complete makeover to ishaan's character now . Most of viewers are feeling IS REALLY ISHAAN LOVES SUHAANS???


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1. Well all of them hv gone wrong n RIGHT...at diff points....so no-one is 100% wrong...

2. Yes it was the right decision....i wud rather say she shud hv given two more....one slap ws not atall enuf for sona......no wife will appreciate such comments/questions even if it comes frm a very very close frnd...

3. Yes....bt he cud hv avoided taking sonas side soo much....tht part ws OTT.....bt leaving tht....his outburst...his complains were right..

4. No...bt considering her maturity level...dis ws expected.

5. YEs....there hs 2 be a limit of CLOSE PROXIMITY in friendship wid the opp sex after ur married....being so open abt everything...doesnt work...n then there r fights....like it happened in this case.

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1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?
 
In my POV, I cant really say whose the fault really is... Coming from Suhana..She is veri innocent and naive kinda girl and got married to Ishaan only to show SID that she is a MARRIAGE MATERIAL. But she really was unable to realise that Marriage is a life long relation and Very Pure...She only thought of herself and never thought about Ishaan...And later, she decided to move out and then badi maa recieved the letter and all...And Suhana now stays with the KASHYAPs and just is ignorant of Ishaan's and her's relationship..She just think that the way Ishaan treats her is his liking towards her. But in the recent episodes, She went to KK saying that Ishu dun love suhana but Sonali...But this girl cant even understand why she is not able to tolerate their relation...
 
Next Comes Ishaan...I must say, He have became the Patty in between two burger buns namely Suhana and Sonali...And He is completely Sandwiched in between his friend and wife. Must agree to him while he said that Sonali is his friend..But he is NOW MARRIED... He must know that he should not behave in the same way with Sonali as he used to before..This BHOLU must understand the feelings of his LADY LOVE.....
 
Sonali, She indeed is doing a good thing by taking the risk of being scolded by other family members ...I appreciate her care for her friend..But Over Chipakna is one thing which went wrong..And she must have not questioned Suhana..And she really deserved the SLAP..
 
Badimaa...I must say, I appreciated this woman from before for her maturity in taking the decisions.I learnt alot from her.I even wished to meet a person like her in my life..Her love for Ishaan is justified..And her goal of uniting Sushaan is also good but OPTING this way is not good...She knew Suhana well but she still did this...And Suhana was really left alone..and she was disheartened...Badimaa is known for distributing her love equally for every one...And more for Elesh and Suhana..But I didnt see this in this track..
 
Dadaji,I liked his concern for sushaan..But all I can say is the way he opted is Really WRONG and RISKY..And to some extent it was okay..ANd now, we have already seen the result when the limits are exceeded...
So, I cannot say whose the mistake really is...
But Badimaa and Dadaji must atleast tell about their plan to others now..
 

 
2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?
 
I think yes....We can say that Suhana had started to like Ishaan..And not only that, I think not only SUHANA, but each and every type of wife do get angry when someone behaves in that way with them...I think no one like to be questioned about their marital life..

3. Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slapped Sona right?
 
Its  partially right and partially wrong...Even we know that Suhana doesnt love Ishaan..Ishaan does na? He have to just understand how suhana feels when she is questioned in that way...And he supporting Sonali is not that good...
 
But really, there is no relation between Sushaan...But if this kind of relation really hurts him, he must have sorted the things out before itself...
 
I mean he opened his eyes only after Sonali came and asked about the situation...
 

4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?
 
Well, to say, its absolutely wrong..
But Its Suhana, who is very adamant and want the things to go in her style...
 

5. Is there a limit in friendship? Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan didn't know that).
 
Friendship has limits and on the other side, its limitless too...
 
Friendship only wishes the well being of a friend...Its good in a positive way...I mean in a positive way, without harming others feelings, a friend can go to any extent for his/her friend...
 
But when it goes to Extreme ends, things worsen..
Friendship of Ishaan and Sonali is good, but I didnt like the Over Fevicol ness...I must say Feviquick nature of Sonali...
 
 
Well, I know its very long...
But just my POV...

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1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?
SUHANA: She is wrong by taking so much time to realize her own feelings , not telling Ishaan what,s bothering her, she use to tell him everything, now she has stopped that.She is right at the same to feel being left out by the very people she is close with. She may not realize that she loves Ishaan, but she has always looked up to him ,and always listened to him after every problem she landed in , same with BAdi Maa , she thinks she cant go to her now as Sonali has taken over her as well.
ISHAAN: Ishaan use to read Suhana,s mind so well but lately he is ignoring her , may be unknowingly, but still its wrong, as he was giving so much attention to Suhana all the time and since Sonali,s arrival he has failed to do so. His fault is that he didnot balanced the relationship b/w the two ladies . And hence this over chipakna with Sonali, he is still living in childhood with her which is wrong as he should remember he is married, wether Suhana loves him ot noe he has taken a responsibility of a wife and he should have done his part.
BADI MAA:  BAdi Maa went wrong here by going with this plan with out knowing the reality behind Sushaan,s mairrage , if she would have known the circumstances of Suhana agreeing to marry Ishaan, she would have not gone for this route, after seeing Suhana miserable she should have stopped then. Also she didnt know wether Ishaan told Suhana that he love her or not, she just assumed that Ishaan must have said it and SUhana rejected him.
DADAJI: He went to opt this filmy romantic track, as being SHAHJAHAN and knowing his MUMTAAZ he thought the same formula would apply with Suhana as well!!! big mistake, plus he didnt know the whole story , both Badi Maa and Dadaji asssumed  that problem is only with Suhana and forgot about Ishaan and how he would behave with Sonali.
SONALI:  She should not have opted for the chipkoness rather she should have involved Suhana in every activity making her realize how cool Ishaan can be, also asking Ishaan as well did you tell your wife how much you love her. Instead of bonding physically with Ishaan she should have tried bonding Suhana and Ishaan.
 
2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?
Well its Suhana we are talking about, the question was very sour and the reaction was immediate and expected even to a normal person as well

3. Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slapped Sona right?
 He showed more concern towards Sonali rather then the reason of the slap, his questioning was right but very late and the timming was not right, the questions should have been different about why this reaction , not going in the past.

4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?
No , off course not, but anybody in her place would have done that, she should have taken the car though not in a taxi at night time that was risky.

5. Is there a limit in friendship? Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan didn't know that).
Yes physicall intimicay could lead to some unknown teritory, even if you are married or not, friends can share every thing but should not share physical intimiacy it would change the whole senario, it will be then boy friend and girl friend not just friend.

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1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?

I think nobody. I aready wrote on another blog regading this. Copying the same.

We cannot say that Ishaan is wrong. He might not forget the words she said in the first night of the mrg - It was a mistake... She would consider it as a dream... He is not person of her type, her level, desire etc.  Thus he never expects that Suhana can love him. He could see Suhana gives support for the family and cares to them. But he never experienced such an affection towards him from her. And then, when Sonali came, he gets consideration and value from her. Hence it is natural that he becomes happy and confortable with her than Suhana. So we can not say that he is wrong. We see that When he talks to Suhana he cares to not hurt her, but while talking to Sona he feels free to talk in his own way that he is sure that Sona will not feel bad in it. That means Sushaan do not have such an attachment each other. And about the 'jealousy factor' -  Ishaan doubts that whether Suhana is jealous on Sona because she loves him!!!! Before he comes to the point... Suhana tells that she is not at all jealous to her and she just does not care if that gal loves him or not. So how can we blame on Ishaan?

 

And Suhana.. she is also right in a her way. She is a person having a complex character. She is absolutely a straight forward person. She says what comes in her mind, she does whatever she feels to do - with out caring the situations and others feelings. Actually, she is unaware that whether others have problems or not due to her words or activities. She really doesn't want to hurt anybody. Another peculiarity of this gal is she does not want to express her weakness in front of others. She hesitates to admit her faults in the presence of others, but she definitely regrets on the same inside her. If she feels that anybody catches her weakness or faults, she strongly opposes with anger. These are some of the peculiarities of her character. There is a solid reason for all these that she is motherless and there was nobody to direct her on these type of things as her father too was busy with his business. She had grown up in her own way and she has her own point of view towards life. She got whatever she desired.... she has been considered as most important person so far. All these aspects made her spoilt is the truth. But with all these she is innocent, good and does not know to cheat. means she is definitely a soft minded person. But the villain is her unknowingness. When Ishaan shouts on her about slapping Sona, she tells that what she did is absolutely right. But that clealy says that she also has a feeling that she shouldn't have to slap her. she regrets on that.  When Ishaan asked about whether she is jealous to Sona just because she loves him. She told she is not jealous and she does not care about Ishaan. That specifically says she is jealous and she is concerned about Ishaan. That is the way she expresses her feelings in such situations. As Ishaan could not understand about this, he thinks that the reason of her worries is she cannnot adjust with him and she regrets on this life.

 

And Sonali, I don't think she is also wrong. As per my view, Ishaan and Sonali have such a close friendship that lies on the border of friendship and love. When she arrived, Badi ma said that she left to US on the day of Ilesh and Disha's mrg.. something like that. So its being max of 5 or 6 yrs they have not met each other. So i feel it is not a very old friendship. When I see the closeness of both, I have a feeling that if this Sona didn't go to US, perhaps this friendship would be developed as a love. All these are my point of view only. It is not shown in serial also. I apologize if anybody has objections. Anyways, due this closeness badi ma asked her to do such a role and she said yes for her close friend. She has the knowledge that what she does is not good for a friendship. Also, she understands that as a result of this game, she will be hatred. And when Ishaan comes to know all about this she may lose her best friend even. But she suffers all these for that friend.there is no selfishness in her doing. So from the side of a friend she is also right.

 

And Badi Ma and Dada ji.... they are also right as per teir thoughts. Suhana is a person who does not like advices. If she is advised, she might not take the things in right sense. She cannot understand it in the right way. So when Suhana herself has the feelings of her love, they think it will work. So they look for the aim not the way (as Bhagavtgeeta tells).

 

Rajni and Disha, as a part of them they interfered in right time. They told Sonali that Suhana has problem when she mingles with Ishaan. SO they are also right.  

 

2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?

This was right in an aspect.

 

3. Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slapped Sona right?

Yes. Then he behaved as a real husband.

 

4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?

No, leaving a home without saying a word at mid night is not right.

 

5. Is there a limit in friendship? Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan didn't know that).

That's OK I think. Sonali tried to let Suhana know that Ishaan is not such a person as she thinks. And about Sona-Ishaan relationship – we can understand that they were like that before also. That's y the older people in the Kashyap family do not feel bad in it. They feel it as usual.

And another thing is, I don't think that the exact problem with Suhana is not the friendship between Ishaan and Sonali. Of course, the closeness between them is one of the reasons. But the exact problem is that she is jealouse to Sonali. That irritation started before Sonali reached in Kashyap family itself. After knowing the news that Sonali's arrival, all the family members were very excited and all had only one name to say Sonali.. sonali.... Sonali... They were busy with purchasing good things for Sonali, Choosing best bed sheets etc made Suhana a feeling that her importance becomes faded. When she reached, her feelings got firmed.  For her that Sonali is smarter, intelligent and beautiful which broke all her expectations.  And the very next day Sonali won the bet and followed by each time she has a feeling that she is getting failed. In between, her loving sis Sanju also praised Sonali about her fashion sense. its very hard for Suhana to believe and admit that. Her ego does not allow her to get failed. And thus she has a competitive mind towards Sonali. She afraids whether this Sonali will steal her importance, position or not. Thats y she interprets when sonali said she'd create the rangoli and she would suggest the place for tour etc. Gradually, she gets tensed that in the case of Ishaan also, whether her importance is getting less. So she struggles to win. That struggle makes her understand that Ishaan is her….

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1. Who is wrong? Suhana, Ishaan, Sona, Badima and Dadaji, or no one? Why?

As everyone said..all are at fault at situations...
Suhana not telling her dislike to anyone..she could have told to anyone..BM,Rano,Alok, R&D anyone..Ishaan would have got the point

Ishaan...not being matured enough at this friendship and maintained the same way he was before marriage...and then not even asking why suhana is dull in picnic...

BM and dadaji...for going on with the plan for too long...they could have stopped with picnic or even before that...but they continued...huge mistake....

Sona..for being such an irritating person in the middle...she did what she was told to do...but still what she did in picnic and pub was not acceptable

2. Was Suhana's reaction to Sona's words on Suhana and Ishaan's relationship a right way to deal with the situation? Why or why not?

I would say slapping sona should her immaturity. If suhana was matured and had control she would have just asked her to shut up and get up or would have questioned ishaan about how she can ask that question to her and does she have the right....or may be taken the situation sona is creating to the elders..but slapping i dont agree....


3. Was Ishaan's reaction towards Suhana after Suhana slapped Sona right?

To an extent right...only time he was wrong was when he supported sona..other wise whatever he asked or him getting angry was right...but on a wrong cause...he could have accepted that sona questioning was wrong but suhana was also wrong slapping her...

 

4. Was Suhana right to go to her dad's house during the mid night?

no...she could have called and left..or told someone...if something would have happened to her...another track could have started..TG nothing happened...


5. Is there a limit in friendship? Sona-Ishaan relationship (even though we know Sona was doing it on purpose but Ishaan didn't know that).

There is a limit to friendship especially when one gets married...ishaan could have been very close to sona as they are childhood friend but now that he is married he should have set a limit..we are all aware that ishaan has no other feeling for sona...she is his best friend thats it...but he should have thought what his wife will



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