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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Phir toh you can accuse the whole desi society institution of "arranged" marriages and say they are also ridiculing them. LOL I don't care how you get married - agar shaadi ki hai toh usko nibhana bhi seekho. Otherwise apne ghar baitho! LOL


I would accuse the whole institution of "arranged" marriage as in the kind that forces people into marriages when they are genuinely mature or committed enough for it. As in the kind that focuses on metrics like caste, creed, income, religion, etc so much that they ignore compatibility, personality, and genuine love and willingness to spend a lifetime together.

But the rest I agree, marriage is a commitment - if you are not ready for it, don't do it.

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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:14pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by old-black-joe

Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*



Phir toh you can accuse the whole desi society institution of "arranged" marriages and say they are also ridiculing them. LOL I don't care how you get married - agar shaadi ki hai toh usko nibhana bhi seekho. Otherwise apne ghar baitho! LOL


ya doosro ke ghar mein so jao Tongue


Yeh kya baat hui? Shaadi ka ladoo aise bhi chaahiye aur waise bhi? LOL

Don't ask me to translate, because I'm not going to! :P
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:14pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by tulipbaby53


i agree, but i mean look at how people ridicule marriage by having shows like The Bachelor and The Bachelorette or even Swayamwars! 


Phir toh you can accuse the whole desi society institution of "arranged" marriages and say they are also ridiculing them. LOL I don't care how you get married - agar shaadi ki hai toh usko nibhana bhi seekho. Otherwise apne ghar baitho! LOL

Come on, do you really think those people publicize their marriage because they want to find "the one"? Why don't they just online date? LOL It's all a publicity stint for fame. Only marriage I actually saw work was Krista and Ryan from The Bachelorette. They might be the exception.

Oh and as for arranged marriages....I'm not going to discuss this. LOL My opinion's a little controversial on it.
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by old-black-joe

Originally posted by tulipbaby53

Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by old-black-joe



thats because lower quality men exist these days.. and women too, come to think of it.


"Lower quality" people exist in general and they've always existed and perhaps always will. Lack of self-control and lust is always prevalent in society. I just don't like how they mock and ridicule the sacred bond of marriage by marrying someone and then cheating on them.

i agree, but i mean look at how people ridicule marriage by having shows like The Bachelor and The Bachelorette or even Swayamwars! 


oh god, those shows are so ridiculous. None of those fake relationships last anyway! Wacko

i agree! they're just for publicity...cheap publicity

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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by old-black-joe



But dontcha feel that there are an increasing number of such awful people in this world? I remember old people saying, people just arent as nice as they used to be. I used to think they were just complaining abt the good ol' days, but I realise that  what they said held water, lots of it. What could be the reason be? More power? More money?

Also perhaps this concept of "free love" is getting more popular,  and there's no discipline anymore. Thats the only reason I think marriage is good, it instills discipline.

What? lol why are you so surprised? hi LOL


Nah, I just think that they are more open about these things now as they were before. Just because people didn't openly cheat on their spouses or end marriages back then does not automatically mean that they all were involved in happy marriages. It just means that they had no alternative. So it wasn't all good back in the day either, just like it isn't all good now. Granted a lot of divorces do occur because of frivolous reasons these days, but that's also because a lot of marriages happen for silly reasons too. But some marriages also happen for the right reasons, just like divorces happen for the right reasons too.

Not surprised - it just didn't register that a new person had entered the discussion. I replied and then realized it was you. LOL


All involved in happy marriages? naah I didn't say that. But definitely there has been a considerable increase in crappy marriages. Cheating happens due to certain human emotions embedded in all of us, but many people can't control it. That's why a bit of conservativeness  is quite helpful, its not that hard to live with!

anyway, I'm off , have a nice day all of you! or night, considering all three of you live in the US LOL
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:17pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tulipbaby53


Come on, do you really think those people publicize their marriage because they want to find "the one"? Why don't they just online date? LOL It's all a publicity stint for fame. Only marriage I actually saw work was Krista and Ryan from The Bachelorette. They might be the exception.

Oh and as for arranged marriages....I'm not going to discuss this. LOL My opinion's a little controversial on it.


Haha, I was just kidding. They are on television for some cheap publicity ... its all a load of bull! Whats even worse is that people actually watch these shows.

No go ahead, share your opinion of arranged marriages. I came off too cynical in the last post, I do believe in arranged marriages. I just don't think its everyone's cup of tea.
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:18pm | IP Logged
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by old-black-joe

Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*



Phir toh you can accuse the whole desi society institution of "arranged" marriages and say they are also ridiculing them. LOL I don't care how you get married - agar shaadi ki hai toh usko nibhana bhi seekho. Otherwise apne ghar baitho! LOL


ya doosro ke ghar mein so jao Tongue


Yeh kya baat hui? Shaadi ka ladoo aise bhi chaahiye aur waise bhi? LOL

Don't ask me to translate, because I'm not going to! :P


I understood what it meant. it means "what's this? you want the shaadi ka laddo this way and that? hahaha."

I'm a genius, ajnu. you just haven't realised it yet.

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