Posted: 03 January 2011 at 2:26pm | IP Logged
mittusingh, different ppl have different tolerance levels, ishaan abhi tak chup tha ki kabhi to suhana apne aap sach samjh jayegi, he kept consoing himself, that as long as suhana is staying with him even if under a pretence it is ok, he kept on goin in a one sided relationship.
But this was it, he couldnt take it any more and his pressure cooker burst. Because it is a fact, a pretense can go on only for so long. and one sided relationships can not happen, no matter how much one wishes, bechara ishaan karte gaya karte gaye, but now he cant any more hence he burst open.
It happens with a lot of ppl, they continue suffering being patient, but at some point they reach a boiling point. PPl have said that why didnt Ishaan say no when suhana agreed to stay back coz she had started liking the family, at that point Ishaan didnt realise that it is not posisbble to live under a pretence marriage, but now having lived that pretence for a while, inspite of being sad at the possibility of the marriage collapsing, suhana leaving he has had to say that they cannot continue under a pretence. It is only when you actually live, sometimes you realise that it is futile to keep hoping for someone to start loving you, If he /she dont love you, you cannot continue in the relation no matter how painful the closure is.
Ishaan took so long to realise it and finally all his hurt right from day one has come up. Which may surprise others, ki itna problem tha to why didnt he say before, it is just that at that point he was hoping againsst hope that maybe suhana may change or he can live under the pretence. Which in reality is not possible !