Posted: 23 January 2011 at 1:43am | IP Logged
People, especially woman! The number one mistake we or any one of you
CAN make.. is to believe.. that you can or wld want to change your man!
Its illogical! They should NOT show anything of that sort.. in
serial..that a woman, marries a man, in hopes that she can change him!
thats just simply a very wrong.. understanding! In all reality..if u
love him..you love EVERYTHING abt him..and u accept him..JUST the way he
is! Trying to change someone is like.. you don't like them in the first
place..and it feels suffocating for them too..which becomes a BIG turn
off! and in turn..the guys leave you.. because.. we are all
comfortable..with who we are..the thought of someone trying to
change..is.. just stifles..one..I'm a woman, myself..and I feel..
girls..it isn't wise to go by that outlook..it isn't gonna help trust
me!! We cannot No matter how hard we try..can change a man.. and that
kind of thinking should be out of our minds..to begin with! So i'm not
in favour of the belief.. of Runjhun changing Guddu. YES she can
"change" his misunderstandings, towards..her.. BUT change his
personality.. uhh..that does not sound... like a very healthy thought to
But yes.. Runjhun can Definitely.. INSPIRE Guddu to change.. but not
forcefully change him.. but it sounds like, after reading an
article..that Guddu is actually diff. from what he 'appears' to be!
Well, in that case, he started of being kind hearted and nice, but
something happened in between..and he "turned' into some gunda! but i
feel..the CVs might be going a bit too far.. with portraying his neg.
side.. Not good! they can add some info on him.. and keep it a
mystery..so we know, he actually isn't what he appears to be.. but oh
well..guess..through the articles..we are expected to know this piece of
info?! lol.. anyway.. enough of my lecture! lol..
Edited by rouble_lover - 23 January 2011 at 1:52am