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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:07pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by old-black-joe



thats because lower quality men exist these days.. and women too, come to think of it.


"Lower quality" people exist in general and they've always existed and perhaps always will. Lack of self-control and lust is always prevalent in society. I just don't like how they mock and ridicule the sacred bond of marriage by marrying someone and then cheating on them.

Edit - Hey, Joe! Didn't even realize it was you making that post. LOL


But dontcha feel that there are an increasing number of such awful people in this world? I remember old people saying, people just arent as nice as they used to be. I used to think they were just complaining abt the good ol' days, but I realise that  what they said held water, lots of it. What could be the reason be? More power? More money?

Also perhaps this concept of "free love" is getting more popular,  and there's no discipline anymore. Thats the only reason I think marriage is good, it instills discipline.

What? lol why are you so surprised? hi LOL


Edited by old-black-joe - 10 January 2011 at 10:08pm

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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:08pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tulipbaby53


i agree, but i mean look at how people ridicule marriage by having shows like The Bachelor and The Bachelorette or even Swayamwars! 


Phir toh you can accuse the whole desi society institution of "arranged" marriages and say they are also ridiculing them. LOL I don't care how you get married - agar shaadi ki hai toh usko nibhana bhi seekho. Otherwise apne ghar baitho! LOL

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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by tulipbaby53


i agree, but i mean look at how people ridicule marriage by having shows like The Bachelor and The Bachelorette or even Swayamwars! 


Phir toh you can accuse the whole desi society institution of "arranged" marriages and say they are also ridiculing them. LOL I don't care how you get married - agar shaadi ki hai toh usko nibhana bhi seekho. Otherwise apne ghar baitho! LOL


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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tulipbaby53

Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by old-black-joe



thats because lower quality men exist these days.. and women too, come to think of it.


"Lower quality" people exist in general and they've always existed and perhaps always will. Lack of self-control and lust is always prevalent in society. I just don't like how they mock and ridicule the sacred bond of marriage by marrying someone and then cheating on them.

i agree, but i mean look at how people ridicule marriage by having shows like The Bachelor and The Bachelorette or even Swayamwars! 


oh god, those shows are so ridiculous. None of those fake relationships last anyway! Wacko
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by old-black-joe


But dontcha feel that there are an increasing number of such awful people in this world? I remember old people saying, people just arent as nice as they used to be. I used to think they were just complaining abt the good ol' days, but I realise that  what they said held water, lots of it. What could be the reason be? More power? More money?

Also perhaps this concept of "free love" is getting more popular,  and there's no discipline anymore. Thats the only reason I think marriage is good, it instills discipline.

What? lol why are you so surprised?


I don't think people are any more or less awful than they were in the past. In the past people did not have choices, today they do. However, people have not yet learned the responsibility that comes attached with these choices and freedom.
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:12pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by old-black-joe



But dontcha feel that there are an increasing number of such awful people in this world? I remember old people saying, people just arent as nice as they used to be. I used to think they were just complaining abt the good ol' days, but I realise that  what they said held water, lots of it. What could be the reason be? More power? More money?

Also perhaps this concept of "free love" is getting more popular,  and there's no discipline anymore. Thats the only reason I think marriage is good, it instills discipline.

What? lol why are you so surprised? hi LOL


Nah, I just think that they are more open about these things now as they were before. Just because people didn't openly cheat on their spouses or end marriages back then does not automatically mean that they all were involved in happy marriages. It just means that they had no alternative. So it wasn't all good back in the day either, just like it isn't all good now. Granted a lot of divorces do occur because of frivolous reasons these days, but that's also because a lot of marriages happen for silly reasons too. But some marriages also happen for the right reasons, just like divorces happen for the right reasons too.

Not surprised - it just didn't register that a new person had entered the discussion. I replied and then realized it was you. LOL
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Originally posted by old-black-joe


But dontcha feel that there are an increasing number of such awful people in this world? I remember old people saying, people just arent as nice as they used to be. I used to think they were just complaining abt the good ol' days, but I realise that  what they said held water, lots of it. What could be the reason be? More power? More money?

Also perhaps this concept of "free love" is getting more popular,  and there's no discipline anymore. Thats the only reason I think marriage is good, it instills discipline.

What? lol why are you so surprised?


I don't think people are any more or less awful than they were in the past. In the past people did not have choices, today they do. However, people have not yet learned the responsibility that comes attached with these choices and freedom.


So basically your saying that  this newfound freedom is being used by people without understanding how it can be used within limits LOL
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Posted: 10 January 2011 at 10:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Phir toh you can accuse the whole desi society institution of "arranged" marriages and say they are also ridiculing them. LOL I don't care how you get married - agar shaadi ki hai toh usko nibhana bhi seekho. Otherwise apne ghar baitho! LOL


I would accuse the whole institution of "arranged" marriage as in the kind that forces people into marriages when they are genuinely mature or committed enough for it. As in the kind that focuses on metrics like caste, creed, income, religion, etc so much that they ignore compatibility, personality, and genuine love and willingness to spend a lifetime together.

But the rest I agree, marriage is a commitment - if you are not ready for it, don't do it.

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