Posted: 08 January 2011 at 1:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by luv_sakshi
Originally posted by Rehana86
@ Chandrika and Shanti didz
: err don't kill me but i'm happy that they didn't show Ragini's confession, in a way it actually makes sense because she has just started to grow feelings for him and it was wut? max 1 month in the show that she was reacting to anmol's little actions of expressing love....so according to me it wud've been too early to make a confession..... n for a mature woman like her who lost her dear husband, it takes time to be sure abt their feelings....well i admit 7 yrs have past, but these 7 yrs she didn't even bothered to think or might forgot that Anmol was her husband..... may be she just considered him as a supportive friend.....but her way of seeing things have changed around end of sep or beginning of oct, and since then she started to feel something new..... and it also had given a better scope to start B2.....i feel she needs to experience more of his love, some more ways of interactions btween the two would have been better for her to realize what Anmol means to her, and then she can go for a complete heartfelt confession.....it's better to show a developed confession than a rushed one..... so, i don't have any complaints about not showing Ragini's confession but the fact I am angry at is that they should have at least given them some privacy to have a talk about gradually developing their relationship ......some promises, some committments, some encouragement, some supports to help each other progress their relationship.....
did i make sense
..... can't help doubting myself
Well said Rehana! But by confession, i don't mean saying "I Love You n Can't Live Without You" at the outset...naturally, being so much in Love with Ranvir, Ragini wouldn't be able to accept another man in her life so easily...especially going by the circumstances in which they got married, Ragini was bound to stay cold towards Anmol for quite a while...probably any woman would do the same...but over time, Ragini began realizing that Anmol was a genuine person, who cared for the family n the business sincerely...they got talking on L'il issues relating to the office or home or the kids...Ragini felt more at ease to discuss issues with Anmol than she did at the time they got married...Angini then became friends...naturally on human grounds n as a true friend, she would feel concern on not seing Anmol return on time for the KC puja, especially knowing how attached he was to the family...so when Amol was making his confession, the least Ragini could've done is tell him that she was worried for him n was glad to see him safe..she smiled to herself when he left the room to get her gift..which means that what he had just told her a while ago, did have a L'l effect on her...she had even dreamt of him before the KC puja, blushing n wondering what was happening to her...clearly, she was being drawn towards Anmol, his simplicity n his genuine Love gradually...she only needed time to realize that fully! During the dance practice too Ragini would blush...n when she got to know about Shivani, it was so hard for her to let go off Anmol...going by all that she had been thru', when Anmol finally confessed before their wedding that he Loved only her, the CTs should've given Ragini some more space with Anmol even if it was privately, to talk things out..even about the way she felt...but at least they showed Ragini make eye contact with Anmol n express her desire to stay together till eternity!! Wish the CTs had incorporated L'il Angini moments often so that they could talk over their past, their feelings, their future, etc. with no scope for misunderstandings! The communication bit could've been given due importance as well...
Chandrika the bolded part I agree There was a little lack of communication on their personal front
I do agree that she was taking him as a gioid friend companion when it comes to feeling that she needed someone in crisis and also share her thoughts abt family and the need to prioritize what was important .
But I still feel after everything sorted but there was tremendous Hush hush
So no scoope or room for Ragini to realize what she felt for Anmol
We know Anmol's depth of love for Ragini, but Ragini's side I would say just started so nfortunate that we eneded up missing the most part of her side of complete feeling for Anmol
In any relationship there needs to be a balance between the man and women, Here Anmol as a person in this relationship portayed it well and was clearly seen to the viewers
But yes Ragini's side was'nt and the reason was their abrupt ending according to me
So I truly want season two with their story coz the chapter just begain and with second chances in falling in loev its a whole new ball game !