Posted: 07 January 2011 at 10:05am | IP Logged
i join the chorus for sulo/man to kick vinod and manju out of the house. they have had way too many chances to prove themselves to be loving and contributing members of this K family and they have failed every time, big time, out of jealousy, greed, (manju) and stupidity (vinod).
but about either manav or archu telling vaishali about dharmesh.....i really really don't think it should happen. it almost never is a good idea to tell someone their husband or wife is having an affair. it is never in their best interest. and the betrayed spouse ALWAYS resents the one who told them. ALWAYS. so....the best thing is for a trusted friend of the cheating partner to lovingly confront them... but dharmesh has no friend who is morally upright. Satish, Manav, and Ajit are all morally upright and could take D. aside and say we know about this and we want you to know how much this is hurting your wife, etc. But D has alienated all those men. his only friend is jay-way...who is just as morally astray as D is - even more...so he will just laugh and find it funny. Perhaps having Dharmesh's parents
find out about it would be the best...they are in the best position to persuade their son....
the other scenario is that Dh. should just divorce Vaishali and marry Maduri. i actually think they are a better match........and maybe he would straighten out...she is dedicated to their child. I don't have any understanding yet about this request for a second child. maybe she thinks that Vaishali stole him from her. (maybe she did)...maybe she really loves D. and just wants his child again...but it is odd since she can't support alone the child varun, to seek a 2nd one, from a now married ex lover....that's just plain wrong.
sigh.......life is hard isn't it.
Edited by naava - 07 January 2011 at 10:48am